Why is it so hard to simply take it in—a compliment, a gift, a moment of care, or even a deep breath? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the cultural, emotional, and personal blocks that make receiving feel vulnerable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether it’s feeling unworthy of love, fearing hidden strings, or being conditioned to always give and never rest, many men—especially queer men—struggle to let themselves receive without guilt or defensiveness.
Drawing from men’s work, embodiment practice, and real-life stories, they explore how receiving is not just a passive act—it’s a courageous, embodied practice. From reframing sexual dynamics and compliments to learning how to accept rest, nourishment, and reflection, this episode is a call to stop over-giving and start letting yourself be filled.
Topics in this episode:
- Why many men equate giving with value and receiving with weakness
- How cultural scripts and shame block us from receiving love and support
- What it means to receive without obligation, guilt, or needing to “even the score”
- The link between control, resistance, and the fear of vulnerability
- Embodied practices to expand your capacity to receive
- Why rest, intimacy, and stillness matter just as much as action
Perfect for givers feeling depleted, men exploring new dynamics in queer intimacy, or anyone learning to drop the armor and take in the goodness being offered.
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