The Divorced Dadvocate: Divorce Support For Dads

If you're a divorced or divorcing dad, the idea of a "parental coordinator" (PC) or "decision maker" (DM) might feel like another loss of control. Courts sometimes assign one when parents are high-conflict or consistently stuck on big issues. It's normal to feel suspicious or defensive. But like everything in divorce, there's a mix of positives and negatives you need to know — with real-life examp...

Jude is joined by the author of Love Hacks: Ten Skills For Making Your Relationships More Life Giving and pastor of Restoration Church in Denver, CO, Ron Johnson. They discuss how divorced dads can have a healthier relationship after divorce by learning what they want in a woman and relationship as well as how to create a deeper attachment the second time around.

Let’s break it down—what you can control, what you can’t, and what to ...

Divorce can feel like your life is spinning out of control—and in many ways, it is. You’re not just splitting up a relationship. You’re restructuring your family, finances, home life, and daily routines. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, trying to manage everything, fix everything, and control the uncontrollable. But here’s the truth: mastering the art of losing control is how you survive this. And, paradoxically, it’s how y...

If you're a divorced dad navigating custody or support issues, your attorney is one of your most important allies. But they’re not a mind reader. To get the best possible results, you need to communicate clearly, efficiently, and with purpose.

Here’s how to make that happen—and why it matters.

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Dating after divorce is a different game, especially when you're a father. You have more at stake than just your personal happiness—you need to think about how a new relationship will impact your children, your stability, and your future. The woman you choose to date should not only align with your personal goals but also integrate well into your family. Here’s a breakdown of the types of women that may be beneficial to your s...

Divorce is tough. There’s no sugarcoating it. It’s a process that shakes the very foundation of your life, leaving you to navigate a storm of emotions, legal complexities, financial strains, and, most importantly, your relationship with your children. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re failing, you’re not alone. And here’s the truth: you don’t have to be perfect.

The reality is that you will struggle,...

David Pissarro, attorney and founder of Union of Dads, shares powerful insights on navigating custody battles, challenging family court biases, and fighting for father's rights. Through his 26 years of legal experience and personal advocacy, David provides essential strategies for dads facing the often unfair family court system.

• Family courts often favor mothers despite laws being theoretically gender-neutral
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Creating a stable, welcoming environment after divorce isn't just about interior design—it's about healing, comfort, and establishing a foundation for your family's new chapter. When children shuttle between homes, the spaces they inhabit profoundly affect their ability to process and adjust to their new reality.

Interior designer Molly Anderson discovered this truth through personal experience when her son ...

In today's parenting landscape, we often hear about the importance of involved parents. But did you know that fathers bring a unique set of parenting skills to the table? In his book "The Boy Crisis," Dr. Warren Farrell explores how dads parent differently from moms, and why these differences are crucial for child development, especially for boys. Let's dive into six key ways fathers contribute to parenting.

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In this episode, we share valuable strategies to support children through the turbulent waters of divorce. Discover how consistency and openness can anchor a child’s world, from recognizing emotional and behavioral changes to fostering a stable environment. We introduce the engaging "Rose Thorn Bud" dinner-time game as a tool to nurture open communication, and stress the need for healthy co-parenting dynamics to create a ...

This episode addresses the pressing concerns of divorced fathers regarding their children's safety in the wake of a mother’s new romantic partner. It explores the psychological and biological underpinnings that explain why women often move on quickly after divorce and the increased risks associated with introducing a non-biological male figure into the home.

• Insights on hypergamy and post-divorce relationship dynami...

What if you could become the CEO of your own divorce, steering your life towards a future that truly aligns with your values and desires? Join us for a compelling conversation with Bill Miles co-founder of Best Self Magazine and the Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching program, as he shares his transformative journey through difficult divorces. Learn how his experiences led him to develop tools and strategies aimed at helping fathe...

Divorced dads often face an uphill battle—not just in the courtroom, but in the court of public opinion. The narrative surrounding fathers post-divorce is frequently negative, portraying them as absent, irresponsible, or unfit parents. Society, fueled by media, Hollywood, advertising, sitcoms, and corporate policies, often reinforces the notion that fathers are secondary caregivers or mere visitors in their children’s lives. Howeve...

Navigating divorce can be overwhelming, but with clear priorities and manageable steps, it's possible to regain clarity and purpose. In this episode, we explore practical strategies to handle the emotional storms and daunting tasks that accompany divorce, emphasizing the importance of support systems and self-care.

• Understanding the multi-faceted nature of divorce

• Setting intentions and identifying priorities

• Breaking tasks...

Dads navigating back-to-school chaos find valuable insights on meal planning and preparation in this episode. We discuss practical strategies, involve kids in cooking, and offer tips to make grocery shopping easier and more enjoyable.

• Importance of meal planning for divorced dads
• Overcoming challenges in meal preparation
• Tips for effective meal planning and organization
• Benefits of batch cooking and fre...

Divorce can feel like navigating uncharted waters, especially when you're a father striving to maintain a healthy relationship with your children while managing interactions with your ex. Setting clear boundaries is essential—not only for your well-being but also for fostering healthy relationships. Boundaries ensure that you remain a consistent and present parent, avoid unnecessary conflict, and prioritize self-care.

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Divorce is one of the most challenging decisions a dad can face. It’s not just a legal process; it’s an emotional, financial, and logistical shift that will impact every aspect of your life. Before you move forward, it’s essential to approach this situation with careful planning and a strong support system. One of the best ways to navigate this journey is by assembling a team of professionals who can guide you through the complexit...

The start of a new year brings a chance for a fresh start—an opportunity to refocus on your priorities, heal from past challenges, and build a positive future. For divorced or divorcing dads, this time of renewal is especially powerful. It’s a chance to reassess your role as a father, prioritize self-care, and create a solid foundation for the year ahead.

Here are 10 New Year’s resolutions or intentions that can guide you toward gro...

For most divorced or divorcing dads navigating the holidays can be challenging especially if all you ever dreamed of was that idyllic holiday season with your family. Listen in as I share specific tips for co-parenting after divorce during the holidays.

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