The 40’s Project

The 40’s Project

Welcome to The 40’s Project. Join Abbie and Melissa, two self proclaimed middle-aged country chicks and their microphone “Phallic Phil”, for some real and raw banter about life after 40.

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November 8, 2024 30 mins

It’s been a red hot minute but we blew off Phallic Phil to bring you another episode of the 40’s Project. 

Among other things, Abbie put a silver lining around telling her son she was Santa and Melissa contemplated the situation of her vagina neck. 

Love, loss and a giant Trump dump all squeezed into 30 minutes! 

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We joined the Dull Women’s Club and feel right at home! 
While Abbie relishes a Saturday night at home Melissa’s highlight is the daily Wordle. 
We did manage a non-dull activity by hitting the Adelaide Oval on a scorching night to see Pink! 
A guilt ridden concert but what a show! 
We touch on our highs and lows, take a trip down memory lane, swear a bit, make each other laugh and sip on Clare Valley wine as we bri...

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January 27, 2024 35 mins

We took our microphone Phallic Phil on a road trip to the beautiful Yorke Peninsula in South Australia. 

He enjoyed some salty air while he recorded a long and overdue podcast from your favourite friends in their 40’s. 

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November 2, 2023 26 mins

We’ve been working hard lately with our heads down and bums up at Greater SA but we took some time out and hooked up our beloved microphone Phallic Phil. It reminded us how much we like talking shit and having a good belly laugh! It’s our therapy. 
Abbie caught up with Darren Scholz, aka Sholzy who is on an ‘adventure’ down a road he didn’t choose to travel as he begins treatment for prostate cancer. He and his wife Carolyn are...

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Like the Apollo Missions, we’ve launched ourselves into a whole new world and plan on making SA even Greater. 
Speaking of launches, and landings….. it got us thinking about the moon and we’re calling BS. Did Neil really take the first step for man and the second step for man kind?  

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It’s been a long time, but Abbie finally got back to Bali - her happy place. In this week’s episode she shares her latest jaunt hosting “A Real Treat” and their incredible experiences. 

The only thing she missed while she was in Bali was Melissa, who refused to sweat bullets into plus sized undies for some zen and cocktails. She is a grumpy bitch this week so maybe she should have gone.  

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May 5, 2023 35 mins

It seems May is the awareness month for everything! Who knew hey? 
We hope you enjoy our latest episode where we shine a light on some causes close to our hearts, try to decipher Chat GPT and  get our heads around some of the recent events of the first week of May. 
This one is definitely not for young ears! 

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April 14, 2023 30 mins

Join us as we talk about surprise poo parcels, romantic get aways, failing eye sight, boob squashing and more. 

Mumma Grylls shares some scary Bible Verses and we chat to Jody who is preparing for her breast cancer surgery.  

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ADHD, ASD, ODD, - what does this all mean? Abbie shares some insight into life with her son who is neurodiverse and has high levels of anxiety.  She had an interesting life lesson with cake this week too. 
Melissa gets passionate about Domestic Violence and deciphers coercive control. 
Wordle makes a comeback in an epic way and we praise the gloriousness that is Hugh Van Cuylenburg. 

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This is the bit where I write something interesting to lure you in to download our lastest ep. But it’s term 1…. We’ve hit the ground running so I’m a bit brain dead but here goes…..
Abbie wrote some awesome shit she’s passionate about. I (Melissa) proclaim that I will start mediating everyday and haven’t started yet. We celebrate Taryn Brumfitt and tell Paleo Pete to shove his latest wellness retreat up his activated almond s...

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Welcome to Season 3! We’re so glad to be back! 

This week we channel our love for Australiana and aussie slang as well as recount our holiday venture at the Fleurieu Peninsula in SA. 

Mumma Grylls - Aka - “our mate Belinda”  is all kinds of magical and she shares some of her life hacks and savviness to help keep us up to date with how to bag a bargain while we simultaneously refurbish, reuse, recycle
and reinv...

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We caught up with Terissa Angel, a goat wrangling farmer who, with her husband Daniel, is battling the flood on their property situated at “the back of Bourke”. A fascinating insight to station life.

This week we launched our online private Facebook group “Not so secret women’s business” - a safe place to share, connect and keep shit real, as we trawl our way through our middle ages. There’s nothing better than the words ...

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The Red Beaver moon unleashed our inner Karen’s and Abbie unleashed her beaver - you don’t want to miss that story. Strap in ladies.

We were stoked to be joined by a very special guest - the first man to be on the pod! Darren Davey, our local physio, has a special interest in men’s health and has a very important message to share about Movember.

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October 26, 2022 26 mins

Jo Pybus is an author, podcaster, feminist and has a passion for raising awareness about perimenopause.

We like to call it “reverse puberty”, and it’s coming for us ladies! Pour yourself a cuppa, buckle up and enjoy the insightful words of wisdom from Jo.

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September 23, 2022 31 mins

We’ve been M.I.A!

It seems silly September hit us hard but we’re stoked to be back!

We recap what’s been keeping us busy over the past month or so, swear a bit, laugh like Muttley, snort and over-share….all the things that you’ve missed.

Oh, the queen pops in for a visit too.

Enjoy

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We were pretty chuffed to chat with Nelly Thomas for this week’s episode. 

Insightful, funny and wise. She really is a top moll. 

And if you disagree, ‘off you fuck’. 

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Blergh, unsolicited guilt… rack off!

We talk about body shaming following news about Celeste Barber, who found herself in hot water being accused of just that! Mmm…what do you rekon?

And we saved the best til last…..a lovely chat with Hanna Wilson, who will be one of our guest speakers at “Fortune Favours The Brave” on Sun, Aug 28th.

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July 10, 2022 29 mins

It’s Abbie’s turn to share what’s got her tits in a tangle this week.

We also talk teenagers, trips, and recap what’s caught our attention in the world.

And most importantly, tickets for our event “Fortune Favours The Brave” are on sale now!

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June 26, 2022 28 mins

We had a gig in the footy scoreboard at our last home game. Seems one of us isn’t great at doing things backwards though! 

We also share letters that we wrote to our 18 year old selves with some sage advice.

AND.. it’s our first birthday!!

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Abbie steps into a coolroom in a Melbourne sandwich shop, only to find herself transported to a Balinese jungle bar.

We get giddy over dirty moes and "the greatest action sequel of all time".

Plus, we have more details about our Starr-Studded fundraising event "Fortune Favours the Brave".

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