The Sign That Saved Her Life: Actress and Producer Sarah Gilman on Survival & Breaking Silence

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What if the sign you needed appeared at your darkest moment—and changed everything?

In this deeply moving episode of The Big Silence, Karena sits down with actress, producer, and mental health advocate Sarah Gilman. Best known for her starring role as Delia Delfano in Disney Channel's "I Didn't Do It," Sarah has built an impressive career in Hollywood. But behind the bright lights lies a powerful story of survival. From her first suicidal thoughts at age eight, Sarah's journey is one of raw honesty and radical hope. Now, as the founder of the DD Hirsch NextGen Advisory Council, she's dedicated her life to mental health advocacy, making sure no one feels alone. Whether you're struggling yourself, supporting someone you love, or working to understand mental health better, Sarah's courage will inspire you to keep going.

How do you rebuild your sense of self after hitting rock bottom, and learn that asking for help isn't a weakness?

Stripping away shame and finding community proves that healing isn't linear. It's about showing up for yourself, even when it's hard.

(01:37) When the Darkness Started

• Sarah's first journal entries about suicide as a young child
• Coping mechanisms that became self-destructive
• The suicide attempt that made her realize she wanted to live
• That split-second moment of regret—and why survivors often feel the same way

(05:34) The Roots of Mental Illness: Family, Genetics & Environment

• Growing up with threads of OCD, anxiety, and depression in Sarah's family
• The collision of genetics and lack of emotional education
• Shared experiences as suicide survivors

(08:03) Rock Bottom, Therapy & The Fork in the Road

• When friendships dissolved 
• Her moment of reckoning: keep going and die, or ask tough questions and heal
• Deep diving into psychology, sociology, philosophy, and neuroscience
• Learning she's a "big feeler" who just needed healthier ways to express emotions

(18:45) Finding Your People: Community, Connection & Healing

• How sharing experiences becomes part of the healing process
• The power of being seen in your struggle
• Why normalizing mental health conversations changes everything

(27:30) Breaking the Stigma: Advocacy, Education & Social Media

• Using personal stories to create change in mental health spaces
• How younger generations are reshaping mental health conversations
• Navigating social media as both a tool and a potential trigger

(38:15) Body Image, Eating Disorders & What Really Matters

• Sarah's experience with eating disorders and recovery
• Why she doesn't post body pictures on social media anymore
• The realization: "My body is the least interesting thing about me"

(50:19) Live from Vegas: The Not Alone Summit & 988

• 16.5 million people have used 988 since 2022
• How 988 works: call or text for immediate, anonymous support
• Debunking myths: less than 1% of cases escalate to 911, over 90% are de-escalated
• Specialized support available for LGBTQIA+, veterans, and different languages

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