May 19, 2025 • 52 mins
In this powerful episode of The Asset Mindset, host Daniel Fielding sits down with combat veteran and Elite Sentinel Coaching founder George Hayworth to explore what it really takes to grow as a man, father, and leader. George shares his personal transformation story—from the battlefield to mentoring men in their mindset and purpose.
They dive deep into themes like fatherhood, accountability, emotional intelligence, and breaking free from the victim mentality. George highlights the importance of taking ownership of your life, listening to your inner voice, and surrounding yourself with mentors who will push you to grow. Whether you’re a veteran, father, or simply seeking to lead with purpose, this conversation offers practical insights for becoming the man you’re meant to be.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to George Hayworth and His Mission
01:59 Defining Moments and Taking Ownership
05:57 The Power of the Mind and Submission
08:58 Breaking the Victim Mentality
12:48 Building a Supportive Brotherhood
17:03 The Importance of Giving Back
21:11 Finding and Approaching Mentors
25:35 The Power of Mentorship and Taking Action
31:01 Understanding Beliefs and Energy
36:25 Transforming Problems into Opportunities
42:27 Listening to Your Inner Voice
48:02 Choosing Your Legacy and Personal Growth
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Speaker 1 (00:10):
well, george, it's great to meet you.
It's great to have you here.
I'm excited and looking forwardto, you know, our time together
.
I love what you're doing.
You're an inspiration to somany and it really is an honor
to have you here yeah well,thank you so much, man, it's.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It's a real honor to be here, um, really glad that
we're connecting and hopefully Ican pay forward that
inspiration a little bit morehere on this episode.
But just in short, my name isGeorge Hayworth.
First and foremost I'm ahusband and father.
Combat veteran, served sometime on active duty deployed to
Afghanistan, got out.
Now I serve in the NationalGuard, so still kind of playing
(00:44):
army a little bit today.
But then my business that Ifounded is Elite Sentinel
Coaching, where you alluded to.
We train and mentor men.
The slogan there is forgingleaders so they can build their
legacies.
And really what I've found justin my own walk in life, as well
as with all the men that I'vehelped, is when you hone in on
the man himself, whether he's ahusband or father or just
working on himself for the timebeing before he gets married,
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that's the highest return oninvestment, right?
When you train a man how tolive to a higher code and really
do it for himself, not for someexternal pursuit of excellence
or something, the impacts thathe will make in everybody's life
around him just ripples on andoutward, and so I mean I think
we got away from that in oursociety of focusing on men first
and kind of treating them assecond-class citizens, and so
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it's not at the expense of women.
We can train men and build menup and not have to take away
from women, and I think thatthat's where our culture has
gotten into.
Is this huge power strugglebetween the genders, and it's
kind of a loser's game.
Right, it's a race to thebottom.
So that's a little bit about me.
So that's a little bit about me.
That's the realm I play in andwhat I do, and I'm involved in a
lot of other things.
I host the Present Fatherspodcast.
I get to work with Nick Laveryas part of Precision Components
(01:48):
and pay forward some of theinspiration and motivation there
a little bit through adifferent organization as well.
So at a high level, that'sGeorge Hayworth, and let's dive
into this episode today.
Man, thanks for having me on.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Sounds great and you are the epitome of what I'd name
the asset mindset philosophy.
You're living it.
You are helping people takeownership.
Sounds like you've takenownership of your life, but I
want to dive into somethingright off the bat.
What was the single hardestmoment in your life where you
realized you either needed tostep up and do it and take
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ownership and actually have thatmental shift where I'm in
control?
Where was that moment in yourlife, or moments you can say
more than one if there's acouple that were impactful, but
I noticed pretty much everybodythat has this strong mindset.
There was that defining momentor the pinnacle moment where
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they were like I got to do thisand I need to take control.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah.
So for me that's a pretty easyanswer.
Basically my rock bottom.
I had been committing adultery,so I had betrayed my wife in
the worst way possible and justfound myself hating myself and
even questioning who the heck Iam, cause I didn't agree with
what I was doing.
I was raised better, you know,I knew it was wrong, and yet
here I am doing that.
So that really for me wasbasically there's no way to go
(03:11):
but up from there, and thatobviously was a long journey and
a long process.
But for me that would be thatsingular moment where it was
like, dude, you have been doingall the wrong things and you've
been trying to fool the worldthat you're this great guy and
obviously you're not.
So it was time to stop the act.
And then, through that, whatI've learned actually is I don't
have control, and that was myproblem is, I was trying to
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control everything and you can'twillpower yourself through your
problems, right.
You can't just bear down andgrit harder and solve your flaws
, and that's what I was doing,right.
And I think a lot of men findthemselves in that position, and
so for me, my faith isextremely important in that
journey as well, and I knowthat's not for everyone I'm not
(03:53):
here to preach at anyone but forme it was that moment after
that starting to get help,starting to humble myself before
other men that you know wereliving in a way that I wanted to
follow that again it was kindof just obvious to me.
It hit me in the face that well, all this time I've been
professing to believe in God,but George is trying to maintain
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control of everything and it'simpossible.
And so the irony here is that,the more that I actually
surrendered to God and just gaveit over to Him, it still
requires work.
It's not like he just magicallysolved everything for me, but
stopping to try to controleverything and actually just
trusting him and following hisguidance was actually how I got
out of that situation.
So I hope that answered thequestion well.
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But I think we all havesomething in our lives that is
probably that pivotal momentwhere you've maybe made a huge
mistake or something really badhappened to you and maybe it's
unfair.
But we all have that option.
We can either let it destroy usor we can choose to actually
get help for it.
And if you're anything like me,where you know you had outward
success but internally.
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You're just being chewed upinside and you know can't handle
it anymore.
I assure you that when youfinally reach out to some people
to get real help, that weightis going to get a lot lighter
very quickly and you'll start togain clarity through the chaos
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like well, you know the peopleof faith are like well, God, and
absolutely I'm a man of faithas well.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
But you even said it, I chose to go back.
So you still have to take someownership.
You're giving up control, butto give up control, that's a
decision.
So you still like the Lord'sthere and we're not trying to
get too preachy here in theasset mindset today, but he's
there with open arms.
You need to choose to walktowards him.
So you still have that powerbecause we have free will.
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So it's not that God's out ofthe picture when you have the
asset mindset.
He's there, he's always there,in my opinion, in my faith, but
you still have to choose to movetowards him completely.
You know that's powerful.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I agree that your mind is your greatest asset too,
right, and that's whether youbelieve in God or not.
We have unique minds as humanbeings, right.
I believe we were created thatway.
It's not an accident.
But whatever you believe, let'sjust.
You know, call spades spades.
We think differently than everyother creature on this planet,
right, we have hopes and dreamsand visions of the future.
I don't really think animals dothat, right.
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They kind of just live day today.
So we as humans are uniquelydifferent on this planet.
So with that, there is thisdesire to kind of conquer ground
and move forward and be morethan we are today.
And if you don't hone your mind, it will either be your.
So if you hone it, it's yourgreatest weapon.
If you don't, it can be yourgreatest hindrance and this is
where I find a lot of men too isthey just have these
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self-destructive loops playingin their head on repeat, and the
way that they talk tothemselves is just breaking them
down before they even start theday, and so of course, you're
feeling stressed and anxious andlonely and tired and yearning
for more.
I say that's salty.
Most men are salty todaybecause they don't hone their
mind, they aren't using theirmind as their greatest weapon,
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and so you know.
The other thing, too, that youwere kind of alluding to here is
the concept of submission.
Right, that's a dirty wordtoday, especially in the context
of marriage, but to submit isactually a choice, right, and we
accept this pretty mucheverywhere.
Like, most people have a boss,right, you go to work and you
have a boss, you submit to thatauthority.
So Most people have a bossright.
You go to work and you have aboss, you submit to that
authority.
So why is it any problem thenthat you submit to something
else that's actually gonna helpyou?
And so maybe you're a combatveteran, maybe you've got PTSD,
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maybe you saw some things thatyou're really questioning.
You know, how could a lovingGod let that happen?
Or why did that happen to me?
Or maybe you're havingsurvivor's a little bit humbling
, it's a little bit scary, but Iassure you that when you do
that, you'll actually feel morecontrol over your life, even
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though you're letting it goright.
It's this weird paradox of beinghuman where we try to control
everything, but when we'retrying to control everything,
what we really mean is I'mtrying to architect a situation
where I have peace.
Really, that's really what itis.
We're trying to force peace,but what I found is that the
only way to actually have peacein your life, regardless of how
chaotic things may be.
(08:10):
You know, I'm an entrepreneur,I'm a dad, I'm super busy, my
schedule's nuts, but I have morepeace today than I've ever had
in my life, despite all thethings I have going on, because
I finally learned that I do haveto submit things right.
Whether it's advice for mybusiness or advice for my
marriage or whatever the topicis.
I have to submit to someone elsewho knows more than me,
actually has the experience tohelp me, whether it's little or
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big.
We all have to choose that forus.
So I think that's part ofhoning your mind is
understanding where yourstrengths naturally lie, leaning
into those things and thethings that are your weaknesses.
Hey brother, you got to gethelp.
This whole lone wolf, sigmamale type of thing is just a
(08:52):
fool's errand.
Quite frankly and that was me Itried to do it all on my own
and I almost destroyed my entirelife, so let that be a warning
to you.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, no, absolutely.
And that's one of the conceptsI talk about in my book is you
need to surround yourself withgood people and be in good
environments so you can't bealone.
And everybody knows that.
You know if you take one stick,you know you break it.
You put two together it's alittle stronger, but if you get
a bundle, you know that'sstrength and it won't break.
So by putting yourself in theseenvironments, so say, you have
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someone that's coming in, that'sstruggling, like you said, in
like a loop of victimization, orI can't deal with this, or
whatnot, when you're coaching,how do you help them break that
victim mentality?
Or you know, what techniques doyou share to help someone get
their mind right?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah.
So I'm actually going to stealfrom a mentor of mine named
David Walde here.
He's got a framework thatreally highlights this exact
question very well on how wechange that right.
So the way we do it in ourprogram beliefs, which then
influence your thoughts, whichinfluence your feelings and then
influences your action right,maybe I flipped feelings and
(10:11):
thoughts, I forget.
But what you believe aboutyourself, it starts with you.
No one can do that for you.
I can't come into your head andchange the way that you believe
about you.
You have to do that foryourself.
But whatever you're believingpositive or negative that then
influences how you feel and yourthoughts are a result of those.
So those may be lying to you,right, you may have all these
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thoughts and feelings that aresaying you're a loser or this or
that or whatever, but it's allfabricated, based off of you
honing in on just the negatives,where there may actually still
be plenty of positives in yourlives or things that you could
be pursuing.
But because you chose tobelieve the negative, now
everything is just in thisfeedback loop, right.
Then your action of course,follows everything internally
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with yourself in line with thosebeliefs.
Then your thoughts and feelingsstart to flow more in
accordance with positiveemotions, positive thoughts that
build you up and help you moveforward to conquer whatever your
challenge may be, and youraction will follow suit.
But again, you can't justwillpower your way right.
You can't just start well, I'mgoing to do all the right things
and then I'll feel better.
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It doesn't work that way.
It has to come from withinfirst.
And this is why you see a lotof men.
They'll do 75 hard or somethingand they'll lose like 20 pounds
and then, as soon as it's over,they put it right back on or
they'll read some self-help bookand for like three months
they're like totally on fire andthen they just totally regress
afterwards.
And that's because you reallydrive into heavily.
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We spend an entire week on justthe way that men talk to
themselves and think aboutthemselves in our program
because it's that important.
And we do that very early on inthe process because, again, I
can teach you all the tacticsand all the wisdom and all the
knowledge.
But if you still, deep down,think that you're not worthy of
more, or that you're selfish, orthat you're a failure, or
whatever these thought processesmay be, I can't help you.
(12:04):
It's just never going to beenough.
So that is a responsibilitythat every man has, and it may
not be fair either, right?
I think this is another trap wefall into.
Like well, that's not fair, man.
I know some people who havebeen through the most insane
lives.
That is beyond unfair, and theystill will say the same thing
that I'm about to say Tough shit.
It's your choice.
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You have to choose.
