October 2, 2025 • 42 mins
Ever feel like you’re doing “all the right things” and still pushing money away? We got curious about that tension and followed it into the body—where stress, old money scripts, and protective reflexes quietly override even the best strategy. We explore the science behind frequency mismatch and why high-beta overthinking blocks the alpha/theta states you need for creativity, intuition, and receiving. From brainwave coherence to the reticular activating system, we unpack how your beliefs filter what you notice—and why opportunities can sit right in front of you while your nervous system says, “Nope.”
We also dig into the polyvagal map of safety and danger to explain why success can feel risky, especially if wealth once meant pressure, judgment, or isolation. That’s where our “Money Repeller Bingo” gets real: procrastination, undercharging, shrinking around family, guilt when receiving—these aren’t flaws, they’re protective habits. Then we flip the script with a Wealth Rewiring Blueprint that blends somatic tools (breathwork, cold exposure, vagus nerve resets), energetic hygiene (boundaries, cord cutting, frequency tuning), and grounded money practices (daily micro-tracking, Money Mondays, clean pricing). When your body believes receiving is safe, your strategy finally sticks.
We share how proximity accelerates change—why rooms with healthy money norms recalibrate your baseline—and how couples can harmonize finances by addressing shared and inherited patterns. If you’ve been waiting for “perfect,” consider this your nudge to ship the offer, celebrate tiny wins, and build capacity to hold more without burning out. Press play, then tell us the repeller you’re retiring first. If this landed, follow, share with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find and heal their money story.
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SPEAKER_02 (00:00):
Yeah, almost as if every time they talk about
money, they spray themselveswith money repellent.
It's like and then every word,action, and thought that
emanates from them is to repelmoney.
SPEAKER_00 (00:11):
Mm-hmm.
Like bear spray.
SPEAKER_02 (00:12):
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
So much so that if they getclose to me, the money in my
pocket disappears.
What the hell?
You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_00 (00:20):
It's like maybe because it's like, oh, you're
next to that.
SPEAKER_02 (00:24):
Go ahead, let's get out of here.
SPEAKER_00 (00:27):
Welcome to the Empowerment Couple Podcast for
the lovers, leaders, and legacybuilders ready to rise.
We're Zuri and Michael Starr,your favorite empowerment
coaches, partners in life, love,and leveling up.
SPEAKER_02 (00:40):
This show is your sanctuary for soul aligned
success in a world drowning inburnout, broke mindsets, and
relationship drama.
SPEAKER_00 (00:48):
Each week, we'll bring you real talk, radical
tools, and sacred strategiesacross our four transformational
pillars wellness mastery, wealthexpansion, sacred relationships,
and embodied leadership.
SPEAKER_02 (01:00):
We'll guide you to lead from your soul's desire and
create meaningful impact withoutsacrificing your wellness.
Plus, this season we're bringingon powerful guests, playing
laugh-out loud games, andsharing unfiltered stories that
will challenge your beliefs andamplify your energy.
SPEAKER_00 (01:18):
So if you're ready to regulate your nervous system,
elevate your relationships, andrewire your life for magnetic
love, wealth, and purpose, hitfollow and join our empowered
posse.
It's time to rise into your mostbeautiful life.
SPEAKER_02 (01:31):
Your most beautiful let's do it together.
One, two, three.
Your most beautiful life.
SPEAKER_00 (01:48):
Yes.
So uh proximity is power, baby.
SPEAKER_02 (01:52):
And sometimes it can also weakness, too.
SPEAKER_00 (01:54):
It can also do like pull away.
SPEAKER_02 (01:57):
Beware of the company you keep.
SPEAKER_00 (01:59):
It can also be a energy leak.
SPEAKER_02 (02:04):
That is correct.
SPEAKER_00 (02:05):
It can also be an energy leak.
We're gonna be talking aboutwealth expansion and why you're
repelling money withoutrealizing it and what to do
instead.
Because if this is you andyou're like, oh, I clicked on
this episode because this is some, I want you to know you're
(02:26):
not broken, but your nervoussystem may be repelling the very
abundance you've been trying tomanifest.
So let's talk about the hiddenways you're blocking money and
what to do instead.
SPEAKER_02 (02:38):
Just know that you, like what you said, Zuri, you
are not cursed, you're notunworthy or unlucky.
You're just running subconsciouspatterns that contradict the
wealth that you say you want.
So let's get into it uh andlet's talk about the
confrontation, right?
How you're actually repellingmoney.
Right?
(02:58):
So most people repel moneyunconsciously.
SPEAKER_01 (03:02):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (03:02):
Right?
Self-sabotage doesn't look likesabotage, it looks like
avoidance or undercharging foryour services.
Uh, it might be procrastination,uh poor energetic hygiene, you
know, how you talk aboutyourself.
Uh your nervous system doesn'tattract what you want, it
attracts what it feels safeholding.
SPEAKER_00 (03:23):
Yeah, and in researching all of this to help
clients, we have found thatthere's a lot of science about
this.
There's so much science aboutum, you know, how you're
subconsciously repelling money,you know, wealth, you know,
comfort, um, freedom.
SPEAKER_02 (03:41):
Well, I wouldn't mind getting into a little
science break, right?
Let's let's talk about why youcan want wealth and still block
it at the same time.
SPEAKER_01 (03:48):
Let's do it.
SPEAKER_02 (03:49):
So let's break down the neuroscience behind why you
might be repelling money withouteven knowing it.
SPEAKER_00 (03:54):
Yeah, and we call it a lot of times frequency
mismatch, but what does thatactually mean in scientific
terms?
So, to do that, let's talk aboutbrainwave incoherence and money
confusion.
Yes, in science terms, frequencymismatch refers to misaligned
brainwave patterns whendifferent areas of your brain
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aren't communicatingeffectively.
These mismatches, like betweengamma and beta frequencies, can
cause the brain to losecoherence, making it harder to
send or receive clear internalsignals.
In a 2014 study by SanCristobal, scientists found that
communication between brainregions weakened when their
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rhythms were out of sync.
So if you're holding scarcity inyour subconscious while trying
to manifest abundance, yourbrain is literally crosswired.
So when we're stressed or stuckin overthinking, which is high
beta, we block access to alphaand theta states associated with
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creativity, openness, andenergetic receiving.
SPEAKER_02 (05:06):
Yeah.
Your brain is a machine, right?
So you can't attract overflowwhen your nervous system is shut
down.
SPEAKER_00 (05:13):
Yeah.
And I would just say your brainis an organ.
SPEAKER_02 (05:16):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (05:16):
And it has certain functions.
And um, there are things that itliterally can't do.
Like it, it isn't um, it can berewired to operate differently,
but it's it's an organ that'swired for a specific purpose.
Yeah.
So let's talk maybe a little bitabout the hidden power of
subconscious programming.
SPEAKER_02 (05:37):
Perfect.
Yeah.
Subconscious programming refersto beliefs and emotional
patterns we inherit, especiallyaround money, safety, and worth.
These aren't just mental habits,they're neural patterns that
live below awareness andinfluence 95% of decisions,
according to Harvard researcherGerald Zaltman.
