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September 1, 2025 40 mins

This episode is for both women and men. Erectile dysfunction has a bigger impact on relationships than most people realize. Because of performance anxiety, shame and guilt secondary to erectile dysfunction or fear of it, connection and intimacy suffers in relationship. 

Let's talk about how to navigate this in relationship for the healing of the man-woman relationship and for greater union.

This episode features Ean Wood, a men's coach who specializes in sex and relationships. Ean Wood has spent 10+ years guiding men to master their sexuality, confidence, and presence. TEDx speaker, former pro snowboarder, and lover of all things curious, he blends insight with real-world experience to help men unlock their full potential—in and out of the bedroom.

Listen to this episode now where we discuss:

  • The importance of men doing men's work early on, including men's groups and circles
  • How tantra is different from regular sex
  • How pornography affects how a man experiences and operates during sex
  • Intimacy beyond performance
  • The importance of presence during all sexual experience with self and other
  • Separating pleasure from orgasm and how to do this
  • The healing power of touch and foreplay
  • Reprogramming the nervous system for greater arousal and pleasure
  • How to heal sensory distortions and return to pleasure
  • Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety and where it comes from
  • Why women should throw away their vibrators
  • The problem with the younger generations taking viagra
  • Communicating and opening up about sexuality

We go deeper into more practical ways inside the bonus content where we talk about: 

  • how to desensitize back to pleasure if you've been wanting to experience more pleasure in your relationship
  • for men - how to sensitize yourself back to receiving pleasure from simpler sensations if you have erectile dysfunction, especially from watching porn
  • for woman - how to re-sensitize yourself if you've had challenges orgasming with your partner due to overstimulation of your clitoris from using a vibrator

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Connect with Ean @seedingmasculinity 
https://www.eanwood.com/sexualresettraining

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