Are you going to be the one tochange the story or are you
going to just stay a victim toit, and no one can do that for
you.
So that may sting a little.
No-transcript.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Absolutely.
I love it.
George man, you got it.
You got the asset mindset, andthat's why I'm so glad and
honored to have you on here,because you're spitting the
truth, and it doesn't matterexactly what you call it or what
you define it as, but the truthis the truth, and the truth
will set you free.
It really will, and it is true.
It starts in the mind.
That's why I got the assetmindset your mind.
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You have to have the thoughtsbefore anything else can start
to happen, before you canunleash your power of being a
creator.
Let's get into now.
We've shifted someone'sthoughts.
They're now starting tosurround themselves in better
and more positive places.
What do they do next in?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
better and more positive places.
What do they do next?
Yeah, so I think for men, oneof the easiest ways to start
reinforcing the new belief aboutyourself is physical fitness.
Now, it's not trying to becomeArnold Schwarzenegger, that's
not what.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
But if you're a few pounds overweight, or maybe
you're not overweight but youjust haven't really been
exercising very much, orwhatever, men are naturally very
physical creatures.
Right, we're formed from themud, right?
When God made.
Adam he made him from the dirt.
That says a lot about themasculine nature, right?
We're kind of knuckle draggersat heart, right?
Whether you're, you know youmay be listening to this and
you're 500 IQ way smarter thanme, but at the end of the day we
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still are very responsive tophysical activity in some way.
So for me that's like theeasiest starting point for most
guys.
If you're kind of like, well, Idon't know if I'm really that,
you know, whatever, you'retrying to change your beliefs,
just go start exercising on abasic, consistent routine that
immediately starts to give youthat feedback that we talked
about, that starts to changethat narrative for you that, hey
, you know what.
I can keep a promise to myself.
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I set a goal, I'm going tostick with it.
Make it realistic, right, ifyou're completely out of shape,
you're not going to be winning abodybuilding competition in six
months.
So just start with some realgoals there.
But the point isn't to be theworld's fittest man, it's just
to start proving to yourselfthat you can be a man of your
word.
And then that influences more.
You know from a scientificpoint of view that your biology,
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your endorphins, release.
You know there's all thesepositive benefits from exercise.
But for men that's like stepnumber one.
The best next thing is you haveto have a real brotherhood
around you.
This is, ironically, one of thehardest things.
For men who come through ourprogram isn't necessarily, you
know, defeating a challenge theyhave or a character flaw or
something.
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It's teaching them how to givethemselves a pat on the back
when they do something right.
You know, guys are soconditioned today to only focus
on the negatives or your worthis totally derived for how much
you can output or provide orwhatever, and you'll see it that
they have a hard time evensharing a win or even like
acknowledging credit for whenthey did something right.
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So a lot of the times ourcoaching isn't necessarily
correcting a wrong.
It's like no man, you're doingthe right thing, continue to do
that.
And they're like oh really.
And I'm like, yeah, bro, keepdoing that, that's great,
continue to do that and watch.
The results will follow.
And that only comes from havingreal men around you.
As a man who respect you, careabout you.
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Sometimes we'll give you thepush you need, but other times,
kind of give you thatreinforcement.
We're like, no bro, that's theright answer, continue mission.
You know, when we are isolatedwe start to lie to ourselves.
Our fears take over, ouranxiety takes over, right, like
I'm a pretty capable guy.
I've learned a lot of thisstuff, but if I didn't keep
leaning on all these men that Itrust still today that I'm
texting basically every singleday.
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I'm not sure I'd be on thispodcast right now.
I'm a product of the fact that Ihave a lot of great men around
me reminding me like no man,that's it.
Keep going, don't give up.
You're three feet from gold.
Keep digging.
We often become our own worstenemy.
So I think those are the twoeasiest things guys can do is
build some strong friendshipswith other men where you really
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lay it out there.
Hey bro, I'm not doing good.
This week, my wife and I hadthis huge argument Okay, man,
well, tell me more, that's it.
Guys, you don't have to be liketherapy or whatever, it's, just
talk to each other and then theother one is workout.
You start doing those twothings.
A lot falls into place prettyquickly.
There's obviously many morethings we can do, but in the
interest of time and just quick,actionable items get some
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friends go, take them to lunch,go to coffee, whatever.
Put yourself out there.
Hey bro, I like you.
I think we have a lot of sharedvalues.
I just want to get to know youbetter.
Do that.
I assure you, that'll help alot and then work out.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Absolutely, man.
I love having guests like youbecause you get it, you're
living it, you know you'reinspiring.
And I want to add to this and Ithink you're because we're
going through the process ofchanging and growing your mind
and growing as a man or a person.
For any of you women, thisapplies to you as well, if
you're listening, now, once youhave these great people that
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you're around, I want you totalk a little bit about when you
give, you know, when you payforward what you're doing, you
become an asset to others.
Because that's the thirdconcept that I share is that
once you become an asset toothers, the more you give, the
more you receive, and peopledon't realize in so many ways
how the giving or helping othershelps yourself.
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So can you touch upon that andsee from your own personal
experience or anybody you workedwith on doing that, when you
take that next step, beyond justbeing with a good group of
people?
Now you are participating andbeing an asset for those friends
or family or members in yourcircle.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Definitely as men.
I think that's ourresponsibility.
There is a level of fulfillmentand purpose we find, as men,
responsibility.
There is a level of fulfillmentand purpose.
We find, as men, that when webuild ourselves up in some skill
or wisdom or knowledge,whatever the topic is building
your capability up for yourselffirst, with the help of mentors
and guidance there is then thathigher level of fulfillment that
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comes from being able to passthat on to someone else.
We're designed that way.
It's not an accident, right?
The world tries to poo-poo thatand make men afraid to do it by
using words like mansplaining.
Make no mistake, the weapons ofour modern age are words.
The meanings of words have beencorrupted to trap men and make
them fearful of taking any kindof action.
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You know, for being labeledsomething or judged or whatever,
you have to have the courage tobe disliked right.
A good man understands thathe's not here to try and
convince everyone that he'sright.
He's just going to do the rightthing and for those who are
willing to receive, he's goingto bless their lives a lot.
So that idea of buildingyourself up and then paying it
forward, I think, is programmedinto our DNA as a man, for every
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father listening to this, youknow.
I don't even need to explainthis to you, you already
understand it, right?
The second your kid was born,you knew immediately in that
moment holy crap, I've got moreresponsibility now than I've
ever had in my life, and that'sby design.
So what's the point of all of it?
Right, it's not to just masswealth and like glorify
ourselves.
Right, that's what AndrewTate's do.
Guys like that.
They're all you know.
Look at me, look at all thecars, look at all the women.
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Why is he doing all this stuff?
It's just to keep piling on his, you know, attaboys to himself.
A real good man builds himselfup not for selfish gain but
understanding that, hey, I canlive for others.
Right, you want to live a greatlife, live for other people,
Everything I'm doing, yeah, itfeels good.
Right, that certainly isrewarding to start a business
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and be successful in all thesethings.
Right, it's not like it's allsacrifice, all the time, but the
ripple effects and thedifferences we get to make in
other people's lives, regardlessof your profession.
If you're willing, it can belife-changing for someone.
Right?
Maybe you don't go intofull-time coaching, Maybe it's
just a quick conversation youhad with someone when they're
having the worst week of theirlife, you may have kept them on
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this earth.
Right, that is a life-changingaction you made in someone
else's life because you werewilling and able to actually use
your expertise and help them.
That's no small feat and Ithink we downplay.
We get caught in thiscomparison game of well, I've
got to have all the cars and allthe women and all the status
before then I can do good things.
No, bro, you can be broke andhurting and all that kind of
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stuff.
And as long as you're a littlebit further along the path and
you see someone else who'swilling to receive, I assure you
you can make a positive impactin their life and then in return
, that builds you up.
So to close this one up on anice little bow, here is men
need three types of other men intheir lives.
Right, you need mentors, whicharen't that hard to find.
You just kind of put yourselfout there and if you show that
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you're willing to learn andyou're hungry to reach that next
level most guys who aresuccessful, strong, good men
they're going to look at me like, Ooh, I see you, I see myself
from 10 years ago.
Let me help you, bro.
The next one is peers, whichwe'll come back to.
That's actually the hardest oneto cultivate.
And then you need proteges,right, People that you are
mentoring.
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The reason there is you shouldconstantly be growing yourself
with your own mentors.
But there's still a level ofdistance there, right, and
that's by design, because thereneeds to be that level of
respect and kind of submissionto this higher authority,
because then you're just goingto soak it all in and gain from
that, right, and it's rewardingfor them as well.
Right, it's a two-way streetthe one you are mentoring or
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ones you are mentoring.
Same thing it forces you to bebetter.
You got to practice what youpreach, right, you have to
maintain the knowledge and buildyourself up.
But the peer group is thehardest one and this is where
most men find themselvescompletely stuck.
Again, they're salty, right.
They're stressed, angry, lonely, tired and yearning for more
because they're so cut off.
That peer group is actually themost important piece of the
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equation, in my opinion.
Right, you could have 20mentors and all these people
you're helping.
And if you have no actual guysin the same season of life as
you, it's not age, it's season.
Right, it's based off of kindof shared values and experiences
you're in, you are going tofeel very empty because you're
just giving of everyone else andnothing fills you back up.
And so that peer group isessential, because they're the
ones where it's like, man, I'mjust really stressed this week
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and you just lay it down beforethem and like we got you, bro, I
get it, I'm in the exact sameboat.
Let's talk about it or let's go.
You know, let's go get whatever, let's go work out or something
.
You know that that peer groupis kind of the one that restores
you so that you can continue todo the other ones.
And if you're all focused ongrowth and you don't have a peer
group, at some point you'regoing to, your batteries are
going to drain, you're going torun out of gas and that peer
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group is really the only waythat you're going to build it
back up.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Oh, I love it and I want to touch more on this
because I think it is such animportant topic is mentors and
mentorship.
For anyone out there that youknow you're a listener and
you're like man I really don'tthat a mentor has when you
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approach them Because a goodmentor they're going to get
excited about it.
They're not going to be like,oh no, I don't have time or
whatever Mentors.
People want to teach.
You talked about being a father.
You're teaching your kids.
You know you enjoy that, youfind pleasure in it.
You see their achievements.
(23:29):
So let's talk about mentorshipand finding a mentor and how to
help someone do that and not beafraid to reach out to get a
mentor.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I'm not dodging the question, but I'm going to give
a little bit of a roundaboutanswer.
To get back to this, because Ithink there's a fundamental
thing here we have to tie backto the beliefs.
So your beliefs about yourselfhave to change first, because
then everything that you do isinfluenced by that.
The way that you show up, theway that you present, the energy
that you give off, stems fromyour core beliefs about yourself
.
So if you're seeking growth insome area, you need to really
(23:57):
dig into your own belief aboutyourself in this right and to
just be very granular here.
If it's I want to be a betterfather, right.
You have to focus on what youneed to do, like what you want
to become, not finding yourselfin all the things you shouldn't
do.
Right, as combat veterans, wecan understand this.
Right.
In a firefight, you're notthinking about all the things
you shouldn't be doing.
(24:17):
You're thinking about the onething you should do, right Gain,
fire superiority and thenmaneuver as appropriate, right.
So we got to have that samementality here with our beliefs
of okay, I want to be a betterfather.
I'm not there today.
I want to be there.
That's my end goal.
I mean, what do I believe aboutmyself?
I believe I can do that.
I believe I'm worthy about that.
Now, everything's going tofollow suit.
So that has to be step one.
Then, when you're like, okay,now I believe this for myself, I
(24:40):
need a mentor, and that becauseyou've changed your belief,
because you're changing the wayyou show yourself and present
yourself, like you said, thatmentor is going to be excited
because they're going to go ooh,here's one who wants to learn.
I can't wait to do this withyou, right?
So you have to have a littlebit of personal courage and
vulnerability there, a littlebit of courageous transparency,
(25:04):
as my good friend BrandonBlinson says.
You got to lay it out there,right?
And the interesting thing tooabout a mentor is it may not
have to be necessarily this hugeconversation.
When you start on the pathtowards that next objective
whether it's growth as a man oras a husband or father or
professional, whatever when youstart down that path, people are
going to recognize that, hey,this guy's actually putting in
(25:25):
the work to be that next thing.
