The 90-10 Rule

This episode starts out with Anthony reciting some old school poetry from Mr. Wiggles, the song from Parliament. Queen Nina is getting ready to make a trip around the world and when she returns she'll be filled with new experiences and observations to share on the podcast. Everyone knows Tom Brady is the GOAT and his skill is unmatched. However, the recent divorce rumors have been concerning - what could be the factors that le...

Virgins, virginity and celibacy. In this episode the topic deviates from the usual experience of sex to instead focus on the experience of not yet having it yet. Why do people abstain for having sex, and is such a thing biologically possible? Is sex a need or a want, and could masturbation be sufficient to suppress desire or satisfy libido permanently? Anthony shares situations from the television series, “Married At First Sight” w...

Queen Nina has a crush!  In this episode she blurts out the details of the entire process of how she got to have a crush on a guy who's chasing her romantically, while Anthony dishes out similarities between her current situation and how he came to be married to his wife.  Who is this mystery man that has captivated Nina's attention?  You'd never believe it, Rulers, it's an older white Jewish guy from Long Islan...

Anthony and Queen Nina discuss and analyze the nuances of being a "F. Buddy" and how it compares and differs from being friends with benefits or being in a committed relationship.  They each share stories from their past on how they experienced a F. Buddy situation.  Plus, how complicated does it get when your F. Buddy catches feelings or wants something more, and how do you end up dealing with that situation?  Nina remin...

Rulers, are you ready?  In this episode you will learn the top 21 things to woo your woman (according to an old Instagram reel).  The interesting part, however, is that to woo men, only two are needed: show up naked and bring food!  Anthony discusses this interesting piece of internet advice and why there is such a difference regarding what it takes to keep men and women loyal and satisfied in the relationship.  Plus, we learn some...

Anthony is outnumbered when he welcomes Queen Nina and Queen Tones Motivates back to discuss the acceptable levels of complaint in a relationship that seems perfect.  

Does having a good man who provides and is attentive to the family enough to invalidate any complaint a woman might have about the relationship?  Is being a responsible man who steps up to the plate when it comes to being a good husband and a good father sim...

Uh Oh! Everybody’s honesty and integrity are questioned when Anthony asks, "Are you Really Just a Liar?"
What makes someone a liar? Can a bunch of little white lies, spinning, twisting details and exaggerations be dismissed as something innocent and harmless or is that enough for the person in question to be considered a liar?  Anthony talks about a childhood friend who lies a lot, and how that plays into how people f...

After finally plugging social media handles in the episode Anthony and Queen Nina discuss "What You Won't Do For Love" based on the famous song, and what are the things that people in a relationship wouldn't compromise in order to maintain the relationships.  From moving and relocating to choosing different career paths, there is a limit for every person as to what they won't do for love.  Plus, is there a ...

Anthony and Queen Nina start out this episode with a little bit of movie trivia and some interesting facts and opinions about The Color Purple, and the fact that many people think it was made by a black director instead of Steven Spielberg.  On to the real discussion: is it important for women to have a label in a relationship?  Nina goes into what women really want from a relationship, and they both discuss a situation from one of...

A lot of digression in this one, Rulers.  Before getting to the main topic, Anthony and Nina talk about lotteries, gambling, TV shows, and even discuss separating the art from the artist when the artist is involved in a scandal, from Kevin Spacey, R. Kelly and Michael Jackson, and why people still accept their work or not.  They proceed to the real subject of the episode: does your perspective of the future change when you find &qu...

Anthony tells Queen Nina about a quote he heard in a movie, "Money Is Never Just Money" and they both ponder how that applies to real life relationships.  Anthony shares the tale of his female friend who has interest from online, (swipe right suiters),  with two different men, one of which is doing well financially, and the other who seems to not have any money, but how she has better chemistry with the one who seems to n...

Ghosting... What is it and why do people do it?  Anthony and Nina share tales of ghosting and discuss the reasons that lead people to just disappear to someone else without notice or explanation.   How rude is it to just decide to not see or talk to someone ever again without even telling them why?  If for any reason you're not a match with someone and don't want to see them again, is it justifiable to just ghost them or ...

Do you believe that behind every good woman is a trail of men?  The woman with the drama and the crazy or not, if she claims so.  Are you willing to hurt your own feelings for her?  In this episode of the 90-10 Rule, Anthony welcomes back Jackie J to talk about her national and international travel experiences, plus her ‘trail of men’.  Listen in to get juice on some of Jackie’s relationship adventures with the LOCO and what she cl...

On this epic musical episode of The 90-10 Rule, the whole team join in to give their take on the legendary Bill Withers song, Use Me. They each give their opinion on whether or not it’s a love song, what is going on in that relationship, who is really using who and why as well as if the brother is hating or just jealous. The crew sing the Stevie Wonder version of happy birthday to Anthony, who reveals his outro was inspired as a ho...

In this episode Anthony and Queen Nina discuss the question of why is it that men rule the relationship, but women rule the marriage? And is there a difference between marriage and the relationship?  Is it that men control the relationship before the marriage, but after the "I do" then the woman is in charge? They discuss the idea that women are the gatekeepers of sex, while the men are the gatekeepers for marriage, and w...

Are You Through with Love or is Love Through with You?  Join this scintillating and insightful conversation between Anthony, Queen Nina and Jay.  In this episode the team share details from previous relationships in different times of their lives, and how those relationships affected their mindset, how their mindset affected their relationships or their interest in being in one.  Are times or circumstances in people's lives wh...

What does it actually mean when women say that they need the so called "Quality Time"? Doesn't all the time spent together with your significant other have quality?  Ms. Lady D joins the conversation with Anthony to elaborate on this riddle and try to explain what that means for women.  What is ultimately the difference between regular and "quality" time together?  The standard differs for men and women, si...

This week Anthony welcomes his long-time friend Craig to the studio to share some funny and interesting stories about their wives.  Anthony revisits the hilarious tale of when his wife almost got them both arrested for drug smuggling when they went on a cruise, and Craig talks about the time when his wife, a hardcore sports fan, got upset over a comment he made about her favorite team despite the fact the game was already won.  The...

Do women ask too many questions?  Queen Nina thinks it's just a matter of men not saying enough, but maybe it's just that there just isn't that much information available to begin with and there's just no point insisting.  Anthony takes Nina on a few examples of some cases where there just ISN'T any more info available, but Nina keeps on playing the 20 question game, but to no avail.   A heavy discussion th...