SPEAKER_01 (05:57):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (05:58):
Uh, another um researcher, uh Brad Klotz, uh I
think he's a PhD, um, in 2025,uh, did a paper from Creighton
University, which explains thatmoney scripts, deep beliefs from
childhood or culture, drivefinancial behavior more than
budgeting apps ever could.
SPEAKER_00 (06:18):
So these money scripts are like your childhood
kind of programming.
Yep, that would be another wayto say it.
Well, that means that your moneyscript might be running the
show, even when you think you'recalling the shots.
So there's an a head app umstudy that further showed that
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under stress, and that's fromthis year, by the way, um, that
further showed under stress, thebrain's amygdala and limbic
systems overpower the prefrontalcortex, causing reactive money
moves like impulse spending,hoarding, ignoring your
finances, and fear-basedsavings.
SPEAKER_02 (06:59):
Of course.
I mean, when you're stressed,your brain flips the switch from
rational to reactive.
And that's when abundance getsblocked.
SPEAKER_00 (07:08):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (07:09):
And a 2024 Frontier study using FNIRS, which is a
neuroimaging device, it foundthat emotional valuation
overrides logic in financialdecisions, especially when
someone has low financial safetyor deep-rooted scarcity wiring.
Yikes.
SPEAKER_00 (07:29):
So when this is when your gut says no, but your head
says yes, that's yoursubconscious.
And it's not always aligned withabundance.
SPEAKER_02 (07:39):
Yeah, unfortunately.
So let's do a little recap.
What this means for your moneyblocks, right?
So if you're stuck in survivalmode trying to attract overflow,
your brain is on two differentchannels.
That is frequency mismatch.
SPEAKER_00 (07:54):
Yes.
And if your subconscious learnedthat money equals stress,
betrayal, or danger, then tryingto manifest it might feel like
self-sabotage, but it's actuallyself-protection.
SPEAKER_02 (08:07):
Yeah.
Well, until your subconsciousfeels safe with wealth, your
nervous system will keep pushingit away.
SPEAKER_00 (08:14):
And that's why we don't just do mindset, we do
neuroalignment.
It's not about what you want,it's about what your body
believes is safe.
To truly shift wealth reality,you have to address both your
brain waves and your body'swiring and how your nervous
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system interprets success andreceiving.
Totally.
So further understanding thisrequires us looking at the
polyvagal theory.
Oh, yeah.
So why success can feel unsafe.
The polyvagal theory teaches usthat the nervous system
constantly scans for cues ofsafety or danger.
(08:56):
But this is even true aroundmoney.
So if your body has learned thatmoney means pressure or wealth
equals abandonment, or it's notsafe to be seen, all you know,
all of the things that um becomeunsafe, you know, the the
feeling of out of the comfortzone.
Yeah, out of the comfort, butalso like there's you know,
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extreme fear connected to it.
Your system might just code moresuccess or more wealth, more
abundance as less safety.
SPEAKER_02 (09:25):
Yeah, and and here's the crazy thing even when money
is available, your body may notfeel safe enough to receive it.
Right.
So this is why nervous systemregulation, breath work,
somatics, embodiment is not justit's not just trendy, right?
It's critical for expanding yourwealth container.
SPEAKER_00 (09:44):
Yes, I so agree.
SPEAKER_02 (09:47):
So uh there's a um thing called the RAS filter,
which you can use to create whatyou believe, right?
The reticular activating system,RAS, in your brainstem acts like
a filter.
It lets in info that matchesyour beliefs and delete and
deletes what it doesn't, right?
So it it's constantly working.
(10:08):
So if you believe money isdangerous, your RAS may
literally filter outopportunities for wealth,
aligned relationships, or evenvisibility.
SPEAKER_00 (10:18):
Yes.
So what that means is your braindoesn't just reflect your
reality, it curates it.
SPEAKER_02 (10:23):
Most certainly.
Oh my God, totally.
SPEAKER_00 (10:26):
So let's talk about the subconscious scripts that
drive 95% of money behavior.
So, like we were talking aboutearlier, according to Harvard
Business School, 95% offinancial decisions come from
the subconscious, not theconscious logic.
So that means, you know,Harvard's quoted as saying like
people with low self-worth oftenunconsciously repel money
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through their habits.
So your subconscious beliefsshape your budget, your pricing,
how much you allow yourself toearn or keep.
And it's really important foryou to be conscious of how your
subconscious could be runningthe show.
SPEAKER_02 (11:08):
Exactly.
And it and you know, with it,it's an it's interesting.
Like, it's not what you know,right?
It's what your subconsciousbelieves you deserve.
You might know, like, oh, I I Iknow I deserve that car, but if
your subconscious doesn'tbelieve you deserve that car,
you're not gonna get that car.
SPEAKER_00 (11:25):
Mm-hmm.
It's true.
So um let's just look at at thisa little deeper.
And in summation, we don't getwhat we want, we get what we
believe we deserve.
SPEAKER_02 (11:39):
Of course.
Like your subconscious doesn'tcare how big your dream is, it
cares how safe your body feelsreceiving it.
SPEAKER_00 (11:49):
Yes.
I think let's let's do somegameplay on this.
SPEAKER_02 (11:53):
Oh, I'm I'm all gamified.
I'm ready to go.
SPEAKER_00 (11:55):
Let's gamify it.
Okay, so let's play moneyrepeller bingo.
SPEAKER_02 (12:01):
I love bingo.
Let me get my little littlelittle scratch cards and
everything.
SPEAKER_00 (12:05):
Okay, so what I'm gonna give you is just a pad of
paper and um you can just markdown a one next to anything that
um applies to you.
So one point for each thing thatapplies to you.
If it doesn't apply to you,don't mark anything down.
So if it doesn't apply, it's azero.
You don't have to write down azero, just you know, mark.
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There's ten of them, so you canjust do a little, you know,
scratch mark for each one.
Okay.
Um, so here we go.
Empowered posse, play along withus.
Um, you're just giving yourselfone point for each that applies
to you, and at the end, we'lladd it up.
Um, if you're driving, use yourfingers.
Don't, don't, don't try to driveand write.
SPEAKER_02 (12:46):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (12:48):
Okay.
Um, so number one, you getanxious checking your bank
account.
SPEAKER_02 (12:53):
Ooh, okay, okay.
Let me think about that one.
Next one.
SPEAKER_00 (12:58):
You over-deliver, but under charge.
SPEAKER_02 (13:02):
Guilty.
Okay, what else?
SPEAKER_00 (13:04):
Okay, keep your answers to yourself.
We're gonna add we're gonna addit up at the end.
Okay.
You say you want abundance, butfeel guilty receiving.
Okay.
You procrastinate launching youroffer.
SPEAKER_02 (13:19):
Crickets.
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (13:23):
You fear being judged if you make more money
than your family.
SPEAKER_02 (13:27):
Uh, I don't have that one at all, but yeah,
that's good.
I I know I'm not supposed totake it.
SPEAKER_00 (13:32):
Can you just silencio?
SPEAKER_02 (13:33):
Uh, I'm trying to.
