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August 1, 2025 1 min

Nobody likes taxes, right? I mean, whether it's the ones we file in April or the emotional toll life throws our way, they can feel like a real drag. Today, we dive into what Seneca called “the taxes of life”—those pesky little heartaches, the grief, and even the bittersweet goodbyes that come with living. But here’s the kicker: instead of resenting these payments, what if we embraced them? Paying these taxes with gratitude can lighten our load and help us appreciate the game we’re playing. So, grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s chat about how we can all sign up for the full rollercoaster of life—joy, heartbreak, and all! What taxes are you paying personally? Let’s get into it!

Life's got its fair share of taxes, and I’m not talking about the ones we dread filing each April. Nope, I’m diving into what the ancient Stoic philosopher Seneca called the ‘taxes of life’—those emotional tolls we pay as we navigate through this beautiful mess called existence. Let’s chat about the aches, the grief, and those little heartbreaks that hit us when we least expect them. You know, the stuff that makes us feel like we’re carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders. But here’s the twist: Seneca suggested we pay these taxes gladly!

Imagine that! Paying taxes with a smile? Well, it’s all about perspective, folks. Life isn't just about the good times; it’s also about embracing the struggles and heartaches that come our way. The sooner we accept that these are the costs of playing the game of life, the lighter our load becomes. We’ve got to stop resenting the bills life hands us and start being grateful for the chance to experience everything—joy, heartbreak, late nights, and all. It’s a wild ride, and it’s ours for the taking! So, what are the taxes you’re paying in your life? Let’s share and lighten the load together!

Takeaways:

  • Life has its own set of taxes that we all have to pay, like grief and heartbreak.
  • Seneca, the ancient philosopher, called life's struggles 'the taxes of life' - and he knew a thing or two!
  • Instead of resenting life's bills, we should embrace them with gratitude for the experiences we have.
  • The key to enjoying life is accepting that every joy comes with its own cost, so let's pay up with a smile!
  • When we stop fighting against the hardships, we find that life's weight becomes a little lighter and a lot more manageable.
  • Every goodbye and tough lesson is just part of the grand adventure, so let's savor the ride!

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(00:01):
The Taxes of Life this iscommentary from James A.
Brown.
Nobody likes taxes.
Not the ones we file in April.
Not the ones that life makesus pay, either.
Seneca, the old Stoic, calledthem exactly that.
The taxes of life.
He meant the aches, the grief,the little heartbreaks, the long

(00:24):
goodbyes, the years that slipaway whether you want them to or
not.
But Seneca, he said, pay them gladly.
The price of life is paying.
The fee of love is lost, andthe cost of moving forward is often
leaving something behind.
The sooner we stop resentingthe bill, the lighter life feels.

(00:47):
You can spend all your energyraging against those taxes, or you
could pay them with gratitudethat you got to play the game at
all.
That's signing up fully forall of it.
The joy, the heartbreak, thelate nights, the slow mornings, the
hard lessons, and yes, thefarewells that we don't get to schedule.

(01:08):
Or at least that's what I tell myself.
So what do you think?
And what taxes are you paying personally?
Let me know in the commentsand check out more@jamesabrown.net
on that note, I'm James A.
Brown and as always, be well.

(01:29):
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