And so if they recognize thatfrom above, so to speak, they'll
reach out to you, they're goingto show themselves to you.
Man, I can't the number of menwho have just happened to pop
into my life in this journey inthe last couple of years for me
I can't even name them all.
It's been so many, right, butjust every single one has been a
little bit of a mentor to me insome area that they have
(25:47):
expertise, right.
Maybe it was just a singlesentence, but that has altered
my life for the better justbecause I had started down the
path.
If I was waiting for someonefirst to show me all the answers
and then take action, it neverwould happen.
So you have to kind of take thefirst step.
Um, yeah, and it and it thisfear of like, oh well, they may
(26:09):
reject me or something.
It's just not true.
I have yet to reach out tosomeone that I think could help
me with a problem who you know Ilook up to in a way.
Um, and as long as you presentit in that like hey, you know, I
respect what you're doing, Ithink I could learn a lot from
you.
Would you take a call with me?
The answer has almost alwaysbeen yes.
I've pretty much never beenturned down.
I just don't think that peopleare actually that hard to reach.
(26:32):
We are too afraid to ask.
Put yourself out there.
Worst case, they say no and youjust look for a new one.
That's it.
You just move on to the next.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Absolutely I love that you're talking about
beliefs and energy and whatyou're putting out there and you
know, some people call it thelaw of attraction, you know, and
they laugh like oh ha, ha ha.
But seriously it works.
You are at a certain mindset,you live a certain way.
You exude this vibration andenergy.
(27:01):
People relate on that.
I mean anybody listening.
You've been in the room and youor you first meet somebody and
you just go, wow, there'ssomething different about them.
That energy is real and I lovethat you're touching on that.
Heck, we're here togetherbecause of that.
Look at us and our differentpaths.
And now here we are on thispodcast together, both preaching
the truth and the same things,to help other people, to mentor.
(27:25):
So I think that's great.
So do you ever talk about thelaw of attraction?
I mean, obviously you just dida little bit with energy and
whatnot.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Do you do anything with that, or I don't really I
don't, I don't know, I don'treally subscribe to that fully.
Um, I just think it's.
Um, we're just designed thatway as humans, right, If you go
back to kind of our base biology, it's, we're constantly trying
to evaluate are you a threat orare you a friend?
Right, that's our limbic systemjust doing its job.
With that, only 7% of humancommunication is with words.
(27:57):
7%, that's it, right.
93% is nonverbal.
So again, when I say that yourbeliefs are influencing
everything, if you believe thatyou're a loser who's not worthy
of love or friendship, guesswhat?
Everyone else is gonna startpicking up on that exact same
emotion, Because that's howyou're going to start presenting
.
Right, you can tell so much bya man just by, like are his
(28:18):
shoulders back, Is his head highor is he kind of slouched and
does he avoid eye contact?
Right, Like that says a lotabout you and maybe it's not
fair, but it's the way it isright.
So we can piss and moan abouthow unfair it may be, or people
shouldn't judge, or whatever,and it's like well, our biology
actually programs us to bejudgmental because it's a
(28:38):
survival skill.
You know, the world wasn't ascivilized as it currently is and
even now there's still dangeraround every corner, so to speak
.
So there is.
I don't really subscribe to thelaw of attraction necessarily.
I just think it's fundamentaltruths about human nature.
And so when we start tounderstand that, you don't
necessarily have to be theexpert on it, you just have to
kind of understand at a baselevel, like look, the way that I
carry myself is going tonaturally say a lot non-verbally
(29:01):
to someone else.
They're going to pick up on itand they're going to kind of
match that and that's humannature, right?
If someone's really happy andlaughing and all that kind of
stuff, you naturally feel alittle bit more.
Yeah, let me talk to this guyor whatever.
Right?
If you're arms crossed,scowling, glared, people are
like I don't know, that guy'snot very approachable, I'm not
going to go ask.
Ask that guy something, right?
So think about how you carryyourself.
(29:21):
And then with that too, thisgoes especially for the husbands
and fathers.
You need to be hypervigilantabout this, right.
I think a lot of guys you knowyou're carrying the weight of
the day or the stress at workand so you're wearing it on your
face and in your body posture,and so then when you come home
you're kind of just this likeball of negative energy, and
then your family's like don'tmake dad mad, Right, and that
you're kind of creating thislike walking on eggshells
(29:43):
environment, and this was me,man, like my temper would flare
and all that kind of stuff and Iwas basically just damaging my
family on a daily basis.
And when I finally startedtaking ownership of, hey,
whatever's going on, this is themost important role I have as
husband and father and I need tomake sure that I kind of reset
myself before walking in thedoor to show that energy
(30:05):
correctly.
So whether it's a law ofattraction or not, I don't
actually know, I don't know ifit matters, but the reality is I
need to be presentable, lovinggentle, when I walk in the door,
because the world needs thewarrior, not my family, right?
They need the tender, lovinghusband and father, and that
sets the tone for everyone elseto then rebuild that connection.
So I think that plays out inevery aspect of life.
(30:29):
It's first and foremostimportant with your family, then
your profession and all theseother things, right?
But you don't have to be somemaster communicator to do well
at this.
It's literally just a littlebit of basic body posture and I
think it comes from your beliefsabout yourself, where,
naturally, your energy for lackof a better term is going to
just be more inviting to others.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
So let's dig a little deeper into these beliefs.
So when you have someone that'sstruggling, like they have this
, I can't or I don't know how,or you know I really suck, or
they're dealing with guilt orwhatever.
What are some techniques thatyou share that help someone
change their beliefs?
Because I know you got to getalone and you have to do, and
(31:11):
everybody's different.
I like the walk, you know, gofor a walk, even.
But tell us how you would sharesome of that technique with
someone coming in to changetheir beliefs.
Speaker 2 (31:25):
So really, the way that we do it in elite Sentinel
is building understanding first,right, getting back to basics
about what is a good man, and Ithink that so many guys have
this wrong picture of what thatmeans, that they think they've
been working really hard atdoing all the right things and
yet they feel like crap.
(31:46):
So then their belief naturallyis I suck or I'm unworthy or
whatever.
Right, it creates this downwardspiral.
That's been their narrative fora long time.
So, regardless of theirbackground, when you just again
focus on what we should be,focus on the ideal, what I
should be doing instead of allthe things I shouldn't be doing,
it's a lot easier to just put afew actionable steps toward
(32:07):
that goal and then, right, thefeedback starts to change.
Oh, hey, wow, that did work.
You know, my wife did actuallyreceive that well, my kids did
receive that well, or, yeah, itis going better at work now.
It's very easy for men to takethat physical world data points
from basic actions to start thenre-encouraging this new set of
(32:29):
beliefs.
So initially it's like a leakyfaucet.
Right, you got to turn thewater off first before you can
fix the leak, but you have tofix the leak still so early on.
This is where the brotherhoodis so important.
You may not actually believe itfully for yourself and you're
kind of trusting the processthat like, okay, well, I'm going
to trust what George and theother instructors are saying
(32:51):
because they look like guys thathave it figured out, so I'm
going to, you know, bet on it,right?
It is a little bit of a trustthing there.
They don't believe it fully forthemselves yet.
As the actions start tore-influence their narrative,
they start to believe it forthemselves.
Abuse issues you got to go tolike AA or rehab or whatever.
(33:15):
Right, you got to stop theproblem in its tracks first, but
then that's not the wholepicture.
There's a lot more that has tofollow suit.
It's the same thing with your,with your beliefs about yourself
so early on.
You may not fully believe itfor yourself yet and you're
going to take a little bit oftrust and like no man, that was
(33:40):
pretty good.
You are making good progress onthat.
Maybe just think about thisnext time a little bit
differently.
But overall, man, keep it up.
This is good stuff.
If you're totally trying to dothis on your own, you're never
going to get that feedback andyou're just going to keep seeing
all the negatives.
So hopefully that answered thequestion.
I don't think there's one likemagic pill or one perfect
solution for everyone.
But again, I think men arecreatures of action and we heal
(34:02):
fastest.
We change our minds and ourbeliefs about ourselves through
doing, not necessarily sittingand talk about it.
So you need a little bit oftalking about it to have kind of
the understanding at like afactual level.
But when you start to just doit and it works and you're like,
oh man, okay, I'll do it againand it just keeps working, right
, Some of these fundamentaltruths, you know, for some of
(34:23):
the guys that's like holding abasic boundary with their wife.
You know, hey, honey, I'dappreciate it if you didn't talk
to me in that tone.
I can do that, yeah, bro.
And you know what the irony is,she's actually going to be more
attracted to you over time whenyou actually start doing that
consistently.
Oh, okay, well, he may notbelieve it yet, but once it
works at the time or two he'sgoing to be like, oh dang, I
feel a lot better.
(34:44):
So now it's, his belief isgoing to fall through pretty
quick, right.
So I'm not trying to make lightof the situation.
You know, obviously some peoplehave some seriously difficult
situations that they're in orsome things that have happened
to them, and I'm superempathetic to those, and that's
why brotherhood is so importanttoo, because these are men who
are going to see you and be likedang man.
I'm with you in that.
I may not fully understand it,but how can I help?
(35:05):
I'm here for you.
That's going to help a lot interms of not feeling alone.
Speaker 3 (35:16):
Then when you take some action steps, they're going
to be like cheering you on andall that it's positive feedback.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Eventually you'll start to believe it for yourself
.
Does that make sense?
No, totally, I love it.
Man Brother, you are on it.
I love what you're doing.
I love the way you're talkingabout your coaching Definitely
listeners.
You got to check out thePresent Fathers podcast.
Seriously, you hear what he'ssaying.
If you're a dad, check PresentFathers podcast out because, wow
, george is amazing.
He's got great information.
(35:40):
He's passionate.
You can tell that right.
I mean just listening to youspeak.
We could go on for hours.
I'm sure this is so amazing andI'm super proud of the man you
are.
You talk about praise.
People don't give praise a lot,especially guys to other guys,
but, man, I'm proud of you.
I love what you're doing.
Keep it up.
(36:00):
And now let's get into a littlebit about seeing problems as
opportunities, because a lot ofpeople, I think, aren't able to
do that.
So can you talk about taking aproblem or an obstacle and
making an opportunity for life?
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Yeah, man, oh, I love this topic because this is
where the real freedom andliberation as a man actually
comes right.
We believe as a culture thatyou're going to do all these
things and you're going toarrive, right, you're going to
get to some point, some level ofgrowth, and then, oh, I won't
have problems anymore.
Right, I'll make enough moneythen.
Or I'll do this and then I'llget more fit, and then no bro,
that's not how it works, right,that's a trap.
So the reality is, whateverstage of life you're in,
(36:45):
whatever season journey you'rein, whatever level of growth
you're in, you're going toeventually get to this new kind
of threshold, right, yourcapability as a man will grow,
it will improve, and then you'regoing to be taking on more.
It's just how it goes, and thatmay initially sound like oh
dang.
Well, then I don't want to growbecause it's going to be more
pressure, there's more burden.
It actually goes in reverse,right, it feels hardest now.
(37:08):
Wherever you are this current,if you're struggling with a lot,
this is the hardest it's evergoing to be.
And, like I said, right, I'vegot more going on now in my life
than I've ever had going onprofessionally ever, like I'm
juggling a hundred differentthings every day.
I mean, being an entrepreneuris extremely difficult.
For those who may not know.
I mean, elon Musk said it'slike crawling through glass and
staring into the abyss of deathevery single day.
(37:30):
Right?
So I think he's exaggerating alittle bit, but it's hard work.
You know, there's always aproblem for me to fix, but I
feel more free and liberatedthan I've ever felt because my
human ability, my growth as aman, has far exceeded the
stresses of the day, if thatmakes sense.
And I've got my brotherhoodright.
So when I do hit that wall, I'mlike dang man, I don't know.
(37:50):
I don't know if I can do this.
I'm reaching out to them andthey're like no dude, you've got
this, do this, this and this.
Hey, you messed that up.
No big deal, whatever, right?
It's all the counsel that Ineed to move forward.
That reframe happens over time,right?
This is again.
