She was a nurse in the ICU, raised Baptist, mothering, wife-ing, surviving—until Spirit began whispering louder. Through grief and gut-truths, ancestral dreams and a deep church awakening, Ermi listened. And when she finally said yes, everything changed.
In this raw, magnetic episode, Ermi shares her journey from a strict Christian upbringing to becoming a deeply Spirit-led psychic medium. Her story weaves through unchurching, ancestral reclamation, and breaking stereotypes as a Black woman in the spiritual space.
We talk about hearing Spirit in the hospital, reconciling faith with mediumship, and why representation isn't just powerful—it's necessary.
This conversation is an offering for anyone trying to hold God and intuition in the same hand.
Ermi: "Whoever controls your mind, controls you."
[00:29] – Ermi's multidimensional identity: mother, nurse, medium, Leo
[01:56] – Human design and the sacred art of balance
[04:11] – What life looked like before Spirit became center
[06:36] – A Pentecostal church visit that cracked her open
[10:18] – Divine whispers, grief dreams, and spiritual awakening
[18:12] – Reconciling Christian faith with intuition and gifts
[24:45] – Letting go of religious fear and reclaiming God
[32:52] – How Spirit trained her through practice, not classes
[40:19] – Ethical mediumship and building your own vocabulary
[52:26] – Why Ermi shows up as a Black medium—and what she's reclaiming
If you're wrestling with faith, gifts, or a calling that doesn't fit inside the old boxes—this is your permission to listen deeper. Let Spirit show you what's possible when you stop choosing between God and your truth. You can hold both.
Connect with Ermi: ermisees.com
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