These are good questions,though.
SPEAKER_00 (13:36):
Okay, so just write it down.
SPEAKER_02 (13:38):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (13:38):
You're just tracking this, okay?
Got it.
Let everyone else have anexperience too.
SPEAKER_02 (13:43):
I'll do my best.
My mouth wants to run.
SPEAKER_00 (13:44):
The sidebar.
Okay.
I feel fully safe.
Here's a statement.
So this is you saying, I feelfully safe being wealthy in
front of my friends and family.
SPEAKER_02 (13:57):
I'll be quiet.
Next.
SPEAKER_00 (13:59):
I regularly track and celebrate my money, even
small wins.
SPEAKER_02 (14:05):
I won't say nothing, but I do that.
Sorry.
I know, I'm not supposed to sayanything.
SPEAKER_00 (14:10):
Look at me.
Knock it off.
Well, I'm gonna play the game,so you're you can play it
without your mouth.
SPEAKER_02 (14:18):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (14:19):
Use your fingers to write down the one.
Are you gonna be able to do thisat the end?
SPEAKER_01 (14:24):
Yes.
SPEAKER_00 (14:24):
Okay, so keep up.
Okay, I believe I can do good inthe world and be financially
thriving.
I ask for what I'm worth withoutshrinking.
I have clear vision for what Ido with more money.
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Okay, so that's 10.
If you said yes to three ormore, you don't have to tell me
which ones they are, but did yousay yes to three or more?
SPEAKER_02 (14:55):
Um, a little bit more than three or more, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (14:59):
Well, congratulations.
In Powered Posse, did you saymore to uh yes to three or more?
If you did, congratulations.
Because what this means, this isexciting.
You've just spotted yourrepeller pattern.
And that's the first step toresetting it and you know to
stop using bear spray on money.
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Yeah, that's quick.
No repeller needed.
So did any of them give you likean aha before we move on?
SPEAKER_02 (15:26):
It's the third one that got me.
SPEAKER_00 (15:27):
You say yes, you you see yes, you want, you say you
want abundance, but feel guiltyreceiving it.
SPEAKER_02 (15:34):
Um, and that's something that I I I know that
uh that I have.
SPEAKER_00 (15:39):
Uh huh.
SPEAKER_02 (15:40):
So I'm taking active measures.
So I have a money mantra, andthe money mantra says, uh, I'm a
magnet for money.
Money loves me and I love money.
Money is always looking for me,and I allow money to find me.
So what it does is it allows meto feel less guilty when I
actually receive it.
More worthy.
I feel more worthy.
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I feel like, oh, I I called thisin instead of like, oh my God,
why am I getting all this money?
SPEAKER_00 (16:04):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (16:05):
What about you?
SPEAKER_00 (16:06):
Um the funny one is that um I think feel fully safe
being wealthy in front offriends and family is that like
every next level, next versionof me, you know, becomes more
successful, more wealthy, morein whatever way you measure
success.
And the way that I measuresuccess, and sometimes I find
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that if you don't see people fora long time, you can shrink, you
know, you can start kind ofshrinking yourself to fit what
they think you are, right?
And it's subconscious, it's nota conscious thing that I'm
doing.
I'm not like going in therelike, oh, I gotta act small.
No, I'm not doing that, but Inotice the behavior is being run
by a subconscious programming.
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So that would be one that Ithink is pretty big for me.
And yeah.
So it's important to just lookat any of the things that you
put a one next to and um justrecognize that like this isn't
often something that you aredoing on purpose.
It it is something that you knowhas been wired in and that
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you're just going to rewire.
So like take your power backfrom it.
It's not to feel bad.
If you, if you're like, oh shit,I have 10, that's okay too.
Like it doesn't matter whereveryou are, you can heal this.
SPEAKER_02 (17:23):
At any age, you can reprogram your whole mind just
with thoughts, habits, andaction.
So yeah, if you feel like any ofthese are or multiples are are
heavy on you, you're in luckbecause you can change it.
SPEAKER_00 (17:35):
Totally.
And we're gonna talk next aboutthe top five hidden ways people
repel money.
SPEAKER_02 (17:40):
Oh, I love this one.
Let's let's do this.
SPEAKER_00 (17:42):
Okay, so number one would be like we've talked about
energetic misalignment.
So you could be saying all theaffirmations or mantra like
Mike, you know, shared, butwhile holding fear in your body,
because and here's the thing youcan't affirm abundance from a
frequency of lack.
SPEAKER_02 (17:58):
Yeah, it's two different channels.
Um uh number two isself-sabotage, uh, disguised as
perfectionism, likeprocrastination, is often rooted
in fear of being seen orfailing.
Right.
Right.
So when that happens, we startto repel up uh options that
bring in money.
SPEAKER_00 (18:16):
Right.
Number three is unconsciousloyalty to broke lineages.
So if you have guilt aboutsurpassing parents, friends, or
partners, or just who maybe yougrew up with, or you know, like
you know, like I was saying, ifyou grew up in like a small
town, or you know, there'sportions of your family that
didn't have money, you know,that unconscious loyalty can be
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what you are blocking yourwealth.
And oftentimes, you know, that'sthat's the block, is that you're
you're doing it subconsciouslywithout realizing that you're
trying to stay connected towhere you came from.
SPEAKER_02 (18:54):
Yeah, and this is a really, really powerful one for
a lot of our clients.
SPEAKER_00 (18:57):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (18:58):
Um, so number four is nervous system dysregulation.
Let it be known that fight orflight mode sabotages consistent
effort, presence, or boldaction, right?
So it's gonna keep you operatingsmall.
Uh, there's a Stanford studythat states that regulated
nervous systems perform 30%better on cognitive and
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strategic tasks.
SPEAKER_00 (19:21):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (19:21):
So get yourself grounded regularly.
SPEAKER_00 (19:23):
Yeah, and and regulated.
So number five is lack ofreceptivity.
And this is what, you know, isconstantly um called the yin
wound.
So if you're always in doingmode, then you can't be in
receiving mode.
So it's especially common inhigh achieving women, and it is
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very common in providers.
So providers often have like aburnout cycle.
Yeah.
Um, but women especially aremeant to be in receptivity, are
meant to be in more flow.
But if you're always in doingmode and never getting quiet and
being open to receptivity, thenyou're going to tend to lean
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more masculine and you willreceive less.
You'll receive less love,attention.
It comes in so many differentforms.
And if this is hitting you overthe head, like, oh shit, like
that I'm being called out, likeum, I feel so attacked.
Uh if you're feeling that way,just know that there is a quick
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switch for this, and we're gonnatalk next about like what to do
instead.
So insummation, you're notafraid of money, you're afraid
of who you'll have to become tohold it.
SPEAKER_02 (20:44):
Oh, that is so true.
That is mostly true.
SPEAKER_00 (20:48):
This is where people have like a very strong wound
around um fear of success.
Yeah, you know.
SPEAKER_02 (20:57):
Well, let's talk about what to do instead, right?
Let's talk about the wealthrewiring blueprint, right?
So there's actionable fixes thatyou can take in order to make
this happen.
