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March 27, 2025 60 mins

What happens when a military veteran begins to question the very foundation of his service? In this episode of the Bad Roman Podcast, Craig sits down with Steve O'Connor, a former Marine, to explore his transformative journey from military life to a critical examination of patriotism and faith.

Steve shares his family's deep-rooted military history and his own experiences in Iraq and Afghanistan. He reflects on the internal conflict that arose when he began questioning the alignment of his actions with his Christian beliefs. This episode delves into:

  • Steve's Military Background: From family pride to the influence of 9/11, discover what led Steve to the Marine Corps.
  • Personal Military Experience: Hear about Steve's deployments and the moments that sparked regret and reflection.
  • Changing Perspectives: A Memorial Day revelation that challenged Steve's views on patriotism and faith.
  • Community Challenges: The difficulty of discussing military service critically within a military community.
  • Family Impact: The emotional toll of service on Steve's family life, including missed milestones and reintegration struggles.

Steve's candid reflections offer a unique perspective on the intersection of military service, faith, and personal growth. Tune in to hear how he navigates these complex issues and what they mean for his future.

 

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Starting Points and Key Moments:

(0:53) Steve's background and military service

(5:20) Steve's religious background and conversion

(7:27) Steve's military career and deployments

(11:48) Steve's awakening to the issues with military service

(14:09) Discussion on current military recruitment challenges

(21:23) Steve's struggle with past actions and beliefs

(29:13) Steve's family life and the impact of military service

(42:52) Conversations with others about military service

(50:36) Steve's evolving perspective on patriotism and symbolism

(59:36) Conclusion and future plans

 

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