The Down and Dirty Podcast

The Down and Dirty Podcast

🎙 Sex. Stories. Swinger life — unfiltered. Join hosts The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for bold, real-talk episodes on ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and kink. From wild party stories to emotional deep dives, Down & Dirty is where laughter, vulnerability, and sex-positive truth collide. Whether you're curious, seasoned, or just looking for community, this show pulls back the curtain on alternative relationships with humor and heart. New episodes drop every three weeks. NSFW, always authentic.

Episodes

July 15, 2025 29 mins

🎧 From Spit Cups to Takeovers: The Story Behind CouplesNextDoor

Before CouplesNextDoor.com was a powerhouse for lifestyle events and connection, it was just an idea born from exclusion—and a country bar full of tobacco spit cups. In this hilarious and revealing episode, The Professor, The Dean, and their co-founder Mike share how being told “no” became the launchpad for one of the Midwest’s largest swinger communities.

From early pa...

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🎧 TEASER: Chuck D's PornHub Confession – Auditions, XHamster, and the Daily Routine

Ever wonder what goes on behind closed tabs? Chuck D holds nothing back in this hilarious and unfiltered dive into his daily porn habits — from “casting couch” favorites to why mismatched panties and rent-money desperation make it hotter. This one gets real explicit… and real relatable.

💦 Listener discretion (18+) strongly advised.

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🎧 Cruise Hookups, Glow Party Drama & Sticky Floors: Summer in the Lifestyle

Summer’s heating up, and so are the stories. In this episode, The Professor and Mrs. Doll dish on an unexpected swinger encounter aboard a vanilla cruise—yes, while surrounded by family. Then it's on to Glow Too, the Midwest's hottest glow party, where mansion meetups, paint-streaked bodies, and questionable floor conditions await.

It’s wild. It’s sweaty...

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🎧 TEASER: Highway 169, Hazards On — Let’s Go

Chuckie D answers The Professor’s question with zero hesitation — and way too much detail. In this clip, he tells the story of getting hot and heavy on the side of the highway near Minnesota’s biggest candy store. Yes, really. Hazards on. Ditch side. Just another day in the lifestyle.

It’s messy, real, and exactly the kind of moment that makes The Down & Dirty Podcast what it is.


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    🎧 Mental Health in the Lifestyle: Are We Okay?

    In one of our most honest episodes yet, The Down & Dirty crew sits down with Lindsay, a licensed therapist and lifestyle-aware mental health coach, for a raw conversation about what really happens beneath the surface of swinging, play parties, and non-monogamous relationships. We talk emotional triggers, communication breakdowns, burnout, and the real mental weight that can come ...

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    🎧 TEASER: Pandora’s Box Doesn’t Stay Closed in This World

    When you’re in the lifestyle, things come up faster—emotionally, mentally, relationally. In this teaser, Lindsay, a licensed therapist, joins Mrs. Doll to unpack how non-monogamy doesn’t just allow for deeper conversations... it forces them.

    From buried insecurities to emotional overload, this short clip offers a glimpse into next week’s powerful episode on mental health in e...

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    🎧 Swing Season Closes, Summer Vibes Begin

    It’s the post-party wind-down you didn’t know you needed. In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, the crew recaps the Little Black Dress Hotel Takeover and the energy rolling out of spring and into summer. From lap dances and lingerie trades to emotional moments and etiquette reminders, this one brings it all.

    💬 In This Episode:

    • What went down at the Little Black Dress Soirée
    • Lin...
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    🔥 Building Your Crew, Breaking the Clique 🔥


    In this episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D, and special guests dig into one of the most common lifestyle struggles: how to find your people—without getting stuck in a clique.

    If you’ve ever felt like an outsider at events, unsure how to meet people, or stuck in a small circle that limits your experience, this episode is for you. From hilarious party...

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    Ever notice who gets approached at lifestyle events — and who doesn't? Chuck D shares a candid perspective on how interracial couples are often treated at parties and why it matters. It’s short, powerful, and worth thinking about before your next night out.


    🎙️ Full episode airs Tuesday, May 27 on The Down & Dirty Podcast


    💬 Got thoughts or a similar story? Visit <a href="https://downdirtypodcast.com" tar...

