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October 13, 2025 25 mins

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Brain fog? No motivation? Can’t remember anything? You might be wondering — is it ADHD… or menopause? And what does either one have to do with chasing a dream?

In today’s solo episode, I’m unpacking what happens when estrogen drops, dopamine crashes, and your once-focused brain suddenly can’t finish a sentence — much less a creative project. I’ll also share my own experience with breast cancer and what it means to rebuild your rhythm when hormones aren’t an option.

If you’re stuck in the loop of starting, stopping, and self-sabotaging, this is your reminder: there’s nothing wrong with you. Your brain is asking for a new kind of support — and there are steps you can take.

KEY TAKE AWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE

1️⃣ You’re not broken — you’re navigating a real cognitive shift

2️⃣ Your old tools may not work anymore — and that doesn’t mean you’ve failed

3️⃣ Even without hormones or meds, you can still find your flow

RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

The New Menopause  by Dr. Mary Claire Haver

The Pause Life - Dr Mary Claire Haver website with more menopause resources

CHADD - ADHD Resources

Distracted Dreamer Episode 48: The Science of Recovery: How Your Nervous System Fuels Your Dreams

Distracted Dreamer Episode 41: Embracing Self-Care and Recovery: Fuel Your Dreams and Prevent Burnout

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