We’re back with another round of Letters to The Coop, and y’all keep bringing the good questions! In this episode, we dive into everything from dating after divorce (Katie Couric gave us GREAT advice for dating in your 50s!) to handling a friend who’s suddenly way too critical. We also talk about surviving the college admissions process (spoiler: the stress is real, but we’ve got tips!), and of course, middle school drama—because is there anything more brutal than those tween years? Plus, Kit spills her best parenting hack for making middle school a little easier (trust us, this one’s a game-changer).
Whether you’re in the thick of it or just here for things that make us all laugh, we’ve got you!
Today we cover:
Dating After Divorce – Okay, deep breath. We talk about confidence, embracing the unknown, and why we’re all about the “don’t chase, attract” mindset and the slow burn (thank you Katie Couric!).
When Your Friend Gets a Little Too Critical – We’ve all been there—one of your closest friends suddenly starts questioning your decisions. How do you handle it without blowing up the friendship?
College Admissions Stress – If you’re a parent going through this process, we see you! We’re sharing what’s worked for us (and what definitely didn’t) to help keep the stress levels down—for you and your kid.
Middle School Madness – The mean girl phase? The friend drama? The why-is-this-so-hard moments? We get into all of it.
Fav quote of Kit's this week:
The lotus flower grows in the mud—sometimes, you’ve got to sit in the mess before you bloom.
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