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    🎧 TEASER: Cliques Happen — Even in the Lifestyle

    People talk about “lifestyle cliques” like it’s a bad thing... but are they really?

    In this teaser, The Professor and Chuck D drop some real talk about how cliques form everywhere — at work, with family, and yes, even in the lifestyle. But they also explain why one of those six people standing around at every party wants you to come say hello (and probably more than just hello). 👀

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    🎙️ Episode 4: Pushing Limits – Safety, Power & Edge Play in BDSM

    From funny mishaps to powerful insights, this episode dives into the intersection of BDSM and the lifestyle. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D are joined by special guest Sleepy, a seasoned practitioner in the BDSM community, who brings raw, insightful, and sometimes hilarious stories to the table.

    Topics include:

    • Body modification and kink
    • Consent and comm...
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    🎧 Teaser: BDSM – From Bedroom Kinks to Full-Time Power Play

    Ever wonder where kink ends and lifestyle begins?

    This clip gives you a taste of our upcoming episode dropping May 6, where we dive into BDSM as both a kink and a lived identity. From choking and teasing to collaring and control, it’s a raw, honest look at what happens when play turns into power exchange—and how different that looks for everyone in the lifestyle.

    💬 Got ques...

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    🎉 BONUS: Behind the Scenes of Spring’s Wildest Lifestyle Parties


    In this special bonus episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor and Chuck D take a break from the usual format to share wild behind-the-scenes stories, personal party memories, and real advice for navigating the biggest lifestyle events of the season.

    From mansion lingerie parties to party buses, epic dance-offs, and stairwell surprises (you know who you a...

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    April 20, 2025 51 secs

    🎧 TEASER: Pool Paddle Pickup

    Me and Chuck used to go on these wild trips back in the day… We’d wrangle about 10 couples and take over resorts. One time in the Dominican, the two of us ended up in the pool—just two grown ass men, one swimming laps, the other doggy paddling—and somehow, it turned into a scene you wouldn’t believe. 👀

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    April 20, 2025 25 mins

    Listen in to tips, stories, and the ins and outs of The Professor's favorite swinger event of the year... Mardi Gras!


    Hosts and Producers:Mr. Open, WhiteChocolate, and Ms. Dahl

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    Swinger 101 (Part 2): From Comfort Zones to Lingerie Zones


    We’re back with Part 2 of our Swinger 101 conversation—and it gets even more real. In this episode, the hosts dig into the comfort zones, expectations, and awkward (but hilarious) learning curves that every couple faces in their early lifestyle experiences.

    From learning how to communicate through uncertainty to understanding what those “lingerie zones” are all about, this on...

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    😴 Chuck D’s Unusual Bed Request

    Ever been so deep in the moment you forgot where your partner was sleeping? Chuck D has. In this wild teaser clip, he shares a hilarious (and maybe not-so-proud) moment involving a party, a crowded hotel room, and a very unusual sleeping arrangement request. Let’s just say… the bathtub was involved. 🛁

    Want to hear the full story? You don’t want to miss the next episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast...

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    🔥 Swinger 101 (Part 1): Mistakes to Avoid & Real Talk 🔥


    The Down and Dirty Podcast is BACK and dirtier than ever! In this brand-new reboot episode, we’re diving deep into how to get started in swinging, complete with real-life stories, hilarious fails, and must-know advice for newbies.

    Join your new hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuckie D — along with special guest The Dean, as they unpack the do's and don’ts, share the...

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    🔥 Hotel Takeovers, Lifestyle Events & A Big Podcast Announcement! 🔥

    In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about attending a swinger hotel takeover—from what to wear and how to make the most of the event to navigating single male participation rules and engaging in the community beforehand.

    👀 What’s Inside This Episode?
    • What to expect at hotel takeovers – Room crawls, pre-parties & after-hours fun.
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    Join us as we sit down with the manager of one of Western Europe's largest brothels. Catherine De Noire has her master's degree in organizational psychology and sociology and is currently in a PhD program to continue her research in managing legal sex work and diving into sex workers' experiences within their work. We had such a delight interviewing her to hear about her unique perspective on the sex industry and talk a...

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