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October 28, 2025 18 mins

Are domestic violence jokes ever okay? Is it “just a joke”... or something much deeper? Hear from a DV survivor about why DV jokes aren’t funny - and how they’re actually harmful. From “punching down” humor to the subtle gaslighting survivors face when the world laughs off abuse, we’ll talk about how society normalizes violence against women under the guise of comedy.


You’ll learn:

✨ Why “joking about DV” reinforces real-world harm

✨ What “punching down” means & why it’s not real comedy

✨ How casual comments & memes retraumatize survivors

✨ What to say when someone makes a DV joke

✨ How to trust your own reactions when others minimize abuse

Whether you’ve ever wondered “is it okay to joke about domestic violence?” or you’ve been the only one at the table not laughing, this episode will help you name what’s happening, protect your peace, & stand in your power.


🎧 Tune in for education, validation, & a dose of feminist killjoy energy in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.



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EPISODE TOPICS:

🔷 domestic violence jokes

🔷 DV jokes

🔷 is it okay to joke about DV

🔷 why DV jokes aren’t funny

🔷 domestic violence awareness month

🔷 survivor podcast

🔷 feminist podcast

🔷 trauma informed podcast

🔷 gaslighting

🔷 feminist killjoy

🔷 emotional abuse

🔷 DARVO

🔷 trauma healing

🔷 are domestic violence jokes funny

🔷 is it ok to joke about domestic violence

🔷 are dv jokes ever ok

🔷 why do people joke about abuse

🔷 why do people think abuse jokes are funny

🔷 what’s wrong with making dv jokes

🔷 can jokes about abuse be healing

🔷 should you joke about domestic violence

🔷 how to respond to a dv joke

🔷 how to tell someone their dv joke isn’t funny

🔷 how to handle domestic violence jokes

🔷 why domestic violence jokes are harmful

🔷 normalization of domestic violence in media

🔷 effects of joking about trauma

🔷 microaggressions toward survivors

🔷 how humor can be used to silence survivors

🔷 what is social gaslighting

🔷 why dv jokes trigger me

🔷 why i can’t laugh at domestic violence jokes

🔷 how to deal with people joking about my trauma

🔷 am i overreacting to dv jokes

🔷 what to do when friends make dv jokes

🔷 how to trust myself again after gaslighting

🔷 trauma triggers in everyday life

🔷 how to explain why dv jokes aren’t funny

🔷 domestic violence awareness month podcast

🔷 dv awareness month conversations

🔷 feminist killjoy podcast

🔷 feminist killjoy meaning

🔷 how to talk about domestic violence awareness

🔷 breaking the stigma around abuse

🔷 how to be an ally to survivors

🔷 feminist podcast episodes about dv

🔷 social justice podcast

🔷 women’s rights podcast

🔷 intersectional feminism

🔷 gender-based violence awareness

🔷 calling out misogyny

🔷 dv awareness month podcast

🔷 why domestic violence jokes are not funny

🔷 how to explain why dv jokes are harmful

🔷 how to respond when someone jokes about abuse

🔷 why gaslighting makes you doubt yourself

🔷 what is darvo and why it’s dangerous

🔷 why we shouldn’t joke about trauma

🔷 why domestic violence is not a punchline

🔷 how society normalizes violence against women through humor

🔷 how to rebuild self-trust after gaslighting



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