Summary:
In this episode of The Breach Room, host Lu sits down with Denise Musselwhite—founder, Latina in tech, and executive coach—to explore her 25-year journey from a Bronx-born tech-savvy kid to a high-impact C-level leader and now CEO of Tech and Thrive. Denise shares her story of overcoming systemic and internal barriers in a male-dominated field, and how she helps technical experts transition into authentic, effective leaders. Discover actionable insights on leveraging data-driven coaching, fostering true leadership alignment, building human connection in remote work, and thriving amid industry disruption, including AI’s rapid rise.
Takeaways:
You can’t lead from a book—discover your unique leadership style and align it with your strengths.
While systemic biases exist, self-awareness and clarifying your own strengths are crucial first steps for advancement.
Executive coaching yields the best results when grounded in data from assessments and KPIs defined by the client.
Successful leaders outgrow technical expertise to prioritize people and vision, not just problem-solving.
Leverage hybrid intelligence (your skills + AI) and customize digital tools to reflect your leadership journey.
Remote work and technology can cause “frozen” teams—real growth requires intentional, human-focused collaboration.
Leadership is an inside-out job. Write your own evaluation; don’t wait for others to hand you permission or clarity.
Soundbites
"If you’re waiting for someone else to tap you for leadership...that’s not where the answer is. The answer is in you.”
“Data informs everything. The tech professionals I coach don’t make changes without data.”
“You have to stop spending all your time on what you already know how to do—and invest in the skills you don’t.”
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Cybersecurity and Lead Generation
02:33 Denise Musselwhite's Journey in Technology
05:10 Overcoming Barriers in Tech Leadership
08:10 The Thrive Operating System Framework
10:39 Identity and Leadership Transition
13:15 Navigating Gender Dynamics in Tech
15:59 Trends in Team Dynamics and AI Impact
20:55 Measuring Success in Executive Coaching &
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