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May 19, 2025 24 mins

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Saying no is hard.

Maybe you’ve felt it too—that tug-of-war between wanting to help and secretly knowing you’re already stretched way too thin. I’ve been there more times than I can count. 

If you’ve ever struggled to say no because you didn’t want to disappoint someone—you’re not alone.

In fact, I’ve had so many of you reach out asking “How the heck do I say no without feeling guilty or ruining relationships?” That’s exactly what we’re talking about today.

I’m giving you the exact 3-step script to say no without over-explaining, without apologizing, and without ghosting anyone.

Plus, I’ll walk you through five reflection questions I personally use to check in with myself before I say yes—or no.

If you're ready to stop overcommitting and start protecting your time, energy, and dreams, then grab your favorite beverage and open your notes app or journal and join the conversation.

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Saying No

01:16 The Struggle and Consequences of Saying No

02:36 Reclaiming Your Power: Learning to Say No

03:49 The Cost of Overcommitting

09:47 Reflection Questions: When to Say No

13:59 Red Flags: Recognizing When to Say No

14:40 Embracing Disappointment and Guilt

18:05 3-Step Script: How to Say No with Confidence

22:12 Key Truths About a Confident No

23:18 Conclusion and Legal Disclaimer

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Jefferson Fisher - The Next Conversation: Argue Less Talk More

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