Uh there's somatic rewiring, uh,which is uh the practice of
receiving through breath work,stillness, and pleasure.
SPEAKER_00 (21:16):
Yes.
There's nervous system training.
So, you know, some people reallyget a lot of benefits from cold
exposure, um, breath holds, sowhere you're, you know, holding
your breath and doing deepbreathing exercises, um, vagus
nerve resets.
SPEAKER_02 (21:33):
Oh, yeah, the vagus nerve is is most certainly
something you want to focus onon the yeah, and we talk about
it in this season.
Uh, then there's the shadowwork.
A lot of people don't want to dothe shadow work, but there is so
much wealth uh in the shadows.
So you got to address the guilt,uh, the lineage ties, and any
type of uh worthiness storiesthat you're holding on to.
SPEAKER_00 (21:54):
Yeah, which is what you're doing with like rewiring
the mantra.
Correct.
You know, that worthiness umwound is crazy.
Um, the other thing is likeenergetic hygiene.
So we have like cord cutting,you know, um, guided
meditations.
We work with cord cutting a lotin our coaching practice, um,
boundary setting, which we'vedone two podcasts about because
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it's just so massive.
Um, and then frequency tuning.
So, for example, you know,listening to binary beats that
have 528 hertz, or music that iscoded with frequency tuning, or
using, you know, we talk aboutlike the Healy device.
Um, there's all kinds ofdifferent frequency medicine you
can get out there from as simpleas putting on some noise
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canceling headphones and somemusic, or you know, using
something that's more dialedinto scanning your bioenergetic
field.
SPEAKER_02 (22:50):
Uh also sound bowls, uh tuning forks.
SPEAKER_00 (22:53):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (22:54):
Um, all that stuff starts to come into play.
Uh, and I would highly recommendum uh investing in some of those
things because it's stuff, it'sstuff that you can enjoy at home
and and you know consistency iswhere this stuff comes through.
SPEAKER_00 (23:08):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (23:08):
Uh then there's the uh practical strategy, right?
You have to raise your prices,you gotta charge your worth, you
gotta track your money daily,right?
Your money is your best friend.
SPEAKER_00 (23:19):
Yes, and I always talk about like doing a money
minute, and all of us have aminute a day that we could spend
on looking at our money.
Um, and you know, if you look atyour money and it takes you less
than a minute, then you can usethe other 30 seconds to um
manifest, you know, to reallylike, you know, get into the
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embodiment.
And we talk a lot about um uhreality selection, you know,
select the reality you want tosee in your bank account.
Like if you look at it andyou're like, oh, I've only got
you know$50, you know, you know,close your eyes and see the
zeros and feel what it wouldfeel like, you know.
Three extra zeros there, youknow, five extra zeros, maybe
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seven.
Um that's cool.
Like, right?
And so, like, get yourself intoum a practice.
Mike and I also do money Mondayswhere we talk together about
money um because it just createsa habit of setting up our week
to both call in the money butalso to be in gratitude for the
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money that we have.
And yeah, so the other thing Iwould suggest is supportive
suggestion.
So you want to align yourselfwith people who have healthy
money scripts because proximityis power.
And we always talk about like,you know, working with different
people who have figured it out,you know, work with somebody
who's like a master at thething.
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So I highly recommend you getin, you know, proximity with a
coach or a group or affiliationthat have figured out the money
game.
SPEAKER_01 (24:56):
Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (24:57):
And, you know, that know how to rewire and they're
using tools like we discussed,or they also are using um, you
know, some type of of NLP orlike, you know, there's a stuff,
a lot of stuff that we use toget people to rewire.
Um because energeticmisalignment is the number one
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reason your strategies aren'tsticking.
SPEAKER_02 (25:22):
Correct.
SPEAKER_00 (25:23):
So well, yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (25:25):
I mean, you don't need another marketing course,
right?
You need to stop hiding yourlight because of your money
wound.
Yes, right?
So you remove the wound and thatmoney will flow.
It will it'll it will moneyloves to be found.
SPEAKER_00 (25:40):
Money loves to be found and um is will be a magnet
to you if you uh you know alignyourself with it.
Correct.
Yeah, the moment I learnedproximity is power, like things
really change because Idistanced myself from those that
were constantly in a state oflack and limitation, and I
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purposely chose to be aroundpeople who they, you know, I was
like the dumbest one at thetable.
You know, it's like let me learneverything and sponge this, and
then like, you know, your tableschange as you evolve, your
tables change, and like keeplooking for the tables that you
can sit at where you can learnthe most from, because you'll
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constantly be in a state ofimprovement.
SPEAKER_02 (26:27):
Yeah, the the company you keep really acts as
a barometer of the the thewealth trajectory that you're
going through, right?
So if you are hanging out withpeople who are consistently
managing their money, makingmoney, excited about receiving
money, going on these big dealsand and um great vacations
(26:48):
because they have mastered theart of of receiving money, those
are the people you want to hangout with.
Yeah.
If you're hanging out withpeople who are coupon cutting
and you know, um, you know,doomsday planning, that's the
wrong frequency for abundance.
SPEAKER_00 (27:05):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (27:05):
That's scarcity.
SPEAKER_00 (27:06):
Right.
So if you felt seen in thisepisode and you're ready to stop
repelling the very wealth youdesire, book a session with
either Mike and I um or togetherif you are a couple.
I really recommend that you workwith, if you're married, is to
work on this together.
And Mike and I do sessions withcouples where we help you
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harmonize.
And if wealth is your goal,that's easy.
If wealth is the only thing youhaven't figured out in your
relationship, like that's kindof the easiest, you know.
Um, it's usually like the harderthings are like communication
breakdowns and you know, lack oftrust or sometimes infidelity,
whatever the thing is, thosethings are are harder, you know,
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to heal quickly.
But um, you want to saysomething?
SPEAKER_02 (27:55):
Yeah, I I think that um the power behind the group
settings when it's you know,when we work with both the
husband and wife, is thatoftentimes it only takes one of
the couples, one of the partnerswho have any type of money wound
to sully both of the partners'ability to make money.
SPEAKER_00 (28:16):
Yeah, because of the proximity.
SPEAKER_02 (28:18):
Exactly.
SPEAKER_00 (28:18):
And because you end up sharing each other's energy,
and if you aren't aware ofenergy, energetic misalignment,
you might be dipping yourvibration constantly to try to
just find sinking harmony.
SPEAKER_02 (28:33):
That exactly.
And then also um, you know, oneone member of the couple can be
exhibiting um uh actions orwords or using things that are
going to um uh I don't know, umcreate wounds in the other
person.
So you have the opportunity tocreate wealth or repel wealth
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based on just your relationshipsalone.
So if you're in that that cuspof like, okay, we want to
actually start calling in moremoney, I would highly recommend
getting that that group coachingbecause, you know, the couple
coaching, because then you canhave the opportunity to look at
all the wounds together.
SPEAKER_00 (29:12):
Yep.
And for our single friends, wedo have group coaching offers.
Just use the links in our shownotes to join us.
Um, most things requireapplication, but um, some of our
group sessions you can anyone iswelcome.