(38:11):
It's a new way of thinking,it's a new conditioning you have
to have in your brain and it'snot like you're going to
magically just do something andthen be like the guy right.
And I've seen it with all myfriends too, that I look up to,
who are further along in theirjourneys than me, where they get
to this new tier of you know,it may even be a good thing,
right, like a new client wantsto pay them more than they've
ever been offered, and they'relike, whoa, am I the guy, can I
actually do that?
(38:31):
And that's a natural responsetoo is like, well, we don't
think we're worthy of it.
Right, that's another level ofgrowth we have to have.
But you're going to whateverthat plateau, that new thing
that comes, you're going to kindof have that moment of
temptation going back to like,oh well, I don't know if I can
do that and that's why, again,you need that outside influence.
But that reframe is criticaland I think it's impossible to
(38:57):
do it for yourself.
I think you have to have amentor, a coach, a brotherhood
that can wisely help you reframeit and then kind of guide you
on the initial steps so that youcan begin the journey.
And I'll use kind of a I'mgoing to keep like names out of
it just for like privacy sake.
But a friend of mine is goingthrough a pretty difficult
situation in their marriage youknow the D word's been thrown
around a lot and potentiallythey're going to go that
(39:18):
direction.
And uh, you know, he wasobviously feeling really down
and all that kind of stuff, andand we had a quick conversation
about hey, man, you know this is, you can only control you at
this point.
Right, there's.
There's no way that you can tryand logic her to change her
decision-making or actions.
This is an opportunity for youto not only grow yourself and
(39:42):
hopefully influence her to joinyou in restoration, but it's
also the opportunity to modelthis for your children, because
one day they're going to grow up.
But if this does go the worstcase and you guys do get
divorced, one day those childrenare going to grow up.
They're going to start askingquestions and realizing what
happened and you'll be able tolook them honestly in the eye
and say, hey, I did everything Ipossibly could to work through
(40:03):
this, to be loving and caringand all those things.
Right, I explored every avenue,I didn't give up, and that's
going to mean a lot to them oneday.
So, as painful as this is today, this is an opportunity for you
to take intentional steps andwhen you're feeling at your
breaking point, brother, youcall me immediately, you give me
a text.
Hey, sos, 911, whatever, let meknow.
(40:24):
Right, you can vent to mebecause I'm not in the midst of
it.
It doesn't hurt me, like, okay,bro, hey, that sucks, tell me
more.
All right, let's get back at itnow, right, like I can take it.
So support on your brothers,and that reframe happens.
So that's.
That's like one very painfulexample.
Um, even, as you know, I'm kindof an expert on this and I still
(40:44):
have to have guys do that forme, right?
I?
I reached out to a buddy whomentors me a lot on on the
business side of things and Ijust had this problem and I like
couldn't fix it.
I'm like, ah, the marketing andthis and that, and I couldn't
figure it out.
And he listened to me for twominutes and was like one
sentence solved the wholeproblem.
And I was just like, dude, wealways have to have that,
(41:04):
because you're in the midst ofit, it's hard to see it.
Right.
And that's what I doprofessionally too with my
business clients is I come in asan outsider.
I is I come in as an outsider,I assess the problems in their
business and I just help themfix it left and right, because
I'm not in the midst of it.
Day to day, I can see clearly.
So that's a truth of humannature that you just have to
(41:25):
accept.
And yeah, the reframe is veryhard to do on your own.
When you start to surroundyourself with the right people,
they're going to help you dothat consistently and then
eventually becomes a little bitmore of like a trained response.
Right, I don't necessarily needto vent every single problem I
have now, because I've learnedthese mechanisms to kind of do
it for myself as much as I can,and then when I can't do it
alone, you know, then you tapinto your network.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
Yeah, that's being able to step back and
objectively look at the wholepicture.
When we're in it it's harder todo.
You do Now you can learnthrough self-awareness and all
right, let me step back and youcan get better at it.
But absolutely having a peergroup around you and having your
tribe that can help you isgreat.
And next I want to get into gutfeelings, or the spirit,
(42:09):
because I think everybody insideof us, no matter who you are
listening or even any of yourclients deep down inside we know
the right thing to do but wekind of suppress it.
So let's talk about that innervoice and spirit inside and
maybe listening to it.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Um, just so I understand the question fully,
are you talking about maybetrusting your gut?
Is that where you're kind ofgoing, trust your gut?
Speaker 1 (42:32):
or the spiritual guidance that you have inside.
Like you know, oh man, I shouldexercise more, oh, I shouldn't
drink this beer, or I shouldn'tlike.
We have that inner voice orthat inner guidance or gut
feelings or spirit.
So can you key in to that asfar as helping people learn to
listen, that they do have someguidance within them?
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Yeah.
So I think the best way toactually do this is to go on
offense about it, right?
So you were kind of all thesequestions about yourself, right,
was the example you just gave.
The fastest way to clear thatup and stop that and to just be
more of a man of action is partof like a morning routine of
some nature, and what thatentails is writing a creed for
(43:17):
yourself that is contextualizedsolely to your own life, so like
if someone else read it it maynot mean much to them, but to
you it means everything.
So it's a living document andit's short, right?
This is like bullet points,couple key sentences where
you're going to recenteryourself hey, this is the man
I'm becoming today, these arethe things that I'm going to do,
these are the things that Ibelieve about myself.
(43:39):
That stops the noise up here,and kind of on that emotional,
spiritual side, because, again,instead of weighing every single
option, it's just like no,these are the three things I'm
going to do.
I'm going to control my temper,I'm going to do this, I'm going
to work out whatever, whateverthose things are.
So for me, right, I live a verypublic life.
(44:01):
Now.
The very first sentence of minethat I recite to myself every
morning, right?
I just I'm just checking in inthis season of life is?
It's a line from that poem, ifby Rudyard Kipling, where, if
you can hear the truth, you'vespoken twisted by fools to make
a trap, or twisted by knaves tomake a trap for fools, then
you'll be a man, and that's thereality.
My words get twisted and usedagainst me and people comment on
(44:22):
my stuff all the time, andthat's just the reality of what
I do.
Now.
It's something I have to endureand tolerate and kind of bear,
and you know that was achallenge initially.
So I put that in there just toremind myself hey, man, it's
going to happen, but you'rebigger than that.
That's not you, that's not yourwords.
You know, seeing a 10-secondclip of you on the internet and
someone getting mad at you,that's not something to react
(44:43):
over, right?
That's just one example.
For a lot of guys we start alot more simple.
Like you know, if they'rehaving self-love issues, it's
I'm worthy.
Maybe that's the first sentence, that's it I am worthy, I am.
Statements about yourself areextremely powerful, both
negative or positive, and that'swhere guys really need to catch
themselves.
So I think that daily morningconsistency of starting your day
(45:07):
with some true statements aboutyourself.
The objective you're movingtowards, the growth you're
pursuing is going on offense, asopposed to being reactionary,
like, oh, I'm feeling this way,now what do I do?
No, we already handled thatfirst thing in the morning.
And then when you feel thatyou're like, nope, I know better
, I'm doing the right thing, Ibelieve in this, or I'm going to
work out or whatever right youcan insert your season of life
(45:31):
you're in.
But for some guys their marriageis really struggling.
So they're putting statementsin there that you know I was
working really hard oncontrolling my anger and having
more emotional intelligence andkind of empathy, so I was
putting statements in there likeI will remind myself daily that
my anger will cause lastingdamage if I don't control it
(45:52):
right.
I will never raise my voice atmy children or my wife.
I will be calm even when I'mangry.
Right, I was using statementslike that to start conditioning
my mind of this better versionof me I wanted to be, and it may
sound a little woo-woo andcrazy and stuff, but that's how
our brains work, man.
That narrative playing in yourhead is everything.
(46:13):
That's how you show up in life,and so if it's a bad one, guess
what?
You're gonna get bad results.
Speaker 1 (46:19):
No absolutely Myself.
I'm like, I am what I ambecause I choose to be.
That's the first line that I gothrough every day.
You know, like I have choicesand I can make a good choice or
I can make a bad choice, andthat is so powerful and that
gives ownership to you and yourlife.
And absolutely George is rightFind something that you relate
(46:40):
to or you need to work on andwrite a statement down.
I like to before I go to bed.
You know, kind of review theday.
Aars is like we say in themilitary like all right, what
did I do good today, what do Ineed to work on when I need to
prove?
And then in the morning I startfresh and I get like my to-do
list or I'm going to do this,this and this is what I'm
working on.
So I think those things arevery powerful and important.
(47:02):
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(47:23):
Asset Mindset.
It'll help you.
It'll change your life.
It'll help you be your greatestasset Now, before we go.
We've talked about a lot ofdifferent things, but I want to
get that one big nugget, or thatimportant thing, or the one
thing that you want to leave theaudience with.
If you could just implant onemindset, principle or philosophy
(47:45):
into every person that'slistening right now, today, what
would it be and why?
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Whatever background you come from, whatever
challenges you've faced,whatever adversity you've had to
go through whether it was fairor unfair, all that kind of
stuff whatever the past has been, you get to choose today what
tomorrow will be like.
You get to start redirectingthe course of your life.
No one can do it for you.
You have to be part of your ownrescue.
Like I said, once you startdown the new path, people will
(48:15):
present themselves to you, helpwill arrive, but you have to be
the one to make the shift.
You have to choose for yourself.
Living in self-pity and pain andwallowing in the past is a
choice, and it isn't fair.
Life is not fair.
I know a lot of people who havehad it way harder than me, but
they all believe the same thingI just said, and so I don't
think it's me being some specialdude.
(48:37):
It's a choice we all have tomake, especially for the men.
This is something we'redesigned to do is to build
legacy.
It's not some you know fluffyword for kings and world leaders
.
It's something that every manshould be thinking about because
that, again, if you define whatyou want your end legacy of
your life to be, that's yourNorth Star.
(48:57):
All of your actions are thengoing to be influenced.
It's a lot easier to decide whatI should be doing on a daily
basis when I have a clearpicture of that end state and
you get to be the one to changethat right.
So if you come from a familyline that's got lots of drug
abuse or physical abuse orwhatever any of those types of
problems that typically kind ofgo on for generations, you get
(49:19):
to be the one to change it.
As the man you have the powerto change that for your family,
and maybe you're not going tofully fix it all, but you make
enough of an effort that yourkids then get to build upon that
and rewrite the whole story ofyour family.
And who knows, hundreds ofyears from now they may be
living a prosperous life becauseof the actions you took today.
(49:42):
So that shouldn't just feellike a burden, it should feel
like an opportunity, and the waythat you do that is loving
yourself enough to prioritizegrowing yourself.
It may sound selfish, but whenyou grow yourself in that manner
you then have the opportunityto actually build that type of a
legacy for others.
Speaker 1 (50:01):
Great I love it.
I love it.
And it's not where you start,it's where you're going,
absolutely.
Where are you going, listeners?
Do you have a goal?
Do you know where it is thatyou want to be?
Do you know the legacy that youwant to build?
It's so important to have thosethings.
You need a destination and onceyou have that, you can
backwards plan and figure outall right, if I need to be here,
(50:22):
I need to do this, this andthis.
First, you know it's.
It seems complicated, but it'sreally not.
The most complicated part thatI see and I'm sure you see this
too, george is discipline tocreate the positive habits.
But once you have thatdiscipline and you create the
habits, you can do it.
Speaker 2 (50:44):
Hey.
So for those listening, I justwant to provide a free resource.
It's my seven-day challenge, somaybe you've heard some things
that we were just talking abouttoday, where you're like, man, I
want to do that, but I don'tknow where to get started.
This is it.
Okay, I'm not going gonna spamyou with like 7,000 emails,
right?
It's gonna send one to you perday for seven days.
These are very actionablelittle exercises to get you
started on that path, and if youdon't work with me, that's fine
(51:04):
.
I want you to take this, makethe most of it, and then maybe
that is enough of a spark tohelp you find the right resource
.
Whatever it is, I just want mento actually take ownership of
their lives and start havingthat better life they've always
dreamed of.
So these are free steps for youto take.
It's in the description.
Click on that.
It's self-guided, it'sextremely easy, but it will
(51:25):
certainly give you someactionable steps to do the
things we were talking about inthis episode.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Thank you for joining us at the Asset Mindset Podcast
.
