Stories from The Other Side with Claudia Porter

In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, I sit down with financial advisor, author, and total resilience queen, Claudia Porter. What starts as a story of sleep-deprived motherhood and a seemingly stable marriage unravels into an eye-opening journey of survival, self-trust, and stunning reinvention.

Claudia shares how she navigated a high-stakes divorce, battled a legally binding prenup (spoiler: it didn’t hold up), and found creative ways to fund her freedom—yes, the diamond ring plays a starring role. From recording tense conversations to raising four boys on her own and switching careers after academia shut its doors, Claudia is living proof that rock bottom is sometimes the foundation you need to rise. Today, she’s a thriving financial planner, empowering women to break free from financial dependence and build something truly their own.

If you’ve ever asked, “But how will I survive?”—this episode will show you that with a little strategy, a lot of heart, and a sprinkle of divine timing, the answer is: you will.

Disclaimer: Claudia Porter, RFG Advisory, and The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club , are separate and unaffiliated entities, and are not responsible for one another’s policies, services, or opinions. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory” or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. The views and opinions expressed by Claudia Porter may not necessarily reflect those of RFG Advisory, its clients, or its employees.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

• The Diamond Exit Plan – How Claudia turned her wedding ring into a ticket to freedom.

• Know Your Rights – Why understanding your legal and financial situation is your first step to power.

• Document Everything – The receipts matter. Especially in court.

• Rebuild on Purpose – From linguistics professor to wealth advisor, the career pivot that changed her life.

• True Independence – Why relying on support payments forever isn’t the plan—and how to create one that is.

• Not Just a Mom – How building a business reshaped Claudia’s relationship with her kids.Rewrite the Story – Your marriage, your money, and your past don’t define you. You do.

We talk about:

• 00:00 Introduction

• 01:37 Claudia's Early Marriage Struggles

• 02:49 The Turning Point: Discovering Legal Rights

• 05:44 The Battle for Independence

• 13:46 Legal Battles and Custody Fight

• 16:21 Rebuilding Career and Financial Independence

• 21:18 Advice for Those Considering Divorce

• 29:42 Conclusion and Book Promotion

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Learn More About This Week’s Guest: Claudia Porter

Claudia Porter, CFP®, is a dedicated Wealth Advisor at RFG Advisory, specializing in guiding individuals through pivotal life transitions such as retirement, career changes, and business sales. Born and raised in Germany, Claudia initially pursued a career in linguistics, earning a Ph.D. and teaching internationally. Her own experiences, including overcoming financial constraints and rebuilding after a difficult divorce, solidified her belief that financial independence is the foundation of personal freedom—particularly for women. This personal journey inspired her to tran