The Break Time Podcast
(Formerly Break Time on Westside) A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.
Episodes
After a man compares the treatment African men give their African wives vs foreign (read White) wives, he raises a racially charged question. This doesn't leave a good taste, but in his analysis, he raises something important.
Different partners are sometimes treated vastly differently by the same partner, but why? Is there a logical reason or is it all subjective?
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In a bizarre case of playing Devil's Advocate (or just looking at things differently), a closer look at Andrew Tate (or at least what he says) is made. There's a lot of theatricality in there, but there may be nuggets of wisdom.
Could it be that we've been hating him for all the wrong reasons?
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A man's clip resurfaces where he speaks on how his colleagues are slow, and most of the women won't be affected as badly as the single ones.
So, Ahh shit... Here we go again
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It's been a wild year with interesting twists and turns for many out here. Even if it didn't feel nuanced or good/bad, it was definitely not the same as 2025. It wasn't for the dating and relationships scene either.
So let's see if those changes (or the major ones) were highlighted in this episode. Some you probably know, but there's definitely something new there you didn&apo...
Following an article and online discussion, the concept that boyfriends have become an embarrassment has become a point of debate. The idea of posting your significant other highlights the negativity that some people exhibit while concealing some of the reasons why others follow you on social media.
Are the men embarrassing now, or is there more to it than that?
Could it be that some women are trying ...
A Reddit post on why many young men aren't dating today sparks a discussion on the current state of dating. There are a ton of distractions and alternatives, and many are so disconnected from society that the idea of dating seems more like a challenge than an opportunity.
But why?
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Fresh from a collab recording, a thought on the delusion that makes Wes feel love creates a theory on why many men may be insulating themselves from love. This is reinforced by the realisation that there's to be a change in how many Kenyan men are commenting on women online.
Many have stopped dropping compliments and are instead speaking on the possibility of very beautiful women only being for &...
It's all about the bonds we try to make and those that don't seem to stick with us. There's a case of paternity fraud that's hit its biggest advocate, and there's a burning question many need answered.
A paternity-testing champion recently went online to tell many how he found out that his daughter isn't his. Clout or not, there's something serious about it. Then, a ...
It's all about dating in this episode, although the women may need to listen and consider a few things. This is because there's a man trying to move in, and a woman trying to make them date a lot of guys.
A man gives details on how to move into a woman's house, which angers some but concerns others. Then a woman claims that rotational dating is culturally African (therefore correct) and...
It's an episode on the other gender, and in it, there's nothing but bad math and FYIs for men to get and for women to disagree with. A woman is speaking on dating beautiful women, but has no idea how misled and miscalculated she is.
Then, a man on Reddit asks for something important. He wants tips on how to understand all women, but under some conditions: They must be easy, they must be few,...
It's the end of the month, and there's trouble in the British waters as different people speak on things they may have limited experience in. Women in the government want a specific type of p*rn banned, but for reasons that can't directly track back to the content, or its viewers.
A 23-year-old man speaks on how the dating market is a mess for women because men have zero masculinity and...
It's an episode full of misunderstandings as an experienced doctor makes a claim and a young man questions his reality. A Harvard physician makes a bold (and mostly unhinged) claim on a podcast, which elicits a wild reaction.
A young man shares his experience of trying to find potential mates in Nairobi, prompting many to offer unsolicited advice. What many may not know is that his experience in ...
It's a combination of topics making up this episode, as society refuses to change with the times, yet some people are forced to. We dive into men, women, money and relationships to figure out where things went wrong.
Men aren't being seen in clubs and events, and everyone's got some reason for it... but I doubt it's for the reasons they think. Then there's empowered women want...
In this episode, we try to look at two issues: not enough potential suitors and not enough to be a potential suitor.
A clip from a podcast details strategies some women are employing to get in touch with potential suitors, which may be seen as innovative or just downright creepy.
A lady mentions how she's in such a tough financial position that she can't date. There should be light at the en...
In this episode, we continue our discussions on relationships, politics and how the two have made Wesley Jeff a seer to many and a force for good.
Expect to learn how Wes got into politics as well as his political ambitions, the wild sides of people in relationships today, and what the immediate future of politics looks like for Kenya...
Find Wesley Jeff: https://www.tiktok.com/@its_jaywes
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In this episode we discuss relationships, politics and how the two have made Wesley Jeff a seer to many and a force for good.
Expect to learn how Wes got into politics as well as his political ambitions, the wild sides of people in relationships today, and what the immediate future of politics looks like for Kenya...
Find Wesley Jeff: https://www.tiktok.com/@its_jaywes
It's all about dating today... and how some of y'all seem to be missing marks out here. There's an influencer claiming that millennial women are better than Gen Z women, and there's some opinionated truth to this.
There's also a millennial trying to date, but he says it's no longer as safe, and he misses some of the nuance that a relationship (like the one he once had) en...
It's all about learning in this episode and from babies to older folk, class is in session to learn a little bit more about the penis-carrying gender we refer to as men.
There's a new alternative to sperm banks, and it's not as new as you'd think. In it are some interesting changes, but some revelations are just wild. That said, a woman's newfound understanding of men's s...
It's time for education, and the pupils of today's class are singles (mostly women) who may not fully understand how different dating is today from whenever (or wherever) they used to love it.
Our not-so-favourite lady from the previous episode comes back to explain herself (poorly) before the remarks of a hurting lover girl expose the underbelly of arrogant desires and poorly targeted expec...
Beliefs are about to be broken and questioned in this episode, which comes with wild and interesting takes. Some animals are getting down to it in a way that's unexpected of wild animals, and there's questions that need to be asked regarding that.
Then a person's experience at a singles' event turned her sour as she concluded that "the bar is in hell" because of a change ...
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