When Your Child Says "I Don’t Want to Go to Dad’s"

Your child says, “I don’t want to go to Dad’s.” Now what? In this heartfelt solo episode, Erica from The Crazy Ex-Wives Club dives deep into one of the most gut-wrenching moments in co-parenting: when your child doesn’t want to go to the other parent’s house.

This isn’t just about logistics. It’s about identity, emotions, safety, and learning to lead with love—especially when it hurts.

Drawing from personal experience and community stories, Erica explores how to hold space for your child’s feelings without letting your own heartbreak steer the ship. You’ll learn how to meet your kid in the muck, reflect their emotions without judgment, and guide them gently through the challenges of living between two homes.

She also unpacks how to separate your own post-divorce wounds from your parenting responses—and why your ability to self-regulate is the secret superpower your child needs most right now.

This episode is your soft place to land and your steady compass when the co-parenting seas get rough. Because it’s not about fixing every feeling—it’s about walking through them, together.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

• When Your Kid Doesn’t Want Two Homes – Why it’s normal for children to resist transition, and what’s really going on underneath their tears.

• Regulate Before You Respond – How to calm your own nervous system so you can show up with empathy, not reactivity.

• Co-Parenting Without Comparison – Why your child liking one house “more” isn’t the end of the world—and what to do about it.

• Helping Kids Name Their Feelings – The power of giving language to big emotions so they don’t stay trapped in little bodies.

• Creating Safety in Both Homes – Your role in supporting your child’s adjustment—without micromanaging the other parent.

• The Gift of Resilience – Why living between two homes, while hard, can also help your child grow flexible, strong, and deeply connected.

  
  

We talk about:

• 00:00 Introduction: The Emotional Impact of Divorce

• 01:10 Welcome to the Crazy Ex-Wife's Club

• 01:39 A Heartbreaking Post on Threads

• 03:44 Navigating Children's Emotions

• 06:15 The Importance of Both Parents

• 08:30 Practical Tips for Co-Parenting

• 11:53 Personal Experiences and Apologies

• 15:15 The Struggles of Living Between Two Houses

• 20:19 Managing Parental Anxiety

• 23:09 Conclusion and Resources

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