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June 8, 2021 40 mins

Have you ever found yourself thinking – ‘I wish I understood what women want’? 

If so, then this week’s guest could provide the answer. 

Shana James has a masters in psychology and over 20 years of experience working with men to help them find love, rekindle the spark and bring intimacy back into their relationships.

Her clients call her ‘the secret weapon’ because she helps men translate women’s needs and understand their attraction and motivations.

In this powerful interview, Shana shares some insightful and counter-intuitive tips that can help men find the love and intimacy they seek, whatever stage of their relationship they are at. 

What you’ll learn

  • Common issues that Shana helps her male clients with
  • Some powerful skills that will help you in the workplace and in the bedroom
  • How to tap into what your body is telling you
  • How men can be more vulnerable without appearing weak
  • How to master your attention and focus
  • How to reignite the spark and bring intimacy back into a relationship 
  • What is Nice Guy Syndrome?
  • How to communicate your desires without complaining
  • How men can reinvent themselves after divorce 
  • What inspired Shana’s Ted X Talk about male vulnerability

More information
Show notes and links to all the resources mentioned in this interview are available at https://thedadtrain.com/52 

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