And what we'll do is we'll helpyou identify and neutralize the
exact subconscious blocks thatare holding your abundance
(29:35):
hostage.
Yeah.
So you'll stop repelling wealth.
You're you'll start beingaligned with it, you'll start
feeling the frequency shift.
And it's really, you know, Ioften say magic, and then like
people are like, it's not magic,it's science.
Okay, but I feel like it's alittle bit of both.
There are some things that areare indescribable that happen
(29:58):
once you start changing yourvery Vibration, when you start
operating from joy and operatingfrom gratitude, and um it feels
magical because it happens soquickly.
Things just change correctquickly.
And so, you know, years oftherapy, for example, which you
know can be supportive forpeople to um process, it's very
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different being in groupcoaching sessions or private
sessions where you're not justmenting, you're looking for the
source, and we are helping youidentify the source and helping
you squash the source.
SPEAKER_02 (30:36):
Yeah, it's it's crazy.
Every time I've done groupcoaching, uh, either
participated or uh or you know,was a practitioner of it.
Um, one thing that I alwaysrealized is that it is so easy
to see patterns in someone elsethan it is to see patterns in
yourself.
So when you when you in thosegroup coachings, you see all
(30:57):
these patterns, right?
And then all of a sudden youstart thinking like, wait, I do
that and I do that and I dothat, and you realize like, wait
a minute, I am not broken.
I just need to get reprogrammed,right?
Right.
I'm not behind, you're notbroken.
You just you're just out ofresonance with your next
financial timeline.
And that's something that we canfix together, most certainly.
SPEAKER_00 (31:19):
Yes.
And I would just say in thesegroup sessions, what's great is
that if you have a coach that isholding the vibration of
whatever the intention is, ifit's like, you know, a wealth
reset or something, the um andeveryone joins with that
intention that it, you know,like the tide raises all boats,
(31:44):
right?
It's like like it, you basicallyall rise together and your the
proximity, especially in likethe groups that I I host, it's
like the proximity becomes likea sisterhood of like no one gets
left behind.
We all rise together withoutjudgment, without you know,
bias, like everyone risestogether because that's the
(32:07):
mission.
And brotherhood in you know,terms of what you're doing, or
like with a couple, it's like,no, we're going to unify, we're
gonna harmonize, we're going todo it together.
And it's not an option to be ondifferent teams, like different
frequencies.
We are like copiloting here.
So um, yeah, coaches needcoaches too.
The Mike and I need coaches,like we we constantly are
(32:30):
getting coached because somebodyelse, you know, can see your
blind spots.
And so it's amazing to getsomeone to help you rewire
something that you might notsee.
Yeah.
You know, a behavior, a languagepattern.
Like it's easy to see itexternally.
SPEAKER_02 (32:48):
Yes, that is correct.
Yeah, the only way you can seeyourself is when you actually
look in a mirror, and that'swhat a coach does.
A coach holds up that mirror andand allows you to have uh
different perspectives that youcan use to see where you are
actually at and how you can moveforward.
SPEAKER_01 (33:02):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (33:03):
Um in your own body, right?
You don't have to get a brandnew body, you don't think you do
anything, you just have to havedifferent actions and different
thoughts.
SPEAKER_00 (33:11):
Right, right.
SPEAKER_02 (33:11):
I was thinking about that game that we had just
played and the the very lastone, right?
I have a clear vision for what Iwould do with more money.
And uh when you said that, anduh I instantly realized, oh my
god, that is a huge patternbecause what I'm envisioning is
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giving it away.
unknown (33:33):
Right?
SPEAKER_02 (33:34):
I was envisioning all the time.
SPEAKER_00 (33:35):
Because your nervous system doesn't feel like it's
safe.
SPEAKER_02 (33:37):
Yeah, I was like, oh, I can help this person, I
can help this person, I can helpthis person.
And at no point did I say, waita minute, I'm gonna help myself.
So um I feel like I feel likeI'm enough to help myself.
SPEAKER_00 (33:50):
Yeah, it goes back to that that um exact thing that
you were talking about that youwere feeling is like it goes
back to that worthiness, like,oh, I'm not worthy of this.
Here, let me, it's like hotpotato.
Like, you know, you ever playthat game when you're little?
You're like, oh, this is mine,like get it out of here.
SPEAKER_02 (34:07):
Exactly.
It's like, you know, burn yourseal.
Someone gives me, you know, youknow, if I win, say, you know, a
couple million dollars, I can Ican literally see all of my
family live members living inbeautiful houses.
And for some reason I picturemyself living in a van down by
the river.
Right?
It's like, wait a minute.
I gotta, I gotta, I gotta lookat that self-worth wound and and
(34:29):
handle it, you know, becauseliving in the van by the river
sucks.
SPEAKER_00 (34:32):
Well, you need to up that to like a couple hundred
million if you're gonna buy yourfamily's houses.
SPEAKER_02 (34:38):
Well, maybe I'll buy them all.
Maybe I'll buy them all vans bythe river.
SPEAKER_00 (34:43):
You guys can have a caravan.
Count me out.
No.
Bye.
SPEAKER_02 (34:49):
Actually, you know what?
A travel van by the river wouldbe kind of fun.
Not not for permanent living,but you know, for a little
vacation.
SPEAKER_00 (34:56):
That's not what you said.
So it's yours, you're changingthe hypotheticals.
So this is your favorite thingyou should do.
SPEAKER_02 (35:00):
I'm working through the hypotheticals, right?
If I'm if I'm trying to picturemyself in a van by the river,
it's not gonna be, you know, uha shady van that's all
dilapidated like Uncle Rico's,right?
SPEAKER_00 (35:12):
I'm talking about Uncle Rico.
SPEAKER_02 (35:15):
I'm talking about, you know, a two-story travel van
with, you know, all kinds ofamidities and and then I can
pick what river I want to be at.
SPEAKER_00 (35:24):
You know what I'm saying?
Still no.
SPEAKER_02 (35:25):
Hey, I'm working on it.
I love you.
SPEAKER_00 (35:26):
I love you, but still no.
SPEAKER_02 (35:28):
Working up, not down.
SPEAKER_00 (35:29):
Listen, you can you can come back and visit me in
wherever I live, which will bebeautiful.
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (35:37):
Yeah, but so you love me so much that you will
join me at a van down by theriver.
SPEAKER_00 (35:42):
For a night or two.
Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.
Nope.
I'm just telling you right now.
No, maybe a previous version ofme, yes, but no, not right now.
That's that is not in alignmentwith this version of me.
SPEAKER_02 (35:55):
What was your what was your second on the game?
SPEAKER_00 (35:57):
Okay.
Um, you know, really call myselfout here.
Um, you procrastinate launchingyour offer.
SPEAKER_02 (36:04):
I knew you were gonna say that.
I looked at it, I was like,she's gonna say this offer
because you're sitting on like,you know, 10, 15 offers right
now.
SPEAKER_00 (36:14):
Boy.
Called out, called out.
Um, yeah, just like I create alot of content and a lot of
offers.
And there are times where Ihesitate.
You can call it procrastinationtoo.
