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March 23, 2025 • 31 mins

🎙️ Why You Self-Sabotage: The Hidden Brain Circuit That’s Quietly Controlling Your Life | Dr. Kyra Bobinet (Pt. 1)

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We all know what to do… so why don’t we do it?

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In this mind-bending episode, Dr. Kyra Bobinet takes us deep into the neurological fault line between desire and action—the "Know-do gap"—and the mysterious ancient brain structure responsible: the habenula.

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This isn’t dopamine. This isn’t willpower. This is the revolutionary science of behavioral sabotage most people have never heard of.

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Dr. Bobinet—Harvard-trained physician, neuroscientist, and author of Unstoppable Brain—joins Dov Baron for a vulnerable, unscripted exploration of how trauma, addiction, procrastination, and self-doubt all link back to one small but powerful structure in the midbrain that silently shuts down our motivation.

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🔥 On This Episode:

  • The ancient anti-reward system: What the habenula does to kill your motivation—and how to reboot it

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  • Why “I know what to do, but I don’t do it” is a neurological truth, not a character flaw

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  • The real reason self-help and habit hacks don’t stick

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  • The neuroscience Behind Trauma-Driven Behavior—and Why Emotional Logic Beats Rational Logic

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  • How your childhood shaped a lifelong unconscious fear of success

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  • Failing For Saftey:  The root of addictive behavior and the brain’s hidden decision.

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  • Why curiosity is the most powerful antidote to self-blame

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