I hope you enjoyed everythingthat you heard and learned a lot
, because George has a lot ofknowledge.
Don't forget to follow, likeand subscribe the Asset Mindset
and definitely check us out onthe next episode and own your
power and share this withsomeone who needs it.
God bless, we'll see you nexttime.
well, george, it's great to meet you.
It's great to have you here.
I'm excited and looking forwardto, you know, our time together
.
I love what you're doing.
You're an inspiration to somany and it really is an honor
to have you here yeah well,thank you so much, man, it's.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It's a real honor to be here, um, really glad that
we're connecting and hopefully Ican pay forward that
inspiration a little bit morehere on this episode.
But just in short, my name isGeorge Hayworth.
First and foremost I'm ahusband and father.
Combat veteran, served sometime on active duty deployed to
Afghanistan, got out.
Now I serve in the NationalGuard, so still kind of playing
(00:44):
army a little bit today.
But then my business that Ifounded is Elite Sentinel
Coaching, where you alluded to.
We train and mentor men.
The slogan there is forgingleaders so they can build their
legacies.
And really what I've found justin my own walk in life, as well
as with all the men that I'vehelped, is when you hone in on
the man himself, whether he's ahusband or father or just
working on himself for the timebeing before he gets married,
(01:06):
that's the highest return oninvestment, right?
When you train a man how tolive to a higher code and really
do it for himself, not for someexternal pursuit of excellence
or something, the impacts thathe will make in everybody's life
around him just ripples on andoutward, and so I mean I think
we got away from that in oursociety of focusing on men first
and kind of treating them assecond-class citizens, and so
(01:27):
it's not at the expense of women.
We can train men and build menup and not have to take away
from women, and I think thatthat's where our culture has
gotten into.
Is this huge power strugglebetween the genders, and it's
kind of a loser's game.
Right, it's a race to thebottom.
So that's a little bit about me.
So that's a little bit about me.
That's the realm I play in andwhat I do, and I'm involved in a
lot of other things.
I host the Present Fatherspodcast.
I get to work with Nick Laveryas part of Precision Components
(01:48):
and pay forward some of theinspiration and motivation there
a little bit through adifferent organization as well.
So at a high level, that'sGeorge Hayworth, and let's dive
into this episode today.
Man, thanks for having me on.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Sounds great and you are the epitome of what I'd name
the asset mindset philosophy.
You're living it.
You are helping people takeownership.
Sounds like you've takenownership of your life, but I
want to dive into somethingright off the bat.
What was the single hardestmoment in your life where you
realized you either needed tostep up and do it and take
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ownership and actually have thatmental shift where I'm in
control?
Where was that moment in yourlife, or moments you can say
more than one if there's acouple that were impactful, but
I noticed pretty much everybodythat has this strong mindset.
There was that defining momentor the pinnacle moment where
(02:42):
they were like I got to do thisand I need to take control.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah.
So for me that's a pretty easyanswer.
Basically my rock bottom.
I had been committing adultery,so I had betrayed my wife in
the worst way possible and justfound myself hating myself and
even questioning who the heck Iam, cause I didn't agree with
what I was doing.
I was raised better, you know,I knew it was wrong, and yet
here I am doing that.
So that really for me wasbasically there's no way to go
(03:11):
but up from there, and thatobviously was a long journey and
a long process.
But for me that would be thatsingular moment where it was
like, dude, you have been doingall the wrong things and you've
been trying to fool the worldthat you're this great guy and
obviously you're not.
So it was time to stop the act.
And then, through that, whatI've learned actually is I don't
have control, and that was myproblem is, I was trying to
(03:33):
control everything and you can'twillpower yourself through your
problems, right.
You can't just bear down andgrit harder and solve your flaws
, and that's what I was doing,right.
And I think a lot of men findthemselves in that position, and
so for me, my faith isextremely important in that
journey as well, and I knowthat's not for everyone I'm not
(03:53):
here to preach at anyone but forme it was that moment after
that starting to get help,starting to humble myself before
other men that you know wereliving in a way that I wanted to
follow that again it was kindof just obvious to me.
It hit me in the face that well, all this time I've been
professing to believe in God,but George is trying to maintain
(04:14):
control of everything and it'simpossible.
And so the irony here is that,the more that I actually
surrendered to God and just gaveit over to Him, it still
requires work.
It's not like he just magicallysolved everything for me, but
stopping to try to controleverything and actually just
trusting him and following hisguidance was actually how I got
out of that situation.
So I hope that answered thequestion well.
(04:35):
But I think we all havesomething in our lives that is
probably that pivotal momentwhere you've maybe made a huge
mistake or something really badhappened to you and maybe it's
unfair.
But we all have that option.
We can either let it destroy usor we can choose to actually
get help for it.
And if you're anything like me,where you know you had outward
success but internally.
(04:55):
You're just being chewed upinside and you know can't handle
it anymore.
I assure you that when youfinally reach out to some people
to get real help, that weightis going to get a lot lighter
very quickly and you'll start togain clarity through the chaos
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like well, you know the peopleof faith are like well, God, and
absolutely I'm a man of faithas well.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
But you even said it, I chose to go back.
So you still have to take someownership.
You're giving up control, butto give up control, that's a
decision.
So you still like the Lord'sthere and we're not trying to
get too preachy here in theasset mindset today, but he's
there with open arms.
You need to choose to walktowards him.
So you still have that powerbecause we have free will.
(05:50):
So it's not that God's out ofthe picture when you have the
asset mindset.
He's there, he's always there,in my opinion, in my faith, but
you still have to choose to movetowards him completely.
You know that's powerful.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I agree that your mind is your greatest asset too,
right, and that's whether youbelieve in God or not.
We have unique minds as humanbeings, right.
I believe we were created thatway.
It's not an accident.
But whatever you believe, let'sjust.
You know, call spades spades.
We think differently than everyother creature on this planet,
right, we have hopes and dreamsand visions of the future.
I don't really think animals dothat, right.
(06:25):
They kind of just live day today.
So we as humans are uniquelydifferent on this planet.
So with that, there is thisdesire to kind of conquer ground
and move forward and be morethan we are today.
And if you don't hone your mind, it will either be your.
So if you hone it, it's yourgreatest weapon.
If you don't, it can be yourgreatest hindrance and this is
where I find a lot of men too isthey just have these
(06:46):
self-destructive loops playingin their head on repeat, and the
way that they talk tothemselves is just breaking them
down before they even start theday, and so of course, you're
feeling stressed and anxious andlonely and tired and yearning
for more.
I say that's salty.
Most men are salty todaybecause they don't hone their
mind, they aren't using theirmind as their greatest weapon,
(07:07):
and so you know.
The other thing, too, that youwere kind of alluding to here is
the concept of submission.
Right, that's a dirty wordtoday, especially in the context
of marriage, but to submit isactually a choice, right, and we
accept this pretty mucheverywhere.
Like, most people have a boss,right, you go to work and you
have a boss, you submit to thatauthority.
So Most people have a bossright.
You go to work and you have aboss, you submit to that
authority.
So why is it any problem thenthat you submit to something
else that's actually gonna helpyou?
And so maybe you're a combatveteran, maybe you've got PTSD,
(07:29):
maybe you saw some things thatyou're really questioning.
You know, how could a lovingGod let that happen?
Or why did that happen to me?
Or maybe you're havingsurvivor's a little bit humbling
, it's a little bit scary, but Iassure you that when you do
that, you'll actually feel morecontrol over your life, even
(07:49):
though you're letting it goright.
It's this weird paradox of beinghuman where we try to control
everything, but when we'retrying to control everything,
what we really mean is I'mtrying to architect a situation
where I have peace.
Really, that's really what itis.
We're trying to force peace,but what I found is that the
only way to actually have peacein your life, regardless of how
chaotic things may be.
(08:10):
You know, I'm an entrepreneur,I'm a dad, I'm super busy, my
schedule's nuts, but I have morepeace today than I've ever had
in my life, despite all thethings I have going on, because
I finally learned that I do haveto submit things right.
Whether it's advice for mybusiness or advice for my
marriage or whatever the topicis.
I have to submit to someone elsewho knows more than me,
actually has the experience tohelp me, whether it's little or
(08:32):
big.
We all have to choose that forus.
So I think that's part ofhoning your mind is
understanding where yourstrengths naturally lie, leaning
into those things and thethings that are your weaknesses.
Hey brother, you got to gethelp.
This whole lone wolf, sigmamale type of thing is just a
(08:52):
fool's errand.
Quite frankly and that was me Itried to do it all on my own
and I almost destroyed my entirelife, so let that be a warning
to you.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, no, absolutely.
And that's one of the conceptsI talk about in my book is you
need to surround yourself withgood people and be in good
environments so you can't bealone.
And everybody knows that.
You know if you take one stick,you know you break it.
You put two together it's alittle stronger, but if you get
a bundle, you know that'sstrength and it won't break.
So by putting yourself in theseenvironments, so say, you have
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someone that's coming in, that'sstruggling, like you said, in
like a loop of victimization, orI can't deal with this, or
whatnot, when you're coaching,how do you help them break that
victim mentality?
Or you know, what techniques doyou share to help someone get
their mind right?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah.
So I'm actually going to stealfrom a mentor of mine named
David Walde here.
He's got a framework thatreally highlights this exact
question very well on how wechange that right.
So the way we do it in ourprogram beliefs, which then
influence your thoughts, whichinfluence your feelings and then
influences your action right,maybe I flipped feelings and
(10:11):
thoughts, I forget.
But what you believe aboutyourself, it starts with you.
No one can do that for you.
I can't come into your head andchange the way that you believe
about you.
You have to do that foryourself.
But whatever you're believingpositive or negative that then
influences how you feel and yourthoughts are a result of those.
So those may be lying to you,right, you may have all these
(10:32):
thoughts and feelings that aresaying you're a loser or this or
that or whatever, but it's allfabricated, based off of you
honing in on just the negatives,where there may actually still
be plenty of positives in yourlives or things that you could
be pursuing.
But because you chose tobelieve the negative, now
everything is just in thisfeedback loop, right.
Then your action of course,follows everything internally
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with yourself in line with thosebeliefs.
Then your thoughts and feelingsstart to flow more in
accordance with positiveemotions, positive thoughts that
build you up and help you moveforward to conquer whatever your
challenge may be, and youraction will follow suit.
But again, you can't justwillpower your way right.
You can't just start well, I'mgoing to do all the right things
and then I'll feel better.
(11:20):
It doesn't work that way.
It has to come from withinfirst.
And this is why you see a lotof men.
They'll do 75 hard or somethingand they'll lose like 20 pounds
and then, as soon as it's over,they put it right back on or
they'll read some self-help bookand for like three months
they're like totally on fire andthen they just totally regress
afterwards.
And that's because you reallydrive into heavily.
(11:43):
We spend an entire week on justthe way that men talk to
themselves and think aboutthemselves in our program
because it's that important.
And we do that very early on inthe process because, again, I
can teach you all the tacticsand all the wisdom and all the
knowledge.
But if you still, deep down,think that you're not worthy of
more, or that you're selfish, orthat you're a failure, or
whatever these thought processesmay be, I can't help you.
(12:04):
It's just never going to beenough.
So that is a responsibilitythat every man has, and it may
not be fair either, right?
I think this is another trap wefall into.
Like well, that's not fair, man.
I know some people who havebeen through the most insane
lives.
That is beyond unfair, and theystill will say the same thing
that I'm about to say Tough shit.
It's your choice.
(12:24):
You have to choose.
Are you going to be the one tochange the story or are you
going to just stay a victim toit, and no one can do that for
you.
So that may sting a little.
No-transcript.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Absolutely.
I love it.
George man, you got it.
You got the asset mindset, andthat's why I'm so glad and
honored to have you on here,because you're spitting the
truth, and it doesn't matterexactly what you call it or what
you define it as, but the truthis the truth, and the truth
will set you free.
It really will, and it is true.
It starts in the mind.
That's why I got the assetmindset your mind.
(13:01):
You have to have the thoughtsbefore anything else can start
to happen, before you canunleash your power of being a
creator.
Let's get into now.
We've shifted someone'sthoughts.
They're now starting tosurround themselves in better
and more positive places.