Um, and there are certain offersthat I created like 10 years ago
and didn't launch for variousreasons, but most of them I
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think tied to um a wealth wound.
So working through that is uhparamount.
SPEAKER_02 (36:45):
It is paramount.
And you know, sometimes itstings when we realize where
some of these wounds are.
Um, but it's not a sting thatyou want to avoid, right?
It's a sting that you want toactually experience.
Because the minute that youactually look at your wounds and
be like, oh.
Like, how easy would it be nowthat you know the whole
procrastination wound, right?
(37:07):
Know your wound, come up with aplan, kill your wound, let that
money come in.
SPEAKER_00 (37:12):
Or you could just keep procrastinating and then
you'll never know how much moneyyou could make from that offer
because it never goes out intothe world.
And that's where you end upbeing, you know, in regret land
later in life.
And nobody wants to be inregretland, right?
SPEAKER_02 (37:30):
Yeah, I I wonder, I might actually have a
procrastination course that I'vebeen procrastinating.
SPEAKER_00 (37:39):
Your offer is how not to procrastinate.
Put that one out first.
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (37:46):
Can I?
Well, maybe tomorrow.
SPEAKER_00 (37:49):
Well, maybe tomorrow.
That's like a disease.
Like, I'll start on Monday,right?
Yeah, I think that's Tuesday.
SPEAKER_02 (37:56):
You're like, oh, I got plenty of time.
SPEAKER_00 (38:00):
Oh, some more cake.
SPEAKER_02 (38:03):
I need this cake.
SPEAKER_00 (38:05):
Sending you the highest vibrations.
SPEAKER_02 (38:07):
You are health.
SPEAKER_00 (38:08):
You are love.
And then they're reallyrepelling the opportunity that
you have to make any money.
SPEAKER_02 (38:22):
Yeah.
And then, and then you scrollonline and you see someone else
someone else's procrastinationcourse, you're like, ah, yes.
This one sucks.
I should have done my own.
SPEAKER_00 (38:31):
Well, the thing is, is that like I do find that
people, especially some of thepeople that I coach that are
course creators or contentcreators, and they'll be like,
oh, well, that's already beendone.
And it was like, everything'salready been done.
Everything's already done.
You know, it's like wait, ifwe're gonna only do what's not
been done, like that, that'sgonna be, you know, a small
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fraction of things.
Nobody can do it like you, isthe point.
That's gonna be, you know, sowhat you're just gonna be an
inventor?
Like, you know, there's not alot of inventors.
There isn't.
But there's plenty of people whoare maybe saying the same thing,
but saying it in a unique way.
And there's people out therethat need that message from that
(39:13):
person delivering that message.
SPEAKER_02 (39:15):
Correct, correct.
Every ear is tuned for a aparticular voice or frequency.
SPEAKER_00 (39:20):
Yep.
SPEAKER_02 (39:20):
You might be that frequency, that voice that will
that will unlock someone else'smagic.
SPEAKER_00 (39:25):
Yeah.
And the beautiful thing aboutshowing up and actually giving
your offer is that you don'treally know what's gonna happen.
But I can guarantee that if youdon't put it out there,
nothing's gonna happen.
SPEAKER_01 (39:42):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (39:43):
Other than you're going to feel betrayed by
yourself because you will havebroken promises and you will
have let yourself down and youwill have kept yourself stuck.
So um by your choices, by yourinaction.
SPEAKER_02 (39:57):
I'd go so far as to say that you have a certain
bandwidth, right?
That you can receiveinformation, also known as
inspiration, right?
So all these great ideas.
And every time you execute onone of those, your bandwidth
expands.
Yes.
But the universe is like, oh,this guy is producing.
Let's get all these ideas outinto the world through him.
And every time that youprocrastinate or you're like,
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no, I'm not gonna put this outthere, that bandwidth shrinks
because the universe is like,well, I'm not gonna give this
guy any insight or or uh, youknow, inspiration because he's
just gonna sit on it.
SPEAKER_00 (40:30):
He's yeah, he's gonna be inactive and he's gonna
be thinking like, oh, I'm stuck,I'm stuck, I'm stuck.
SPEAKER_02 (40:36):
He's actually doing his personality.
SPEAKER_00 (40:37):
With all these great ideas and thinking like, well, I
just need somebody else toexecute the ideas.
And it's like the person who hasthe idea also needs to be part
of the person who puts it intoaction.
Even hiring someone else is anaction.
Even, you know, like just havingthe idea.
Ideas, what I've learned in asbeing an entrepreneur, ideas are
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actually easy.
It's the execution of ideas thatis more challenging because it
requires action.
Because ideas drop in all thetime.
You know, I mean, we'reconstantly being inspired by
whatever we're watching,wherever we go.
You know, sometimes we getquiet, and like you said, you
know, inspiration comes throughus from, you know, from the
(41:19):
universe, um, or whatever youbelieve in.
And like, yeah, that's crazy tothink that it could um, you
know, your inspiration can getsmaller and smaller by
inactivity.
SPEAKER_02 (41:33):
What was that quote that we got from uh uh Michael
Jackson that uh when he wouldget songs, you know, he would go
to sleep and he would wake upwith songs in his mind, and
right then and there he would goto the studio and record it
because he's like I have to getit on, I have to get it on wax
before Prince gets it.
Yeah, right?
Because Prince was also apowerhouse, right?
His bandwidth was massive.
SPEAKER_01 (41:53):
Yeah, right.
SPEAKER_02 (41:54):
So the the I the the the song idea is like, oh, do I
go through Michael Jackson?
Do I go through Prince?
Do I go through Freddie Mercury?
Like, there's all these bigplayers out there, and they're
players because they take thatinspiration and they make it.
SPEAKER_00 (42:08):
Yeah, they do something with it, right?
Exactly.
They make it manifest, theyembody it.
SPEAKER_02 (42:12):
Yeah, yep.
So, you know, I know that youyou have a garage full of dope
ass offers.
So I'm looking forward to seeingthose offers based off of this
conversation, right?
SPEAKER_00 (42:24):
Okay, DBT.
Yeah, almost as if every time they talk about
money, they spray themselveswith money repellent.
It's like and then every word,action, and thought that
emanates from them is to repelmoney.
SPEAKER_00 (00:11):
Mm-hmm.
Like bear spray.
SPEAKER_02 (00:12):
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
So much so that if they getclose to me, the money in my
pocket disappears.
What the hell?
You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_00 (00:20):
It's like maybe because it's like, oh, you're
next to that.
SPEAKER_02 (00:24):
Go ahead, let's get out of here.
SPEAKER_00 (00:27):
Welcome to the Empowerment Couple Podcast for
the lovers, leaders, and legacybuilders ready to rise.
We're Zuri and Michael Starr,your favorite empowerment
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SPEAKER_02 (00:40):
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SPEAKER_00 (00:48):
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Plus, this season we're bringingon powerful guests, playing
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One, two, three.
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SPEAKER_00 (01:48):
Yes.
So uh proximity is power, baby.
SPEAKER_02 (01:52):
And sometimes it can also weakness, too.
SPEAKER_00 (01:54):
It can also do like pull away.
