“Pornography does not have to win. We serve a God of hope.”
In this episode of The BraveHearted Woman Podcast, I sit down with author and speaker Jody Allen to discuss her new book Hidden Heartache: Finding Courage When Your Husband Struggles with Pornography. Jody vulnerably shares her journey of betrayal, healing, and ultimately discovering hope beyond heartbreak.
Together, Dawn and Jody uncover the reality of pornography addiction in marriages, the shame it creates for both husbands and wives, and the spiritual and emotional toll it can take on a woman’s identity, confidence, and self-worth. Jody offers practical tools such as using the Feelings Wheel, praying Scripture, setting healthy boundaries, and finding strength in worship to move from pain to healing.
This conversation is a reminder that divorce is not a death sentence and that even when life doesn’t turn out as you prayed, God’s love and freedom remain available. Whether you’re navigating betrayal trauma, longing for healing, or simply seeking encouragement in midlife, this episode will inspire you to walk in courage, release shame, and embrace a brave, empowered life.
Quotations:
“Divorce is not a death sentence. God loves divorced women, too.” - Jody Allen
“When we walk out of pain with Jesus, we can take treasures with us — new perspectives, friendships, or even a fresh start.” - Jody Allen
“If we hide and stay in the darkness, we remain bound. But when we step into the light, freedom begins.” - Dawn Damon
“Sometimes the advice women need isn’t just to pray more or be patient. Sometimes it’s to draw a boundary and protect your peace.” - Dawn Damon
“God doesn’t author trauma, but He will use what we walk through to refine us and make us better.” - Dawn Damon
Resources:
📞 Connect with Jody at jodyallenwrites.com, Facebook, and Instagram
📚Get a copy of Jody’s book: Hidden Heartache: Finding Courage When Your Husband Struggles with Pornography
Sign up for my email list, and the first 15 will receive the first four chapters of my book: https://www.jodyallenwrites.com/fourfreechapters
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🎁 FREE GIFT: The 7-Day Identity Challenge for Midlife Women of Faith: https://www.braveheartedwoman.com/offers/rMw4gih9/checkout
📞 Book a FREE 15-minute strategy call with Dawn: https://www.braveheartedwoman.com/book-a-call
Connect with your BraveHeart Mentor, Dawn Damon:
💞 Email me at: dawn@braveheartmentor.com
💞 Website: https://braveheartedwoman.com/
💞 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bravehearted_woman
💞 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveheartedwoman
💞 Podcast: https://the-bravehearted-woman.captivate.fm/listen
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