From Divorce to Deep Love: How to Rewire Your Mind and Call In a New Chapter

Still think healing has to be hard, heavy, and emotionally exhausting? Not with this guest. In this paradigm-shifting episode, Erica sits down with speaker, author, and reinvention strategist Riana Malia to uncover the unconscious patterns keeping high-achieving women stuck—and how to finally break free.

Riana shares her personal journey from a peaceful-looking divorce turned emotional battlefield, to finding true love (and handcuffs—yep, she tells that story too). Together, they explore how trauma lives in the body, why therapy isn’t always enough, and what it really takes to rewire your beliefs and rebuild your life from the inside out.

Because you’re not broken. You’re just overdue for a new operating system.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

• The Pattern Problem – Why we repeat what we don’t repair—and how your unconscious mind is actually calling the shots.

• The Clear to Create™ Method – How to shift from survival mode to soulful creation by releasing emotional residue at the root.

• Quantum Time Release – A powerful healing tool that clears trauma without reliving it, so you can move forward without dragging the past.

• Rebuilding Self-Trust – Why even smart, successful women lose trust in themselves after divorce—and how to rebuild it with intention.

• Your Frequency is Your Future – The role of vibration, nervous system regulation, and tiny daily shifts in attracting love, peace, and clarity.

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💌 P.S. Want Erica to cover your most pressing divorce question this season? DM her on Instagram or send a topic request through the website. This show is for you—and she’s all ears.

We talk about:

• 00:00 Introduction 

• 07:39 The Power of the Unconscious Mind

• 09:20 Clearing to Create: Methodology Explained

• 16:22 Quantum Time Release and Emotional Healing

• 20:34 Connecting with Past Emotions

• 21:12 Becoming a Magnet for Miracles

• 22:26 Understanding Frequency and Vibration

• 24:01 The Importance of Small Steps

• 26:31 Climbing the Emotional Ladder

• 28:35 Manifesting Miracles and Opportunities

• 30:32 Practical Exercises for Raising Frequency

• 37:00 Extraordinary Love Index Assessment

• 38:56 Final Thoughts and Next Steps

  
  

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Learn More About This Week’s Guest: Riana Malia

Riana Malia is a Speaker, Author, and Reinvention Strategist who helps high-achieving women clear emotional patterns, rewire subconscious beliefs, and step into full-spectrum self-expression. She’s the creator of the Clear to Create™ Method and Quantum Pattern Protocol™, blending neuroscience, quantum healing, and emotional re-patterning to guide women into soul-aligned love and leadership. Her work has been featured in Brilliant Magazine, The Mamahood, and on top podcasts like InspiHER’d and From Betrayal to Breakthrough. Named one of NY Weekly’s “Top 30 Empowering Women Entrepreneurs to Watch in 2025,” Riana leads women to become magnetic to what once felt impossible.

Connect with Riana

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rianamalia/ 

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RianaMalia/ 

• https://quiz.rianamalia.com/ 

  
  

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