The Confident Parent

The Confident Parent

The content you need to parent with more intention, joy and ease from Gila Ross, author of Living Beautifully, parenting educator, coach and mum of 8. We understand that parenting is HARD and parents want to do their best for their kids. We aren't parenting in a vacuum though, we all have our own stories and struggles and so do our kids, so here we share real-life parenting advice and strategies so that you can parent confidently.

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July 8, 2025 36 mins

In today’s episode, we dive into a tough—but crucial—topic: how to talk to our kids about the difficult things happening in the world. From rising antisemitism to unsettling headlines, our children are absorbing more than we realize—and they’re looking to us for guidance, safety, and perspective.

Join me as we explore:

  • 💬 Why silence doesn’t protect our kids—but thoughtful conversation can

  • 🧒 Age-appropriate ways to open ...

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As parents, we want our kids to know they are deeply loved, valued, and supported. But how do we show them—through our actions, words, and daily choices—that they are our priority? In this episode, we dive into what it means to truly "go to bat" for our kids, whether it's advocating for them at school, standing up for their needs, or simply being present in their everyday lives.

No matter what stage of parenting you're in, this epis...

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Dr Ilyssa Bass is passionate about helping parents connect to their most difficult children.

After training as a clinical psychologist at the University of California, Santa Barbara and studying developmental psychology at Stanford University she thought she was super-prepared to be a mommy. But really, her kids taught her things academia never could have.

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After a fabulous first episode, Chavie Bruk is back with some more wisdom about how to help our kids navigate difficult social situations and their mental health.

Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences! How do you teach values to your children in a positive way? Share your stories with us on Instagram @itsgilaross or send us an email a...

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In this insightful episode, we explore the delicate art of instilling values in our children while maintaining a positive and encouraging environment. Parenting is full of teachable moments, but how do we guide our kids toward making good choices without constantly correcting or scolding them when they misstep? We share practical strategies and inspiring insights to ...

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Parenting with empathy is more than just understanding—it’s about connecting with your child on a deeper level, even during challenging moments. In this episode, we explore how to practice empathy in the real world and share practical exercises to help you build stronger, more compassionate relationships with your kids.

Join us as we discuss:

  • What empathy in pare...
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December 23, 2024 17 mins

Check out my book, Living Beautifully! https://amzn.to/49zrC6z Listening is one of the most powerful tools in parenting—but it’s often easier said than done. In this episode of The Confident Parent Podcast, we break down the three essential elements of effective listening and explore how mastering this skill can transform your connection with your kids.

Reflection Questions:

  • Do you give your full attention when your child ta...
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Should parents use incentives to motivate their kids? And if so, what kind of incentives work best, and when are they appropriate? In this episode, we dive into the often-debated topic of incentives in parenting. We explore the balance between fostering intrinsic motivation and using external rewards to encourage good behavior or achieve goals.

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Parenting a child with ADHD can be both challenging and rewarding. In this episode, we tackle the essential tools and strategies for supporting kids with ADHD while becoming their strongest advocate. From navigating school systems to fostering self-confidence, we dive deep into what it means to empower our children to thrive. Take Action: Share your questions or ADHD...

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This episode explores the nuanced and often debated topic of using incentives and consequences in parenting. Are incentives motivating or counterproductive? Do consequences teach accountability or lead to resentment? Join us as we delve into the psychology behind these strategies, examine their impact on child development, and share practical tips for fostering a positive and supportive parenting environment. Key takeaways: 1. Un...
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Get my almost sold-out book, Living Beautifully! https://amzn.to/49zrC6z Chavie Bruk adopted 5 kids and talks to us about her story of building a diverse family and shares so much of her wisdom with us!

We discuss using our intention in raising our kids, how to share from a healthy place, and how to advocate for our kids. It's a must listen to!!

Chavie describes herself as a juggler: leading a Jewish community with her sushi lovi...

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November 10, 2024 12 mins

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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common reasons behind tantrums: the need for control. Young children are naturally driven to test boundaries and assert independence, often leading to intense outbursts when things don’t go their way. As parents, knowing how to handle these situations with calmness and clarity can make all the difference.

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November 5, 2024 15 mins

In this episode, we dive into the emotional world of children and discuss what’s behind those overwhelming tantrums. Tantrums are a normal part of childhood but can often leave parents feeling confused or helpless. We explore the reasons why kids experience intense emotions, especially when they’re feeling overwhelmed or overstimulated, and how we as parents and caregivers can best respond in these moments.

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October 29, 2024 15 mins

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Sibling rivalry is something every parent encounters at some point. Whether it’s fights over toys, attention, or who gets to sit in the front seat, conflict between siblings can be frustrating and draining for both parents and children. In this episode, we’ll explore two more powerful tools to help you manage sibling rivalry more effectively. These strategies focus on ...

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October 15, 2024 16 mins

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Sibling rivalry is something every parent encounters at some point. Whether it’s fights over toys, attention, or who gets to sit in the front seat, conflict between siblings can be frustrating and draining for both parents and children. In this episode, we’ll explore two powerful tools to help you manage sibling rivalry more effectively. These strategies focus on foste...

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Hear from some other parents about how they implemented this effective discipline strategy plus a review of the 3 stands we need to take as parents.

Every child will have moments of misbehavior, but with the right approach, we can guide them in ways that foster growth and learning. By responding calmly, remaining consistent with our rules, and using effective discipline strategies, we teach our children valuable life skills—while a...

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In this episode, we explore how to handle our children's misbehavior in ways that are calm, consistent, and effective. Missteps and minor misbehaviors are a natural part of growing up, but how we respond as parents can shape a child's ability to learn from their mistakes. We’ll discuss a practical strategy to guide children toward better behavior while maintaining a peaceful and structured approach.

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September 8, 2024 16 mins

The big one!! How do we set limits with our children in a positive way? How do we enforce those limits? Listen to this episode to find out!

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August 27, 2024 16 mins

In the day to day of raising children there are so many things that we need them to do - brush their teeth, be nice to other people, the list is long!! And it can be so confrontational and draining to try and get them to listen to us. Here's a fantastic tool that will help us communicate with our children in a way that elicits co-operation and builds them up.

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August 18, 2024 16 mins

How do we raise confident kids? In this episode we hear from some parents about a powerful and easy tool you can use to help your kids feel seen and an easy way to help your kids build their confidence in themselves.

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