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April 17, 2025 66 mins

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Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: how to let go and enjoy the dance with women

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“How do I stop being so serious and become genuinely more playful?”


I find it fascinating that it took 14 episodes of Abundance in the Land Of Women for this question to come up–but I’m not surprised. You see, while the man who asks himself what he’d like his life to look like and strives to create it is already a rare breed, it’s even rarer for a man to go about his lifetime adventure with a sense of gratitude, humour and ease through the highs and lows. 


No matter how much, or little playfulness you think you embody right now, the truth is that we all like fun. Women are no different. And, while contemplating your future, designing your life and being integral all make you an attractive man, accepting that life is short, laughing at your shortcomings and choosing to make good memories is sure to make you stand out, high and above, in her eyes.


How to bring out that sense of playfulness from within you is the subject of Zan and Jordan’s conversation today. 


Let us know what you think in the comments section. When you’re faced with a decision, do you know what motivates your choice? Our lives are the sum of the choices we make. Will you choose to enjoy yourself? 

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