The Marriage We Would’ve Missed: What We’d Tell Our Newlywed Selves

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The Marriage We Would’ve Missed: What We’d Tell Our Newlywed Selves

What would we say to our newlywed selves if we could sit across from them today? In this deeply personal and hope-filled 51st episode, we’re looking back on the wild, winding, and grace-soaked road of our marriage—the one we almost missed. We share the defining moment that nearly destroyed us, how God used it to wake us up, and the lessons we’ve learned as we built a marriage rooted in His truth.

From the sweetness of restoration to the strength that only comes through surrender, we talk through what we wish we knew, what we’re grateful we didn’t, and how we’ve learned to fight for each other—not with each other. Whether you’re newly married, on the brink of burnout, or simply hungry for more of what God wants for your marriage, this episode will encourage, equip, and remind you: the best is still ahead.

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Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭24‬-‭27‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.
• Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭25‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her…
• 1 Peter‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-2 ‭NLT‬‬ - In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over by observing your pure and reverent lives.
• Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭26‬-‭27‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.
• Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.
• 1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭15‬-‭18‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “See that no one pays back evil for evil, but always try to do good to each other and to all people. Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.”Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
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