Chapter 12: The energetic match, not the one

It took one final and short lesson for me to date as an energetic match.

And it took two final lessons to realize just because they’re successful, nice, or charming does not mean they instantly get to have you.

It’s time to make men work for it.

Chapter 12: Finding the energetic match, not the one

It felt like the universe was bringing me lesson after lesson, but this time in male form. I couldn't grasp how much I still had yet to heal, I felt like I was almost taking steps backwards.

I have done years of the healing work, mentorship, empowering myself and here I was facing again the same thing I’ve always dealt with: unworthiness.

Now I really wasn’t go backwards, it’s impossible to go backwards. what was actually happening was I had opened up new standards, a new paradigm of man i wanted to call in when I realized I was dating down.

When we open up a new desire, like my desire to date men who could match my soul expression, success, and heart, we must go through an initiation. Meaning, we have to let go of the old traumas, conditioning, and belief systems that will no longer serve us in the next chapter. 

That calibration process is not easy and I was going through it.

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