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July 21, 2025 37 mins

Why is it that we fall short in relationships? We want true lasting love. We have every intention to show up as our best, but when the triggers happen and the chaos ensues, we can find ourselves repeating patterns in relationships we said we would never do again. 

Why is it that women get into or stay too long in relationships with men who make promises they can't keep? And why is it that men say things will be different next time but then they can't follow through with their word?

This episode of The Dr Nikki Starr Show featuring Ivan L. James II, coach, writer, and speaker devoted to helping men and women reclaim their power through truth, presence, and embodied leadership explores these topics and what men and women should consider if you're finally ready to do whatever it takes to heal and rise into greater union. 

In the bonus content, Ivan shares a powerful tip to help you keep your promises, be in integrity and follow through on your commitments. Though this was initially intended to support men in helping you in showing up better in relationship, this practice also helps women to be in greater integrity too.

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More about Ivan: 

After over 15 years of performing the role of the masculine (provider, protector, partner, including a decorated career in the military), Ivan faced a breaking point. On the outside, he appeared strong. Inside, he was disconnected, reactive, and unsure of who he truly was. That moment of reckoning sparked a powerful journey of healing, spiritual realignment, and emotional mastery.

What emerged was not just a new man, but a clear mission.

Today, Ivan guides both men and women to stop performing and start embodying. He works with individuals and couples, helping them lead with integrity, deepen polarity, and build relationships grounded in truth. His coaching style is compassionate yet direct, spiritual yet practical that's rooted in lived experience, not just theory.

IG: @ivanheals

Free Resources: https://ivanheals.com/free-page

Healing Community: https://ivanheals.com/healing-collective

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