BYHM167 | How They Stayed Married For 30+ Years After He Said This!

Send us a text

Discover the secret to a marriage that lasts decades! 

In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I share the story of a couple married for over 30 years and the powerful words the husband said early in their marriage that shaped their lifelong bond. 

Learn how covenant commitment, compromise, and grace—not perfection—can transform your marriage. 

If you’ve ever felt disconnected, unseen, or unheard in your relationship, this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The mindset shift that helps marriages thrive, not just survive.
• Why truly learning your spouse can be the key to lasting love.
• How covenant commitment works in real life and why it’s rare today.
• Practical insights on compromise, grace, and communication.

Key Takeaways:

1. Connection grows when divorce is not an option—but covenant commitment is.
2. Listening, learning, and leaning on God’s design strengthens marriages.
3. Simple words and small choices can have a profound impact over decades.

Resources & Links Mentioned in the Episode:

• Watch the full YouTube video: kingsleygrant.com/youtube
  
  
• Join The Joyful Marriage Quest waitlist: buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist
  
  
• Free guide: Reconnect — A Quick Guide for Wives Who Feel Like They’re Doing It All (included when you join the waitlist)
• Kingsley’s new book: The Joyful Wife: 7 Connection Skills to Better Understand Your Husband, Rekindle Love, and Deepen Intimacy — available on Amazon

Let’s Talk:
What do you think about the husband’s statement, “Divorce is not an option”? Can commitment still thrive today? Share your thoughts on YouTube or message me directly — I’d love to hear your take.

Support the Podcast:

• Buy me a coffee via CashApp: https://cash.app/$KingsleyGrant
  
  
• Support via PayPal: https://paypal.me/kingsleygrant
  
  

Disclaimer:
This podcast may include copyrighted material for education, commentary, and analysis. It is transformative in nature and qualifies as fair use under Section 107 of the U.S. Copyright Act.

Credit:
Special thanks to the couple featured in this episode. This content is shared for educational purposes to help Christian couples build marriages that align with God’s design.

Keywords for SEO:
Christian marriage advice, lasting marriage secrets, how to save your marriage, marital intimacy, covenant commitment, understanding your husband, marriage tips for wives, reconciliation in marriage, faith-based marriage guidance, Build Your Happier Marriage

Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.