S1 E14. I knew I had to leave if I wanted to live!

** This episode contains discussions about domestic violence and some strong language. Listener discretion is advised. **

Lianne Torres shares her story of surviving an abusive relationship during the COVID-19 pandemic. She discusses the impact of the pandemic on her vulnerability and the red flags she missed in the beginning. Lianne recounts the moment the abuse escalated and how she found the strength to call 911 and escape. She emphasizes the importance of accountability and self-work in her healing journey. Lianne started a podcast to share her story and raise awareness about domestic violence. She encourages others to speak up and break the stigma surrounding abuse. In this conversation, Lianne Torres shares her journey of healing from an abusive relationship and finding self-love and resilience. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing personal growth and being comfortable with one's own company. Lianne discusses how her relationship patterns and attraction changed as her self-love grew. She also addresses the absence of domestic violence in her childhood and the impact it had on her perception of relationships. Lianne expresses gratitude for her personal growth and resilience, and shares her focus on podcasting and self-healing. She discusses the challenges and trust issues she faces in pursuing new relationships and emphasizes the importance of rebuilding trust and avoiding codependency.   Lianne also offers advice for those in abusive relationships and encourages them to speak up and seek support. She concludes by sharing her desire to be remembered as a thriver who embraces her scars and inspires others to thrive.   Takeaways Recognize the red flags in a relationship, such as love bombing and negative talk about ex-partners. The COVID-19 pandemic increased vulnerability to abusive relationships due to fear and isolation. Accountability and self-work are crucial in healing from an abusive relationship. Sharing personal stories can empower survivors and break the stigma surrounding domestic violence. Prioritize personal growth and self-love to build a secure relationship with yourself. As self-love grows, relationship patterns and attraction can change. The absence of domestic violence in childhood does not guarantee immunity from abusive relationships. Gratitude for personal growth and resilience can help in healing from trauma. Focus on self-healing and personal goals before pursuing new relationships. Trust issues and fear of repeating toxic patterns can be challenges in new relationships. Rebuilding trust and avoiding codependency are essential in healthy relationships. Adjusting to calm and balanced relationships can feel unfamiliar after toxic relationships. Support those in abusive relationships by being non-judgmental and offering a listening ear. Listen to your intuition and honor your feelings when considering leaving an abusive relationship. Use your voice and share your story to inspire healing and help others. Embrace your scars and strive to thrive in all aspects of life. Domestic Violence Helplines: Australia - Home | 1800RESPECT USA - Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org) UK - Domestic Abuse Help · National Centre for Domestic Violence (ncdv.org.uk)   That Was The Moment… is hosted and produced by Duschanca. All views of guests are their own and do not represent the hosts.   Contact: [e-mail]   Don’t miss a moment… Follow us on ⁠Facebook ⁠and ⁠Instagram⁠   You can connect with Lianne on: Instagram: @watchusthrivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lianne.torres1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/li-anne-92a513217 YouTube: @watchusthrivepodcast Website: https://www.wutpodcast.com/ Podcast https://mailchi.mp/b83198b34958/the-thrive-guide If you would like to share your moment, ⁠click here for more information⁠. Music from #Uppbeat: Iros Young - Amazing Day⁠ License code: JK6Y0OPFYOTCCDCM