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December 6, 2023 36 mins

In this episode of The D Spot, we'll discuss how to reframe our state of mind to view things as happening for us rather than happening to us. We'll also explore the reasons why we expect our partners to be mind readers and offer tips for finding your worthiness. Additionally, we'll talk about emotional load, what it is, and how you can recognize your own red flags.



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↓ C O N N E C T ↓

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Connect with this week's guest | Guest Name Here

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Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/peaceandpossiblity?mibextid=ZbWKwL

Gottman Author Page → https://www.gottman.com/author/nicole-schiener/

Website → https://peaceandpossibility.ca/



↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓

02:27 Flowing Into Possibilities

05:24 Reframing Your State of Mind to Happening For Us Versus Happening To Us

10:45 Why Do We Expect Our Partner's To Be Mind Readers?

14:10 Finding Your Worthiness

16:55 Emotional Load: What is it?

20:52 How Can I Recognize My Own Red Flag?

27:22 Embodied Anger

33:15 Final Thoughts




↓ M U S I C ↓

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