The Confident Swinger Podcast
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The Lifestyle can be challenging, with all the thoughts and feelings it can bring up. The Confident Swinger helps you navigate that, while also focusing on YOUR personal journey. It's time for YOU to build your confidence and embrace YOUR badassery!
Episodes
Jo and Chad talk about going into LS situations with no expectations. It's easy to say that, but it's a lot harder to do it in real life. Our brains like to create expectations of how the night or the event is going to go, and that can lead to disappointment.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level ...
People often try to meet LS people online, whether on websites, apps, or social media. And it can be challenging to go from talking to someone online, where it's "safe" to the real world where you don't have a keyboard to hide behind. Chad and Jo talk about the challenges of that.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
Not all LS experiences are unicorns and rainbows. Often, they can be uncomfortable, or even what some people label as bad.
In today's episode, Jo talks about reasons why you shouldn't label your LS experiences as bad, because it could just make a "bad" situation even worse.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New Ne...
Jo and Chad talk about the challenges of hosting a meet and greet.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The show has gone through some changes, but we are back to the original and ready to be better than ever. Thanks for sticking with us and giving it another shot!
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
The LS can be a lot of fun and can enhance your life and your relationship. But, it can also bring a lot of drama if your own relationship is not rock solid. Don't bring other people into your drama... know when NOT to play.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins ...
Wendy is taking a much-needed break to focus on her own mental health and healing. It's a see you a later, not a good-bye.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
Wendy Jo talks about her journey to go from needing to be needed, to wanting to be chosen. And she talks a tiny bit about her struggle with mental health.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
Warning: this episode is dark and heavy. And real. So, be prepared. I'll do a light episode next week. Maybe lol.
Wendy Jo experiences shame, true shame, and feels it fully for the first time. So, if you want, and if you're ready, step inside. No need to knock, everyone is welcome.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New mu...
Hey guys, I recently figured something out for myself, and I thought maybe it would resonate with some of you.
For me, the secret to great sex is desire. I HAVE to feel real desire for that other person, AND I have to feel desired BY that other person. ME. Not my body, not my lady parts, but ME.
The problem with that is sometimes for guys it can be hard for you to differentiate between you desiring HER and you desiring ...
Truth is, I'm wrong a lot. Let me share some of those truths with you today.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
Sometimes, the most OBVIOUS concepts are wasted on me. This time, I'm referring to the face that I JUST recognized that the words confronting and confrontational are the SAME word with different suffixes.
Not sure how I missed it, but I did. So, take a listen and bask in my idiocy.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New N...
For YEARS, I struggled with asking for help. I know I'm not alone in that particular struggle.
But I've come to realize that, when you understand yourself a little better, and you understand what made it hard for you to ask for help in the first place, you can start to make peace with it.
And hopefully, one day, you can begin to see asking for help as a gift.
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It's always good to start off a new(ish) show with an introduction, so here you go!
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
Welcome to Your Bitchy Little Brain Podcast!
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
I LOVE this episode! It's raw. It's honest. It's real.
I had the pleasure of interviewing Roger, a bisexual guy in the LS, and his lovely wife Robyn.
You get to hear his journey from NOT being bi, to curiosity, to accepting, and finally, to fully embracing it. AND, you get to hear her side and how she managed this unexpected turn of events.
Now, they are both passionate about ...
If you're gonna have play, then you're going to have to figure out what to do AFTER play. You don't want it to be awkward, so what do you do? Jo talks a bit about this.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro
Chad and Jo talk about when the LS loses its excitement. It's bound to happen, the newness wears off, and with it, some of the excitement. We ramble and get off topic today, but we also talk about some of the reasons the LS may lose it's excitement, and some tips to bring it back.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New mu...
It's a fear of many a lifestyle man... being seen as or being labeled as a creepy guy. It's what holds a lot of guys back from making a move or shooting their shot.
But, alas, Jo is here to help! Today's episode has easy to understand tips to ensure that YOU don't act like the creepy guy.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vl...
Respect is a big thing, especially in the LS when you are dealing with sensitive and vulnerable topics like sex. So today, Jo is asking, and answering, the question, can you be TOO respectful?
What do you think?
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pl...
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