What do they do next in?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
better and more positive places.
What do they do next?
Yeah, so I think for men, oneof the easiest ways to start
reinforcing the new belief aboutyourself is physical fitness.
Now, it's not trying to becomeArnold Schwarzenegger, that's
not what.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
But if you're a few pounds overweight, or maybe
you're not overweight but youjust haven't really been
exercising very much, orwhatever, men are naturally very
physical creatures.
Right, we're formed from themud, right?
When God made.
Adam he made him from the dirt.
That says a lot about themasculine nature, right?
We're kind of knuckle draggersat heart, right?
Whether you're, you know youmay be listening to this and
you're 500 IQ way smarter thanme, but at the end of the day we
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still are very responsive tophysical activity in some way.
So for me that's like theeasiest starting point for most
guys.
If you're kind of like, well, Idon't know if I'm really that,
you know, whatever, you'retrying to change your beliefs,
just go start exercising on abasic, consistent routine that
immediately starts to give youthat feedback that we talked
about, that starts to changethat narrative for you that, hey
, you know what.
I can keep a promise to myself.
(14:17):
I set a goal, I'm going tostick with it.
Make it realistic, right, ifyou're completely out of shape,
you're not going to be winning abodybuilding competition in six
months.
So just start with some realgoals there.
But the point isn't to be theworld's fittest man, it's just
to start proving to yourselfthat you can be a man of your
word.
And then that influences more.
You know from a scientificpoint of view that your biology,
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your endorphins, release.
You know there's all thesepositive benefits from exercise.
But for men that's like stepnumber one.
The best next thing is you haveto have a real brotherhood
around you.
This is, ironically, one of thehardest things.
For men who come through ourprogram isn't necessarily, you
know, defeating a challenge theyhave or a character flaw or
something.
(14:58):
It's teaching them how to givethemselves a pat on the back
when they do something right.
You know, guys are soconditioned today to only focus
on the negatives or your worthis totally derived for how much
you can output or provide orwhatever, and you'll see it that
they have a hard time evensharing a win or even like
acknowledging credit for whenthey did something right.
(15:19):
So a lot of the times ourcoaching isn't necessarily
correcting a wrong.
It's like no man, you're doingthe right thing, continue to do
that.
And they're like oh really.
And I'm like, yeah, bro, keepdoing that, that's great,
continue to do that and watch.
The results will follow.
And that only comes from havingreal men around you.
As a man who respect you, careabout you.
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Sometimes we'll give you thepush you need, but other times,
kind of give you thatreinforcement.
We're like, no bro, that's theright answer, continue mission.
You know, when we are isolatedwe start to lie to ourselves.
Our fears take over, ouranxiety takes over, right, like
I'm a pretty capable guy.
I've learned a lot of thisstuff, but if I didn't keep
leaning on all these men that Itrust still today that I'm
texting basically every singleday.
(16:01):
I'm not sure I'd be on thispodcast right now.
I'm a product of the fact that Ihave a lot of great men around
me reminding me like no man,that's it.
Keep going, don't give up.
You're three feet from gold.
Keep digging.
We often become our own worstenemy.
So I think those are the twoeasiest things guys can do is
build some strong friendshipswith other men where you really
(16:22):
lay it out there.
Hey bro, I'm not doing good.
This week, my wife and I hadthis huge argument Okay, man,
well, tell me more, that's it.
Guys, you don't have to be liketherapy or whatever, it's, just
talk to each other and then theother one is workout.
You start doing those twothings.
A lot falls into place prettyquickly.
There's obviously many morethings we can do, but in the
interest of time and just quick,actionable items get some
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friends go, take them to lunch,go to coffee, whatever.
Put yourself out there.
Hey bro, I like you.
I think we have a lot of sharedvalues.
I just want to get to know youbetter.
Do that.
I assure you, that'll help alot and then work out.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Absolutely, man.
I love having guests like youbecause you get it, you're
living it, you know you'reinspiring.
And I want to add to this and Ithink you're because we're
going through the process ofchanging and growing your mind
and growing as a man or a person.
For any of you women, thisapplies to you as well, if
you're listening, now, once youhave these great people that
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you're around, I want you totalk a little bit about when you
give, you know, when you payforward what you're doing, you
become an asset to others.
Because that's the thirdconcept that I share is that
once you become an asset toothers, the more you give, the
more you receive, and peopledon't realize in so many ways
how the giving or helping othershelps yourself.
(17:36):
So can you touch upon that andsee from your own personal
experience or anybody you workedwith on doing that, when you
take that next step, beyond justbeing with a good group of
people?
Now you are participating andbeing an asset for those friends
or family or members in yourcircle.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Definitely as men.
I think that's ourresponsibility.
There is a level of fulfillmentand purpose we find, as men,
responsibility.
There is a level of fulfillmentand purpose.
We find, as men, that when webuild ourselves up in some skill
or wisdom or knowledge,whatever the topic is building
your capability up for yourselffirst, with the help of mentors
and guidance there is then thathigher level of fulfillment that
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comes from being able to passthat on to someone else.
We're designed that way.
It's not an accident, right?
The world tries to poo-poo thatand make men afraid to do it by
using words like mansplaining.
Make no mistake, the weapons ofour modern age are words.
The meanings of words have beencorrupted to trap men and make
them fearful of taking any kindof action.
(18:39):
You know, for being labeledsomething or judged or whatever,
you have to have the courage tobe disliked right.
A good man understands thathe's not here to try and
convince everyone that he'sright.
He's just going to do the rightthing and for those who are
willing to receive, he's goingto bless their lives a lot.
So that idea of buildingyourself up and then paying it
forward, I think, is programmedinto our DNA as a man, for every
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father listening to this, youknow.
I don't even need to explainthis to you, you already
understand it, right?
The second your kid was born,you knew immediately in that
moment holy crap, I've got moreresponsibility now than I've
ever had in my life, and that'sby design.
So what's the point of all of it?
Right, it's not to just masswealth and like glorify
ourselves.
Right, that's what AndrewTate's do.
Guys like that.
They're all you know.
Look at me, look at all thecars, look at all the women.
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Why is he doing all this stuff?
It's just to keep piling on his, you know, attaboys to himself.
A real good man builds himselfup not for selfish gain but
understanding that, hey, I canlive for others.
Right, you want to live a greatlife, live for other people,
Everything I'm doing, yeah, itfeels good.
Right, that certainly isrewarding to start a business
(19:42):
and be successful in all thesethings.
Right, it's not like it's allsacrifice, all the time, but the
ripple effects and thedifferences we get to make in
other people's lives, regardlessof your profession.
If you're willing, it can belife-changing for someone.
Right?
Maybe you don't go intofull-time coaching, Maybe it's
just a quick conversation youhad with someone when they're
having the worst week of theirlife, you may have kept them on
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this earth.
Right, that is a life-changingaction you made in someone
else's life because you werewilling and able to actually use
your expertise and help them.
That's no small feat and Ithink we downplay.
We get caught in thiscomparison game of well, I've
got to have all the cars and allthe women and all the status
before then I can do good things.
No, bro, you can be broke andhurting and all that kind of
(20:27):
stuff.
And as long as you're a littlebit further along the path and
you see someone else who'swilling to receive, I assure you
you can make a positive impactin their life and then in return
, that builds you up.
So to close this one up on anice little bow, here is men
need three types of other men intheir lives.
Right, you need mentors, whicharen't that hard to find.
You just kind of put yourselfout there and if you show that
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you're willing to learn andyou're hungry to reach that next
level most guys who aresuccessful, strong, good men
they're going to look at me like, Ooh, I see you, I see myself
from 10 years ago.
Let me help you, bro.
The next one is peers, whichwe'll come back to.
That's actually the hardest oneto cultivate.
And then you need proteges,right, People that you are
mentoring.
(21:08):
The reason there is you shouldconstantly be growing yourself
with your own mentors.
But there's still a level ofdistance there, right, and
that's by design, because thereneeds to be that level of
respect and kind of submissionto this higher authority,
because then you're just goingto soak it all in and gain from
that, right, and it's rewardingfor them as well.
Right, it's a two-way streetthe one you are mentoring or
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ones you are mentoring.
Same thing it forces you to bebetter.
You got to practice what youpreach, right, you have to
maintain the knowledge and buildyourself up.
But the peer group is thehardest one and this is where
most men find themselvescompletely stuck.
Again, they're salty, right.
They're stressed, angry, lonely, tired and yearning for more
because they're so cut off.
That peer group is actually themost important piece of the
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equation, in my opinion.
Right, you could have 20mentors and all these people
you're helping.
And if you have no actual guysin the same season of life as
you, it's not age, it's season.
Right, it's based off of kindof shared values and experiences
you're in, you are going tofeel very empty because you're
just giving of everyone else andnothing fills you back up.
And so that peer group isessential, because they're the
ones where it's like, man, I'mjust really stressed this week
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and you just lay it down beforethem and like we got you, bro, I
get it, I'm in the exact sameboat.
Let's talk about it or let's go.
You know, let's go get whatever, let's go work out or something
.
You know that that peer groupis kind of the one that restores
you so that you can continue todo the other ones.
And if you're all focused ongrowth and you don't have a peer
group, at some point you'regoing to, your batteries are
going to drain, you're going torun out of gas and that peer
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group is really the only waythat you're going to build it
back up.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Oh, I love it and I want to touch more on this
because I think it is such animportant topic is mentors and
mentorship.
For anyone out there that youknow you're a listener and
you're like man I really don'tthat a mentor has when you
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approach them Because a goodmentor they're going to get
excited about it.
They're not going to be like,oh no, I don't have time or
whatever Mentors.
People want to teach.
You talked about being a father.
You're teaching your kids.
You know you enjoy that, youfind pleasure in it.
You see their achievements.
(23:29):
So let's talk about mentorshipand finding a mentor and how to
help someone do that and not beafraid to reach out to get a
mentor.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I'm not dodging the question, but I'm going to give
a little bit of a roundaboutanswer.
To get back to this, because Ithink there's a fundamental
thing here we have to tie backto the beliefs.
So your beliefs about yourselfhave to change first, because
then everything that you do isinfluenced by that.
The way that you show up, theway that you present, the energy
that you give off, stems fromyour core beliefs about yourself
.
So if you're seeking growth insome area, you need to really
(23:57):
dig into your own belief aboutyourself in this right and to
just be very granular here.
If it's I want to be a betterfather, right.
You have to focus on what youneed to do, like what you want
to become, not finding yourselfin all the things you shouldn't
do.
Right, as combat veterans, wecan understand this.
Right.
In a firefight, you're notthinking about all the things
you shouldn't be doing.
(24:17):
You're thinking about the onething you should do, right Gain,
fire superiority and thenmaneuver as appropriate, right.
So we got to have that samementality here with our beliefs
of okay, I want to be a betterfather.
I'm not there today.
I want to be there.
That's my end goal.
I mean, what do I believe aboutmyself?
I believe I can do that.
I believe I'm worthy about that.
Now, everything's going tofollow suit.
So that has to be step one.
Then, when you're like, okay,now I believe this for myself, I
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need a mentor, and that becauseyou've changed your belief,
because you're changing the wayyou show yourself and present
yourself, like you said, thatmentor is going to be excited
because they're going to go ooh,here's one who wants to learn.
I can't wait to do this withyou, right?
So you have to have a littlebit of personal courage and
vulnerability there, a littlebit of courageous transparency,
(25:04):
as my good friend BrandonBlinson says.
You got to lay it out there,right?
And the interesting thing tooabout a mentor is it may not
have to be necessarily this hugeconversation.
When you start on the pathtowards that next objective
whether it's growth as a man oras a husband or father or
professional, whatever when youstart down that path, people are
going to recognize that, hey,this guy's actually putting in
(25:25):
the work to be that next thing.
And so if they recognize thatfrom above, so to speak, they'll
reach out to you, they're goingto show themselves to you.
Man, I can't the number of menwho have just happened to pop
into my life in this journey inthe last couple of years for me
I can't even name them all.
It's been so many, right, butjust every single one has been a
little bit of a mentor to me insome area that they have
(25:47):
expertise, right.
Maybe it was just a singlesentence, but that has altered
my life for the better justbecause I had started down the
path.
