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July 21, 2025 34 mins

In this episode, we dive into what’s really going on inside your teenager’s brain and why trying to control them often backfires. From brain development to boundary-pushing, we unpack the science and the heart behind teen behavior.

 

You’ll learn 5 practical, connection-focused strategies that help you guide your teen without gripping tighter. Because the goal isn’t control, it’s trust.

 

Topics we cover:

  • What brain changes are driving your teen’s behavior
  • Why teens push back (and why that’s healthy)
  • Common fears parents face during the teen years
  • Why control erodes trust
  • 5 connection-based strategies that work better than control

 

It’s not about control. It’s about building trust while staying connected.

 

View the full podcast transcript at: 

https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/why-trying-to-control-your-teen-doesnt-work-and-what-to-do-instead.

 

Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.

 

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Podcast Website: 

https://www.theartofraisinghumans.com

Book List:

https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/booklist

 

The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.

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