SPEAKER_02 (01:57):
Beware of the company you keep.
SPEAKER_00 (01:59):
It can also be a energy leak.
SPEAKER_02 (02:04):
That is correct.
SPEAKER_00 (02:05):
It can also be an energy leak.
We're gonna be talking aboutwealth expansion and why you're
repelling money withoutrealizing it and what to do
instead.
Because if this is you andyou're like, oh, I clicked on
this episode because this is some, I want you to know you're
(02:26):
not broken, but your nervoussystem may be repelling the very
abundance you've been trying tomanifest.
So let's talk about the hiddenways you're blocking money and
what to do instead.
SPEAKER_02 (02:38):
Just know that you, like what you said, Zuri, you
are not cursed, you're notunworthy or unlucky.
You're just running subconsciouspatterns that contradict the
wealth that you say you want.
So let's get into it uh andlet's talk about the
confrontation, right?
How you're actually repellingmoney.
Right?
(02:58):
So most people repel moneyunconsciously.
SPEAKER_01 (03:02):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (03:02):
Right?
Self-sabotage doesn't look likesabotage, it looks like
avoidance or undercharging foryour services.
Uh, it might be procrastination,uh poor energetic hygiene, you
know, how you talk aboutyourself.
Uh your nervous system doesn'tattract what you want, it
attracts what it feels safeholding.
SPEAKER_00 (03:23):
Yeah, and in researching all of this to help
clients, we have found thatthere's a lot of science about
this.
There's so much science aboutum, you know, how you're
subconsciously repelling money,you know, wealth, you know,
comfort, um, freedom.
SPEAKER_02 (03:41):
Well, I wouldn't mind getting into a little
science break, right?
Let's let's talk about why youcan want wealth and still block
it at the same time.
SPEAKER_01 (03:48):
Let's do it.
SPEAKER_02 (03:49):
So let's break down the neuroscience behind why you
might be repelling money withouteven knowing it.
SPEAKER_00 (03:54):
Yeah, and we call it a lot of times frequency
mismatch, but what does thatactually mean in scientific
terms?
So, to do that, let's talk aboutbrainwave incoherence and money
confusion.
Yes, in science terms, frequencymismatch refers to misaligned
brainwave patterns whendifferent areas of your brain
(04:15):
aren't communicatingeffectively.
These mismatches, like betweengamma and beta frequencies, can
cause the brain to losecoherence, making it harder to
send or receive clear internalsignals.
In a 2014 study by SanCristobal, scientists found that
communication between brainregions weakened when their
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rhythms were out of sync.
So if you're holding scarcity inyour subconscious while trying
to manifest abundance, yourbrain is literally crosswired.
So when we're stressed or stuckin overthinking, which is high
beta, we block access to alphaand theta states associated with
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creativity, openness, andenergetic receiving.
SPEAKER_02 (05:06):
Yeah.
Your brain is a machine, right?
So you can't attract overflowwhen your nervous system is shut
down.
SPEAKER_00 (05:13):
Yeah.
And I would just say your brainis an organ.
SPEAKER_02 (05:16):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (05:16):
And it has certain functions.
And um, there are things that itliterally can't do.
Like it, it isn't um, it can berewired to operate differently,
but it's it's an organ that'swired for a specific purpose.
Yeah.
So let's talk maybe a little bitabout the hidden power of
subconscious programming.
SPEAKER_02 (05:37):
Perfect.
Yeah.
Subconscious programming refersto beliefs and emotional
patterns we inherit, especiallyaround money, safety, and worth.
These aren't just mental habits,they're neural patterns that
live below awareness andinfluence 95% of decisions,
according to Harvard researcherGerald Zaltman.
SPEAKER_01 (05:57):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (05:58):
Uh, another um researcher, uh Brad Klotz, uh I
think he's a PhD, um, in 2025,uh, did a paper from Creighton
University, which explains thatmoney scripts, deep beliefs from
childhood or culture, drivefinancial behavior more than
budgeting apps ever could.
SPEAKER_00 (06:18):
So these money scripts are like your childhood
kind of programming.
Yep, that would be another wayto say it.
Well, that means that your moneyscript might be running the
show, even when you think you'recalling the shots.
So there's an a head app umstudy that further showed that
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under stress, and that's fromthis year, by the way, um, that
further showed under stress, thebrain's amygdala and limbic
systems overpower the prefrontalcortex, causing reactive money
moves like impulse spending,hoarding, ignoring your
finances, and fear-basedsavings.
SPEAKER_02 (06:59):
Of course.
I mean, when you're stressed,your brain flips the switch from
rational to reactive.
And that's when abundance getsblocked.
SPEAKER_00 (07:08):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (07:09):
And a 2024 Frontier study using FNIRS, which is a
neuroimaging device, it foundthat emotional valuation
overrides logic in financialdecisions, especially when
someone has low financial safetyor deep-rooted scarcity wiring.
Yikes.
SPEAKER_00 (07:29):
So when this is when your gut says no, but your head
says yes, that's yoursubconscious.
And it's not always aligned withabundance.
SPEAKER_02 (07:39):
Yeah, unfortunately.
So let's do a little recap.
What this means for your moneyblocks, right?
So if you're stuck in survivalmode trying to attract overflow,
your brain is on two differentchannels.
That is frequency mismatch.
SPEAKER_00 (07:54):
Yes.
And if your subconscious learnedthat money equals stress,
betrayal, or danger, then tryingto manifest it might feel like
self-sabotage, but it's actuallyself-protection.
SPEAKER_02 (08:07):
Yeah.
Well, until your subconsciousfeels safe with wealth, your
nervous system will keep pushingit away.
SPEAKER_00 (08:14):
And that's why we don't just do mindset, we do
neuroalignment.
It's not about what you want,it's about what your body
believes is safe.
To truly shift wealth reality,you have to address both your
brain waves and your body'swiring and how your nervous
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system interprets success andreceiving.
Totally.
So further understanding thisrequires us looking at the
polyvagal theory.
Oh, yeah.
So why success can feel unsafe.
The polyvagal theory teaches usthat the nervous system
constantly scans for cues ofsafety or danger.
(08:56):
But this is even true aroundmoney.
So if your body has learned thatmoney means pressure or wealth
equals abandonment, or it's notsafe to be seen, all you know,
all of the things that um becomeunsafe, you know, the the
feeling of out of the comfortzone.
Yeah, out of the comfort, butalso like there's you know,
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extreme fear connected to it.
Your system might just code moresuccess or more wealth, more
abundance as less safety.
SPEAKER_02 (09:25):
Yeah, and and here's the crazy thing even when money
is available, your body may notfeel safe enough to receive it.
Right.
So this is why nervous systemregulation, breath work,
somatics, embodiment is not justit's not just trendy, right?
It's critical for expanding yourwealth container.
SPEAKER_00 (09:44):
Yes, I so agree.
SPEAKER_02 (09:47):
So uh there's a um thing called the RAS filter,
which you can use to create whatyou believe, right?
The reticular activating system,RAS, in your brainstem acts like
a filter.
