The Down and Dirty Podcast

🎧 From Phone Store Confessions to the White Party Takeover

The Professor, The Dean, and Chuck D return with laughs, stories, and big event teasers to kick off the swing season. From a wild phone store confession that turned into an unexpected lifestyle recruit, to why September is the real start of “swing season,” this episode has it all. And of course, the crew dives deep into what’s coming up next — including one of the year’s ho...

🎧 Swinging on Screen: Hollywood vs. Real Life

From Indecent Proposal to Eyes Wide Shut to the short-lived series Swingtown, the crew debates how Hollywood portrays swinging — and why it never matches the real thing. Along the way, they unpack ENM terms like “nesting partner,” joke about how quickly kids pick up on adult dynamics, and close with a brutally honest Would You Rather that only Chuck D would deliver.

This mini-ep...

🎧 Part 2 of the Spit Cup Series – Featuring Mike

If you thought Part 1 was messy… buckle up. In this follow-up, Mike (founder of CouplesNextDoor) returns with the crew to talk post-play dynamics, missteps in communication, and what happens when emotions get involved in swapping.

💬 Topics include:
• Post-hookup clarity and awkward confessions
• Why who sits where still matters at the afterparty
• Chuck D’s commentary on cross-couple ch...

🎧 TEASER: The Ice House Incident – Chuck D’s Worst Sex Story (And It’s Not What You Think)

Some sex stories you forget — others get told on a podcast for the world to hear. Chuck D shares what went down (literally) in a rocking “ice house” during a wild farm party. Camper mattresses, misunderstandings, and a dude with his hands up… yeah, it’s as awkward as it sounds.

🎯 You’ll never look at an ice house the same again.

Follow now — f...

🎧 Special Guest: Jenny — Lifestyle Unicorn, Dating Pro, and CND Favorite

In this juicy sit-down, Jenny — a single female who's been part of the Down & Dirty circle for years — shares what it's really like dating in and out of the lifestyle. From first-date disclosures to navigating clingy couples, she's got tips, warnings, and hilarious stories from both sides of the swinger scene.

💬 In This Episode:

• Would you tell a vanilla...

🎧 TEASER: Chuck D’s Bedroom Lights Out by 10 — Why Vets Skip the Orgy Suite

When was the last time Chuck D was up (and getting down) past midnight? The crew calls him out in this no-filter conversation about after parties, group play, and why experienced swingers often ghost the orgy suites entirely.

💤 “If you’re looking for Chuck D at 11pm... he’s in bed.”

This teaser leads into our next full episode dropping July 29 — where we’ll ...

🎧 From Spit Cups to Takeovers: The Story Behind CouplesNextDoor

Before CouplesNextDoor.com was a powerhouse for lifestyle events and connection, it was just an idea born from exclusion—and a country bar full of tobacco spit cups. In this hilarious and revealing episode, The Professor, The Dean, and their co-founder Mike share how being told “no” became the launchpad for one of the Midwest’s largest swinger communities.

From early pa...

🎧 TEASER: Chuck D's PornHub Confession – Auditions, XHamster, and the Daily Routine

Ever wonder what goes on behind closed tabs? Chuck D holds nothing back in this hilarious and unfiltered dive into his daily porn habits — from “casting couch” favorites to why mismatched panties and rent-money desperation make it hotter. This one gets real explicit… and real relatable.

💦 Listener discretion (18+) strongly advised.

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🎧 Cruise Hookups, Glow Party Drama & Sticky Floors: Summer in the Lifestyle

Summer’s heating up, and so are the stories. In this episode, The Professor and Mrs. Doll dish on an unexpected swinger encounter aboard a vanilla cruise—yes, while surrounded by family. Then it's on to Glow Too, the Midwest's hottest glow party, where mansion meetups, paint-streaked bodies, and questionable floor conditions await.

It’s wild. It’s sweaty...

🎧 TEASER: Highway 169, Hazards On — Let’s Go

Chuckie D answers The Professor’s question with zero hesitation — and way too much detail. In this clip, he tells the story of getting hot and heavy on the side of the highway near Minnesota’s biggest candy store. Yes, really. Hazards on. Ditch side. Just another day in the lifestyle.

It’s messy, real, and exactly the kind of moment that makes The Down & Dirty Podcast what it is.

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In one of our most honest episodes yet, The Down & Dirty crew sits down with Lindsay, a licensed therapist and lifestyle-aware mental health coach, for a raw conversation about what really happens beneath the surface of swinging, play parties, and non-monogamous relationships. We talk emotional triggers, communication breakdowns, burnout, and the real mental weight that can come ...

🎧 TEASER: Pandora’s Box Doesn’t Stay Closed in This World

When you’re in the lifestyle, things come up faster—emotionally, mentally, relationally. In this teaser, Lindsay, a licensed therapist, joins Mrs. Doll to unpack how non-monogamy doesn’t just allow for deeper conversations... it forces them.

From buried insecurities to emotional overload, this short clip offers a glimpse into next week’s powerful episode on mental health in e...

🎧 Swing Season Closes, Summer Vibes Begin

It’s the post-party wind-down you didn’t know you needed. In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, the crew recaps the Little Black Dress Hotel Takeover and the energy rolling out of spring and into summer. From lap dances and lingerie trades to emotional moments and etiquette reminders, this one brings it all.

💬 In This Episode:

• What went down at the Little Black Dress Soirée
• Lin...

🔥 Building Your Crew, Breaking the Clique 🔥

In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D, and special guests dig into one of the most common lifestyle struggles: how to find your people—without getting stuck in a clique.

If you’ve ever felt like an outsider at events, unsure how to meet people, or stuck in a small circle that limits your experience, this episode is for you. From hilarious party...

Ever notice who gets approached at lifestyle events — and who doesn't? Chuck D shares a candid perspective on how interracial couples are often treated at parties and why it matters. It’s short, powerful, and worth thinking about before your next night out.

🎙️ Full episode airs Tuesday, May 27 on The Down & Dirty Podcast

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🎧 TEASER: Cliques Happen — Even in the Lifestyle

People talk about “lifestyle cliques” like it’s a bad thing... but are they really?

In this teaser, The Professor and Chuck D drop some real talk about how cliques form everywhere — at work, with family, and yes, even in the lifestyle. But they also explain why one of those six people standing around at every party wants you to come say hello (and probably more than just hello). 👀

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🎙️ Episode 4: Pushing Limits – Safety, Power & Edge Play in BDSM

From funny mishaps to powerful insights, this episode dives into the intersection of BDSM and the lifestyle. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D are joined by special guest Sleepy, a seasoned practitioner in the BDSM community, who brings raw, insightful, and sometimes hilarious stories to the table.

Topics include:

• Body modification and kink
• Consent and comm...

🎧 Teaser: BDSM – From Bedroom Kinks to Full-Time Power Play

Ever wonder where kink ends and lifestyle begins?

This clip gives you a taste of our upcoming episode dropping May 6, where we dive into BDSM as both a kink and a lived identity. From choking and teasing to collaring and control, it’s a raw, honest look at what happens when play turns into power exchange—and how different that looks for everyone in the lifestyle.

💬 Got ques...

In this special bonus episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor and Chuck D take a break from the usual format to share wild behind-the-scenes stories, personal party memories, and real advice for navigating the biggest lifestyle events of the season.

From mansion lingerie parties to party buses, epic dance-offs, and stairwell surprises (you know who you are), this one’s packed with laughs, lessons, and real talk about ...