If I was waiting for someonefirst to show me all the answers
and then take action, it neverwould happen.
So you have to kind of take thefirst step.
Um, yeah, and it and it thisfear of like, oh well, they may
(26:09):
reject me or something.
It's just not true.
I have yet to reach out tosomeone that I think could help
me with a problem who you know Ilook up to in a way.
Um, and as long as you presentit in that like hey, you know, I
respect what you're doing, Ithink I could learn a lot from
you.
Would you take a call with me?
The answer has almost alwaysbeen yes.
I've pretty much never beenturned down.
I just don't think that peopleare actually that hard to reach.
(26:32):
We are too afraid to ask.
Put yourself out there.
Worst case, they say no and youjust look for a new one.
That's it.
You just move on to the next.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Absolutely I love that you're talking about
beliefs and energy and whatyou're putting out there and you
know, some people call it thelaw of attraction, you know, and
they laugh like oh ha, ha ha.
But seriously it works.
You are at a certain mindset,you live a certain way.
You exude this vibration andenergy.
(27:01):
People relate on that.
I mean anybody listening.
You've been in the room and youor you first meet somebody and
you just go, wow, there'ssomething different about them.
That energy is real and I lovethat you're touching on that.
Heck, we're here togetherbecause of that.
Look at us and our differentpaths.
And now here we are on thispodcast together, both preaching
the truth and the same things,to help other people, to mentor.
(27:25):
So I think that's great.
So do you ever talk about thelaw of attraction?
I mean, obviously you just dida little bit with energy and
whatnot.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Do you do anything with that, or I don't really I
don't, I don't know, I don'treally subscribe to that fully.
Um, I just think it's.
Um, we're just designed thatway as humans, right, If you go
back to kind of our base biology, it's, we're constantly trying
to evaluate are you a threat orare you a friend?
Right, that's our limbic systemjust doing its job.
With that, only 7% of humancommunication is with words.
(27:57):
7%, that's it, right.
93% is nonverbal.
So again, when I say that yourbeliefs are influencing
everything, if you believe thatyou're a loser who's not worthy
of love or friendship, guesswhat?
Everyone else is gonna startpicking up on that exact same
emotion, Because that's howyou're going to start presenting
.
Right, you can tell so much bya man just by, like are his
(28:18):
shoulders back, Is his head highor is he kind of slouched and
does he avoid eye contact?
Right, Like that says a lotabout you and maybe it's not
fair, but it's the way it isright.
So we can piss and moan abouthow unfair it may be, or people
shouldn't judge, or whatever,and it's like well, our biology
actually programs us to bejudgmental because it's a
(28:38):
survival skill.
You know, the world wasn't ascivilized as it currently is and
even now there's still dangeraround every corner, so to speak
.
So there is.
I don't really subscribe to thelaw of attraction necessarily.
I just think it's fundamentaltruths about human nature.
And so when we start tounderstand that, you don't
necessarily have to be theexpert on it, you just have to
kind of understand at a baselevel, like look, the way that I
carry myself is going tonaturally say a lot non-verbally
(29:01):
to someone else.
They're going to pick up on itand they're going to kind of
match that and that's humannature, right?
If someone's really happy andlaughing and all that kind of
stuff, you naturally feel alittle bit more.
Yeah, let me talk to this guyor whatever.
Right?
If you're arms crossed,scowling, glared, people are
like I don't know, that guy'snot very approachable, I'm not
going to go ask.
Ask that guy something, right?
So think about how you carryyourself.
(29:21):
And then with that too, thisgoes especially for the husbands
and fathers.
You need to be hypervigilantabout this, right.
I think a lot of guys you knowyou're carrying the weight of
the day or the stress at workand so you're wearing it on your
face and in your body posture,and so then when you come home
you're kind of just this likeball of negative energy, and
then your family's like don'tmake dad mad, Right, and that
you're kind of creating thislike walking on eggshells
(29:43):
environment, and this was me,man, like my temper would flare
and all that kind of stuff and Iwas basically just damaging my
family on a daily basis.
And when I finally startedtaking ownership of, hey,
whatever's going on, this is themost important role I have as
husband and father and I need tomake sure that I kind of reset
myself before walking in thedoor to show that energy
(30:05):
correctly.
So whether it's a law ofattraction or not, I don't
actually know, I don't know ifit matters, but the reality is I
need to be presentable, lovinggentle, when I walk in the door,
because the world needs thewarrior, not my family, right?
They need the tender, lovinghusband and father, and that
sets the tone for everyone elseto then rebuild that connection.
So I think that plays out inevery aspect of life.
(30:29):
It's first and foremostimportant with your family, then
your profession and all theseother things, right?
But you don't have to be somemaster communicator to do well
at this.
It's literally just a littlebit of basic body posture and I
think it comes from your beliefsabout yourself, where,
naturally, your energy for lackof a better term is going to
just be more inviting to others.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
So let's dig a little deeper into these beliefs.
So when you have someone that'sstruggling, like they have this
, I can't or I don't know how,or you know I really suck, or
they're dealing with guilt orwhatever.
What are some techniques thatyou share that help someone
change their beliefs?
Because I know you got to getalone and you have to do, and
(31:11):
everybody's different.
I like the walk, you know, gofor a walk, even.
But tell us how you would sharesome of that technique with
someone coming in to changetheir beliefs.
Speaker 2 (31:25):
So really, the way that we do it in elite Sentinel
is building understanding first,right, getting back to basics
about what is a good man, and Ithink that so many guys have
this wrong picture of what thatmeans, that they think they've
been working really hard atdoing all the right things and
yet they feel like crap.
(31:46):
So then their belief naturallyis I suck or I'm unworthy or
whatever.
Right, it creates this downwardspiral.
That's been their narrative fora long time.
So, regardless of theirbackground, when you just again
focus on what we should be,focus on the ideal, what I
should be doing instead of allthe things I shouldn't be doing,
it's a lot easier to just put afew actionable steps toward
(32:07):
that goal and then, right, thefeedback starts to change.
Oh, hey, wow, that did work.
You know, my wife did actuallyreceive that well, my kids did
receive that well, or, yeah, itis going better at work now.
It's very easy for men to takethat physical world data points
from basic actions to start thenre-encouraging this new set of
(32:29):
beliefs.
So initially it's like a leakyfaucet.
Right, you got to turn thewater off first before you can
fix the leak, but you have tofix the leak still so early on.
This is where the brotherhoodis so important.
You may not actually believe itfully for yourself and you're
kind of trusting the processthat like, okay, well, I'm going
to trust what George and theother instructors are saying
(32:51):
because they look like guys thathave it figured out, so I'm
going to, you know, bet on it,right?
It is a little bit of a trustthing there.
They don't believe it fully forthemselves yet.
As the actions start tore-influence their narrative,
they start to believe it forthemselves.
Abuse issues you got to go tolike AA or rehab or whatever.
(33:15):
Right, you got to stop theproblem in its tracks first, but
then that's not the wholepicture.
There's a lot more that has tofollow suit.
It's the same thing with your,with your beliefs about yourself
so early on.
You may not fully believe itfor yourself yet and you're
going to take a little bit oftrust and like no man, that was
(33:40):
pretty good.
You are making good progress onthat.
Maybe just think about thisnext time a little bit
differently.
But overall, man, keep it up.
This is good stuff.
If you're totally trying to dothis on your own, you're never
going to get that feedback andyou're just going to keep seeing
all the negatives.
So hopefully that answered thequestion.
I don't think there's one likemagic pill or one perfect
solution for everyone.
But again, I think men arecreatures of action and we heal
(34:02):
fastest.
We change our minds and ourbeliefs about ourselves through
doing, not necessarily sittingand talk about it.
So you need a little bit oftalking about it to have kind of
the understanding at like afactual level.
But when you start to just doit and it works and you're like,
oh man, okay, I'll do it againand it just keeps working, right
, Some of these fundamentaltruths, you know, for some of
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the guys that's like holding abasic boundary with their wife.
You know, hey, honey, I'dappreciate it if you didn't talk
to me in that tone.
I can do that, yeah, bro.
And you know what the irony is,she's actually going to be more
attracted to you over time whenyou actually start doing that
consistently.
Oh, okay, well, he may notbelieve it yet, but once it
works at the time or two he'sgoing to be like, oh dang, I
feel a lot better.
(34:44):
So now it's, his belief isgoing to fall through pretty
quick, right.
So I'm not trying to make lightof the situation.
You know, obviously some peoplehave some seriously difficult
situations that they're in orsome things that have happened
to them, and I'm superempathetic to those, and that's
why brotherhood is so importanttoo, because these are men who
are going to see you and be likedang man.
I'm with you in that.
I may not fully understand it,but how can I help?
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I'm here for you.
That's going to help a lot interms of not feeling alone.
Speaker 3 (35:16):
Then when you take some action steps, they're going
to be like cheering you on andall that it's positive feedback.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Eventually you'll start to believe it for yourself
.
Does that make sense?
No, totally, I love it.
Man Brother, you are on it.
I love what you're doing.
I love the way you're talkingabout your coaching Definitely
listeners.
You got to check out thePresent Fathers podcast.
Seriously, you hear what he'ssaying.
If you're a dad, check PresentFathers podcast out because, wow
, george is amazing.
He's got great information.
(35:40):
He's passionate.
You can tell that right.
I mean just listening to youspeak.
We could go on for hours.
I'm sure this is so amazing andI'm super proud of the man you
are.
You talk about praise.
People don't give praise a lot,especially guys to other guys,
but, man, I'm proud of you.
I love what you're doing.
Keep it up.
(36:00):
And now let's get into a littlebit about seeing problems as
opportunities, because a lot ofpeople, I think, aren't able to
do that.
So can you talk about taking aproblem or an obstacle and
making an opportunity for life?
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Yeah, man, oh, I love this topic because this is
where the real freedom andliberation as a man actually
comes right.
We believe as a culture thatyou're going to do all these
things and you're going toarrive, right, you're going to
get to some point, some level ofgrowth, and then, oh, I won't
have problems anymore.
Right, I'll make enough moneythen.
Or I'll do this and then I'llget more fit, and then no bro,
that's not how it works, right,that's a trap.
So the reality is, whateverstage of life you're in,
(36:45):
whatever season journey you'rein, whatever level of growth
you're in, you're going toeventually get to this new kind
of threshold, right, yourcapability as a man will grow,
it will improve, and then you'regoing to be taking on more.
It's just how it goes, and thatmay initially sound like oh
dang.
Well, then I don't want to growbecause it's going to be more
pressure, there's more burden.
It actually goes in reverse,right, it feels hardest now.
(37:08):
Wherever you are this current,if you're struggling with a lot,
this is the hardest it's evergoing to be.
And, like I said, right, I'vegot more going on now in my life
than I've ever had going onprofessionally ever, like I'm
juggling a hundred differentthings every day.
I mean, being an entrepreneuris extremely difficult.
For those who may not know.
I mean, elon Musk said it'slike crawling through glass and
staring into the abyss of deathevery single day.
(37:30):
Right?
So I think he's exaggerating alittle bit, but it's hard work.
You know, there's always aproblem for me to fix, but I
feel more free and liberatedthan I've ever felt because my
human ability, my growth as aman, has far exceeded the
stresses of the day, if thatmakes sense.
And I've got my brotherhoodright.
So when I do hit that wall, I'mlike dang man, I don't know.
(37:50):
I don't know if I can do this.
I'm reaching out to them andthey're like no dude, you've got
this, do this, this and this.
Hey, you messed that up.
No big deal, whatever, right?
It's all the counsel that Ineed to move forward.
That reframe happens over time,right?
This is again.
(38:11):
It's a new way of thinking,it's a new conditioning you have
to have in your brain and it'snot like you're going to
magically just do something andthen be like the guy right.
And I've seen it with all myfriends too, that I look up to,
who are further along in theirjourneys than me, where they get
to this new tier of you know,it may even be a good thing,
right, like a new client wantsto pay them more than they've
ever been offered, and they'relike, whoa, am I the guy, can I
actually do that?
(38:31):
And that's a natural responsetoo is like, well, we don't
think we're worthy of it.
Right, that's another level ofgrowth we have to have.
But you're going to whateverthat plateau, that new thing
that comes, you're going to kindof have that moment of
temptation going back to like,oh well, I don't know if I can
do that and that's why, again,you need that outside influence.
