Episode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth
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Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lose her.
In today’s episode, Zan gives us a rare look inside his mind when he’s out in the world. What makes his energy grow as the night wears on, rather than drain? The secret: his aliveness lies in the potentiality of what could happen with a woman, the potential sparked by the right kind of glance.
Also, Jordan and Zan dive into why well-meaning men who seek connection inadvertently push women away. What they think is ‘depth’ ends up feeling overbearing, makes her question her safety, and she distances herself. Zan reveals exactly how to create an atmosphere where she'll naturally want to play.
This conversation unpacks a critical question for many men on this journey: How can I enjoy a more easeful and enlivening experience with women?
As always, share your thoughts and questions in the comments. We’ll be back with another viewer-inspired episode next week!
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