Turning 40 and Weathering the Storms of Loss

Today, Philip Blackett reflects on his upbringing in the South, growing up with a single mother, and the pivotal roles his grandparents played in shaping his values. As he navigates midlife, Philip reveals how his faith has become his core anchor following the deaths of his grandparents. He shares the challenges of running a business that closed during the pandemic and how this impacted his identity. The conversation explores the complexities of being a recovering people-pleaser, the lessons learned from his failures, and the quest for deeper connections. Philip emphasizes the role of faith, perseverance, and perspective in overcoming obstacles and building a meaningful life.

Guest Bio

Philip Blackett is an author, consultant and entrepreneur who previously has worked with FedEx, Goldman Sachs, Bank of America and Chick-Fil-A. He got his Masters of Divinity degree from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, his MBA from Harvard Business School and his Bachelor’s Degree majoring in Political Science and Economics from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

Turning 40 and Weathering the Storms of Loss

In this episode, Philip Blackett joins Stephanie to share his journey through midlife transformation as he approaches his 40th birthday. With candor and vulnerability, Philip reflects on how his upbringing, faith, and personal losses have shaped his values and priorities. From grappling with the identity challenges of closing a business to finding strength in his faith and family, Philip's story is a reminder of the resilience and courage it takes to embrace life’s transitions.

Episode Highlights:

• The Power of Legacy: Philip's reflections on wanting to be a present and protective father and husband, drawing inspiration from his grandfather's example.
• Faith as a Lifelong Anchor: How losing loved ones led Philip to shift his sense of self-worth from external validation to a deep reliance on faith.
• Navigating Major Transitions: The emotional and practical challenges of closing a business during the pandemic and relocating his family to start anew.
• Embracing Vulnerability: How sharing failures and struggles can create deeper, more meaningful connections with others.
• Lessons in Resilience: Understanding that life’s detours, setbacks, and endings are part of a greater process leading to growth and renewal.
• The Middle Space: Stephanie and Philip discuss the "gray area" of transitions—navigating life between endings and new beginnings.
• Bravery in Connection: Why building trust and relationships requires courage and perseverance, even after setbacks.

Resources Mentioned:

• Books: Transitions by William Bridges

Today, Philip Blackett opens up about the highs and lows of navigating midlife. From the emotional toll of business closure to finding a renewed sense of purpose through his faith, Philip’s reflections are both grounding and inspiring. His story encourages listeners to embrace life’s transitions, lean on their inner strength, and focus on the legacy they want to leave behind. Whether you’re in the middle of your own “gray space” or simply seeking motivation, this episode is full of wisdom and hope.

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