But that reframe is criticaland I think it's impossible to
(38:57):
do it for yourself.
I think you have to have amentor, a coach, a brotherhood
that can wisely help you reframeit and then kind of guide you
on the initial steps so that youcan begin the journey.
And I'll use kind of a I'mgoing to keep like names out of
it just for like privacy sake.
But a friend of mine is goingthrough a pretty difficult
situation in their marriage youknow the D word's been thrown
around a lot and potentiallythey're going to go that
(39:18):
direction.
And uh, you know, he wasobviously feeling really down
and all that kind of stuff, andand we had a quick conversation
about hey, man, you know this is, you can only control you at
this point.
Right, there's.
There's no way that you can tryand logic her to change her
decision-making or actions.
This is an opportunity for youto not only grow yourself and
(39:42):
hopefully influence her to joinyou in restoration, but it's
also the opportunity to modelthis for your children, because
one day they're going to grow up.
But if this does go the worstcase and you guys do get
divorced, one day those childrenare going to grow up.
They're going to start askingquestions and realizing what
happened and you'll be able tolook them honestly in the eye
and say, hey, I did everything Ipossibly could to work through
(40:03):
this, to be loving and caringand all those things.
Right, I explored every avenue,I didn't give up, and that's
going to mean a lot to them oneday.
So, as painful as this is today, this is an opportunity for you
to take intentional steps andwhen you're feeling at your
breaking point, brother, youcall me immediately, you give me
a text.
Hey, sos, 911, whatever, let meknow.
(40:24):
Right, you can vent to mebecause I'm not in the midst of
it.
It doesn't hurt me, like, okay,bro, hey, that sucks, tell me
more.
All right, let's get back at itnow, right, like I can take it.
So support on your brothers,and that reframe happens.
So that's.
That's like one very painfulexample.
Um, even, as you know, I'm kindof an expert on this and I still
(40:44):
have to have guys do that forme, right?
I?
I reached out to a buddy whomentors me a lot on on the
business side of things and Ijust had this problem and I like
couldn't fix it.
I'm like, ah, the marketing andthis and that, and I couldn't
figure it out.
And he listened to me for twominutes and was like one
sentence solved the wholeproblem.
And I was just like, dude, wealways have to have that,
(41:04):
because you're in the midst ofit, it's hard to see it.
Right.
And that's what I doprofessionally too with my
business clients is I come in asan outsider.
I is I come in as an outsider,I assess the problems in their
business and I just help themfix it left and right, because
I'm not in the midst of it.
Day to day, I can see clearly.
So that's a truth of humannature that you just have to
(41:25):
accept.
And yeah, the reframe is veryhard to do on your own.
When you start to surroundyourself with the right people,
they're going to help you dothat consistently and then
eventually becomes a little bitmore of like a trained response.
Right, I don't necessarily needto vent every single problem I
have now, because I've learnedthese mechanisms to kind of do
it for myself as much as I can,and then when I can't do it
alone, you know, then you tapinto your network.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
Yeah, that's being able to step back and
objectively look at the wholepicture.
When we're in it it's harder todo.
You do Now you can learnthrough self-awareness and all
right, let me step back and youcan get better at it.
But absolutely having a peergroup around you and having your
tribe that can help you isgreat.
And next I want to get into gutfeelings, or the spirit,
(42:09):
because I think everybody insideof us, no matter who you are
listening or even any of yourclients deep down inside we know
the right thing to do but wekind of suppress it.
So let's talk about that innervoice and spirit inside and
maybe listening to it.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Um, just so I understand the question fully,
are you talking about maybetrusting your gut?
Is that where you're kind ofgoing, trust your gut?
Speaker 1 (42:32):
or the spiritual guidance that you have inside.
Like you know, oh man, I shouldexercise more, oh, I shouldn't
drink this beer, or I shouldn'tlike.
We have that inner voice orthat inner guidance or gut
feelings or spirit.
So can you key in to that asfar as helping people learn to
listen, that they do have someguidance within them?
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Yeah.
So I think the best way toactually do this is to go on
offense about it, right?
So you were kind of all thesequestions about yourself, right,
was the example you just gave.
The fastest way to clear thatup and stop that and to just be
more of a man of action is partof like a morning routine of
some nature, and what thatentails is writing a creed for
(43:17):
yourself that is contextualizedsolely to your own life, so like
if someone else read it it maynot mean much to them, but to
you it means everything.
So it's a living document andit's short, right?
This is like bullet points,couple key sentences where
you're going to recenteryourself hey, this is the man
I'm becoming today, these arethe things that I'm going to do,
these are the things that Ibelieve about myself.
(43:39):
That stops the noise up here,and kind of on that emotional,
spiritual side, because, again,instead of weighing every single
option, it's just like no,these are the three things I'm
going to do.
I'm going to control my temper,I'm going to do this, I'm going
to work out whatever, whateverthose things are.
So for me, right, I live a verypublic life.
(44:01):
Now.
The very first sentence of minethat I recite to myself every
morning, right?
I just I'm just checking in inthis season of life is?
It's a line from that poem, ifby Rudyard Kipling, where, if
you can hear the truth, you'vespoken twisted by fools to make
a trap, or twisted by knaves tomake a trap for fools, then
you'll be a man, and that's thereality.
My words get twisted and usedagainst me and people comment on
(44:22):
my stuff all the time, andthat's just the reality of what
I do.
Now.
It's something I have to endureand tolerate and kind of bear,
and you know that was achallenge initially.
So I put that in there just toremind myself hey, man, it's
going to happen, but you'rebigger than that.
That's not you, that's not yourwords.
You know, seeing a 10-secondclip of you on the internet and
someone getting mad at you,that's not something to react
(44:43):
over, right?
That's just one example.
For a lot of guys we start alot more simple.
Like you know, if they'rehaving self-love issues, it's
I'm worthy.
Maybe that's the first sentence, that's it I am worthy, I am.
Statements about yourself areextremely powerful, both
negative or positive, and that'swhere guys really need to catch
themselves.
So I think that daily morningconsistency of starting your day
(45:07):
with some true statements aboutyourself.
The objective you're movingtowards, the growth you're
pursuing is going on offense, asopposed to being reactionary,
like, oh, I'm feeling this way,now what do I do?
No, we already handled thatfirst thing in the morning.
And then when you feel thatyou're like, nope, I know better
, I'm doing the right thing, Ibelieve in this, or I'm going to
work out or whatever right youcan insert your season of life
(45:31):
you're in.
But for some guys their marriageis really struggling.
So they're putting statementsin there that you know I was
working really hard oncontrolling my anger and having
more emotional intelligence andkind of empathy, so I was
putting statements in there likeI will remind myself daily that
my anger will cause lastingdamage if I don't control it
(45:52):
right.
I will never raise my voice atmy children or my wife.
I will be calm even when I'mangry.
Right, I was using statementslike that to start conditioning
my mind of this better versionof me I wanted to be, and it may
sound a little woo-woo andcrazy and stuff, but that's how
our brains work, man.
That narrative playing in yourhead is everything.
(46:13):
That's how you show up in life,and so if it's a bad one, guess
what?
You're gonna get bad results.
Speaker 1 (46:19):
No absolutely Myself.
I'm like, I am what I ambecause I choose to be.
That's the first line that I gothrough every day.
You know, like I have choicesand I can make a good choice or
I can make a bad choice, andthat is so powerful and that
gives ownership to you and yourlife.
And absolutely George is rightFind something that you relate
(46:40):
to or you need to work on andwrite a statement down.
I like to before I go to bed.
You know, kind of review theday.
Aars is like we say in themilitary like all right, what
did I do good today, what do Ineed to work on when I need to
prove?
And then in the morning I startfresh and I get like my to-do
list or I'm going to do this,this and this is what I'm
working on.
So I think those things arevery powerful and important.
(47:02):
And please take a moment topause and go into our
description and you will be ableto find links on George and
Elite Sentinel coaching.
Check them out.
They're doing great things.
If you're a father, you're aman that needs a little help.
I'm pretty sure George can helpyou.
And also, please give us afollow, give us a like subscribe
and pick up my book if youalready haven't picked up the
(47:23):
Asset Mindset.
It'll help you.
It'll change your life.
It'll help you be your greatestasset Now, before we go.
We've talked about a lot ofdifferent things, but I want to
get that one big nugget, or thatimportant thing, or the one
thing that you want to leave theaudience with.
If you could just implant onemindset, principle or philosophy
(47:45):
into every person that'slistening right now, today, what
would it be and why?
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Whatever background you come from, whatever
challenges you've faced,whatever adversity you've had to
go through whether it was fairor unfair, all that kind of
stuff whatever the past has been, you get to choose today what
tomorrow will be like.
You get to start redirectingthe course of your life.
No one can do it for you.
You have to be part of your ownrescue.
Like I said, once you startdown the new path, people will
(48:15):
present themselves to you, helpwill arrive, but you have to be
the one to make the shift.
You have to choose for yourself.
Living in self-pity and pain andwallowing in the past is a
choice, and it isn't fair.
Life is not fair.
I know a lot of people who havehad it way harder than me, but
they all believe the same thingI just said, and so I don't
think it's me being some specialdude.
(48:37):
It's a choice we all have tomake, especially for the men.
This is something we'redesigned to do is to build
legacy.
It's not some you know fluffyword for kings and world leaders
.
It's something that every manshould be thinking about because
that, again, if you define whatyou want your end legacy of
your life to be, that's yourNorth Star.
(48:57):
All of your actions are thengoing to be influenced.
It's a lot easier to decide whatI should be doing on a daily
basis when I have a clearpicture of that end state and
you get to be the one to changethat right.
So if you come from a familyline that's got lots of drug
abuse or physical abuse orwhatever any of those types of
problems that typically kind ofgo on for generations, you get
(49:19):
to be the one to change it.
As the man you have the powerto change that for your family,
and maybe you're not going tofully fix it all, but you make
enough of an effort that yourkids then get to build upon that
and rewrite the whole story ofyour family.
And who knows, hundreds ofyears from now they may be
living a prosperous life becauseof the actions you took today.
(49:42):
So that shouldn't just feellike a burden, it should feel
like an opportunity, and the waythat you do that is loving
yourself enough to prioritizegrowing yourself.
It may sound selfish, but whenyou grow yourself in that manner
you then have the opportunityto actually build that type of a
legacy for others.
Speaker 1 (50:01):
Great I love it.
I love it.
And it's not where you start,it's where you're going,
absolutely.
Where are you going, listeners?
Do you have a goal?
Do you know where it is thatyou want to be?
Do you know the legacy that youwant to build?
It's so important to have thosethings.
You need a destination and onceyou have that, you can
backwards plan and figure outall right, if I need to be here,
(50:22):
I need to do this, this andthis.
First, you know it's.
It seems complicated, but it'sreally not.
The most complicated part thatI see and I'm sure you see this
too, george is discipline tocreate the positive habits.
But once you have thatdiscipline and you create the
habits, you can do it.
Speaker 2 (50:44):
Hey.
So for those listening, I justwant to provide a free resource.
It's my seven-day challenge, somaybe you've heard some things
that we were just talking abouttoday, where you're like, man, I
want to do that, but I don'tknow where to get started.
This is it.
Okay, I'm not going gonna spamyou with like 7,000 emails,
right?
It's gonna send one to you perday for seven days.
These are very actionablelittle exercises to get you
started on that path, and if youdon't work with me, that's fine
(51:04):
.
I want you to take this, makethe most of it, and then maybe
that is enough of a spark tohelp you find the right resource
.
Whatever it is, I just want mento actually take ownership of
their lives and start havingthat better life they've always
dreamed of.
So these are free steps for youto take.
It's in the description.
Click on that.
It's self-guided, it'sextremely easy, but it will
(51:25):
certainly give you someactionable steps to do the
things we were talking about inthis episode.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Thank you for joining us at the Asset Mindset Podcast
.
I hope you enjoyed everythingthat you heard and learned a lot
, because George has a lot ofknowledge.
Don't forget to follow, likeand subscribe the Asset Mindset
and definitely check us out onthe next episode and own your
power and share this withsomeone who needs it.
God bless, we'll see you nexttime.
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