Redefining Confidence: Healing the Root, Reclaiming Your Voice, and Becoming Her with Kash Rocheleau

Confidence isn’t about being loud, polished, or perfect—it’s about being anchored in truth. In this deeply honest conversation, Rachel Brooks and Kash Rocheleau unpack the real work of becoming confident: healing the root, shedding performance-based identity, and returning to the woman God created you to be.

Whether you’re walking through burnout, rebuilding your life, or feeling stuck in survival mode, this episode is your reminder: You’re not broken. You’re becoming. And becoming starts within.

Timestamps:

• [00:00] Rachel’s welcome + episode theme
• [04:30] Kash’s breakdown moment + what healing required
• [08:10] The fear of stillness + why so many women avoid it
• [11:20] Fit From Within: the 4 dimensions of true alignment
• [16:45] You don’t need to be fixed—you need to feel
• [21:00] Building confidence from identity, not performance
• [26:00] The emotional cost of pretending you’re fine
• [32:15] How journaling, prayer, and surrender change everything
• [40:30] Rachel’s invitation to go deeper: I Am… Enough
• [44:00] Final thoughts: God’s not asking you to be perfect—He’s asking you to be honest

Key Themes + Takeaways:

• Real confidence comes from healing, not hype
• You can’t outrun your emotions—they will always find you
• God doesn’t need your performance—He wants your presence
• Identity isn’t earned. It’s remembered.
• You’re allowed to become without having it all figured out

Favorite Quotes:

“Confidence is quiet when you finally feel safe inside.”

“You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be present.”

“Journaling gave me permission to say things I couldn’t say out loud.”

“You’re not stuck. You’re just still healing.”

Ready to Go Deeper?

• Download the Free ‘I Am… Enough’ Mini Journal - A gentle guide back to your truth and identity—one page at a time. → iamrachelbrooks.com/iamenough
• Begin the ‘I Am… Becoming’ Devotional Journey - A 6-week audio + journal experience for the woman becoming whole again. → iamrachelbrooks.com/becoming

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Connect with Kash Rocheleau

• Website: kashrocheleau.com
• Instagram: @kash.rocheleau

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• Podcast Library: iamrachelbrooks.com/play