Part 1 of 3: 🔥 “What if You’re Not Calm. You’re Numb. | Juliane Taylor Shore on Trauma, Boundaries & Belonging”

Part 1 of 3: 🔥 “What if You’re Not Calm. You’re Numb. | Juliane Taylor Shore on Trauma, Boundaries & Belonging”

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Your body remembers how to love… once it feels safe.

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You were never broken. You were brilliantly wired... to survive pain.
But if you’re still running that survival code?
You’re not in control, your nervous system is.

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In this explosive first episode of a 3-part series, I sit down with Juliane Taylor Shore, author of "Setting Boundaries That Stick." Juliane is a psychotherapist who’s equal parts neuroscientist, somatic decoder, and relational badass. She’s spent the last two decades rewiring the hearts and brains of people stuck in trauma loops, people who look "successful" but are secretly terrified of being known.

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Jules has trained in EMDR, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Relational Life Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing…
But what she’s best known for:
Mapping your survival code, and showing you how to stop running it.

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This isn’t self-help fluff.
This is primal, embodied science for people who want to lead without losing themselves.

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🧬 Who Is Juliane Taylor Shore?

She’s the therapist your therapist learns from.
Founder of The Connected Nest in Austin, Texas, Jules works with high performers, couples, and trauma survivors to rewire their nervous systems from threat-based operating to secure relational connection.

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With a master’s in counseling from St. Edward’s University and post-graduate training in attachment, systems theory, and neurobiology, she’s synthesized the most cutting-edge science with the deepest human truth:
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Your body remembers how to love… once it feels safe.

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🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why you think you’re calm, but are actually shut down

• The 3-part model of Mapping History, Mapping Identity, and Mapping the Nervous System

• How high-functioning trauma gets rewarded—and reinforced—in leadership

• The difference between managing someone’s emotions and creating real connection

• What your caregivers’ nervous systems taught you before you even had language

• Why trauma is not what happened, but what your body had to do to keep you alive

• How to track “boundary collapse” through sensations, not thoughts

• Why we confuse safety with performance—and how to reclaim your truth

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