In this week's episode, I explore the fascinating concept of reality and how we can shape it. As we approach the Christmas and New Year period—a time of reflection and possibilities—it's the perfect opportunity to examine what drives our beliefs and behaviours. I discuss the truth that we each create our reality and I unpack what it means to be "realistic".
I pose nine pivotal questions designed to challenge your perspectives and help you reframe your life. Questions such as, "Are most people kind or unkind?" or "Do you believe you need to be rich to be successful?" reveal how our answers shape our daily decision-making and long-term outcomes. I delve into the significance of these answers and how even subtle shifts in our thinking can lead to dramatic changes in our lives.
This episode also includes insights into how beliefs about government, health, and success influence our decision-making. I share the powerful idea that adjusting your answers to these questions is like changing the trajectory of a plane—tiny adjustments can land you in a vastly different place.
For inspiration, I recommend James Clear’s "Atomic Habits," a guide to achieving remarkable results through small but meaningful changes.
Let’s use this holiday season to redefine our realities, create new definitions of what "realistic" means and embrace a life full of passion and self-awareness.
Wishing you a joyful Christmas and an empowering New Year filled with growth, discovery, and passion!
See you in the first episode of 2025.
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