It lets in info that matchesyour beliefs and delete and
deletes what it doesn't, right?
So it it's constantly working.
(10:08):
So if you believe money isdangerous, your RAS may
literally filter outopportunities for wealth,
aligned relationships, or evenvisibility.
SPEAKER_00 (10:18):
Yes.
So what that means is your braindoesn't just reflect your
reality, it curates it.
SPEAKER_02 (10:23):
Most certainly.
Oh my God, totally.
SPEAKER_00 (10:26):
So let's talk about the subconscious scripts that
drive 95% of money behavior.
So, like we were talking aboutearlier, according to Harvard
Business School, 95% offinancial decisions come from
the subconscious, not theconscious logic.
So that means, you know,Harvard's quoted as saying like
people with low self-worth oftenunconsciously repel money
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through their habits.
So your subconscious beliefsshape your budget, your pricing,
how much you allow yourself toearn or keep.
And it's really important foryou to be conscious of how your
subconscious could be runningthe show.
SPEAKER_02 (11:08):
Exactly.
And it and you know, with it,it's an it's interesting.
Like, it's not what you know,right?
It's what your subconsciousbelieves you deserve.
You might know, like, oh, I I Iknow I deserve that car, but if
your subconscious doesn'tbelieve you deserve that car,
you're not gonna get that car.
SPEAKER_00 (11:25):
Mm-hmm.
It's true.
So um let's just look at at thisa little deeper.
And in summation, we don't getwhat we want, we get what we
believe we deserve.
SPEAKER_02 (11:39):
Of course.
Like your subconscious doesn'tcare how big your dream is, it
cares how safe your body feelsreceiving it.
SPEAKER_00 (11:49):
Yes.
I think let's let's do somegameplay on this.
SPEAKER_02 (11:53):
Oh, I'm I'm all gamified.
I'm ready to go.
SPEAKER_00 (11:55):
Let's gamify it.
Okay, so let's play moneyrepeller bingo.
SPEAKER_02 (12:01):
I love bingo.
Let me get my little littlelittle scratch cards and
everything.
SPEAKER_00 (12:05):
Okay, so what I'm gonna give you is just a pad of
paper and um you can just markdown a one next to anything that
um applies to you.
So one point for each thing thatapplies to you.
If it doesn't apply to you,don't mark anything down.
So if it doesn't apply, it's azero.
You don't have to write down azero, just you know, mark.
(12:25):
There's ten of them, so you canjust do a little, you know,
scratch mark for each one.
Okay.
Um, so here we go.
Empowered posse, play along withus.
Um, you're just giving yourselfone point for each that applies
to you, and at the end, we'lladd it up.
Um, if you're driving, use yourfingers.
Don't, don't, don't try to driveand write.
SPEAKER_02 (12:46):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (12:48):
Okay.
Um, so number one, you getanxious checking your bank
account.
SPEAKER_02 (12:53):
Ooh, okay, okay.
Let me think about that one.
Next one.
SPEAKER_00 (12:58):
You over-deliver, but under charge.
SPEAKER_02 (13:02):
Guilty.
Okay, what else?
SPEAKER_00 (13:04):
Okay, keep your answers to yourself.
We're gonna add we're gonna addit up at the end.
Okay.
You say you want abundance, butfeel guilty receiving.
Okay.
You procrastinate launching youroffer.
SPEAKER_02 (13:19):
Crickets.
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (13:23):
You fear being judged if you make more money
than your family.
SPEAKER_02 (13:27):
Uh, I don't have that one at all, but yeah,
that's good.
I I know I'm not supposed totake it.
SPEAKER_00 (13:32):
Can you just silencio?
SPEAKER_02 (13:33):
Uh, I'm trying to.
These are good questions,though.
SPEAKER_00 (13:36):
Okay, so just write it down.
SPEAKER_02 (13:38):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (13:38):
You're just tracking this, okay?
Got it.
Let everyone else have anexperience too.
SPEAKER_02 (13:43):
I'll do my best.
My mouth wants to run.
SPEAKER_00 (13:44):
The sidebar.
Okay.
I feel fully safe.
Here's a statement.
So this is you saying, I feelfully safe being wealthy in
front of my friends and family.
SPEAKER_02 (13:57):
I'll be quiet.
Next.
SPEAKER_00 (13:59):
I regularly track and celebrate my money, even
small wins.
SPEAKER_02 (14:05):
I won't say nothing, but I do that.
Sorry.
I know, I'm not supposed to sayanything.
SPEAKER_00 (14:10):
Look at me.
Knock it off.
Well, I'm gonna play the game,so you're you can play it
without your mouth.
SPEAKER_02 (14:18):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (14:19):
Use your fingers to write down the one.
Are you gonna be able to do thisat the end?
SPEAKER_01 (14:24):
Yes.
SPEAKER_00 (14:24):
Okay, so keep up.
Okay, I believe I can do good inthe world and be financially
thriving.
I ask for what I'm worth withoutshrinking.
I have clear vision for what Ido with more money.
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Okay, so that's 10.
If you said yes to three ormore, you don't have to tell me
which ones they are, but did yousay yes to three or more?
SPEAKER_02 (14:55):
Um, a little bit more than three or more, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (14:59):
Well, congratulations.
In Powered Posse, did you saymore to uh yes to three or more?
If you did, congratulations.
Because what this means, this isexciting.
You've just spotted yourrepeller pattern.
And that's the first step toresetting it and you know to
stop using bear spray on money.
(15:20):
Yeah, that's quick.
No repeller needed.
So did any of them give you likean aha before we move on?
SPEAKER_02 (15:26):
It's the third one that got me.
SPEAKER_00 (15:27):
You say yes, you you see yes, you want, you say you
want abundance, but feel guiltyreceiving it.
SPEAKER_02 (15:34):
Um, and that's something that I I I know that
uh that I have.
SPEAKER_00 (15:39):
Uh huh.
SPEAKER_02 (15:40):
So I'm taking active measures.
So I have a money mantra, andthe money mantra says, uh, I'm a
magnet for money.
Money loves me and I love money.
Money is always looking for me,and I allow money to find me.
So what it does is it allows meto feel less guilty when I
actually receive it.
More worthy.
I feel more worthy.
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I feel like, oh, I I called thisin instead of like, oh my God,
why am I getting all this money?
SPEAKER_00 (16:04):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (16:05):
What about you?
SPEAKER_00 (16:06):
Um the funny one is that um I think feel fully safe
being wealthy in front offriends and family is that like
every next level, next versionof me, you know, becomes more
successful, more wealthy, morein whatever way you measure
success.
And the way that I measuresuccess, and sometimes I find
(16:28):
that if you don't see people fora long time, you can shrink, you
know, you can start kind ofshrinking yourself to fit what
they think you are, right?
And it's subconscious, it's nota conscious thing that I'm
doing.
I'm not like going in therelike, oh, I gotta act small.
No, I'm not doing that, but Inotice the behavior is being run
by a subconscious programming.
(16:49):
So that would be one that Ithink is pretty big for me.
And yeah.
So it's important to just lookat any of the things that you
put a one next to and um justrecognize that like this isn't
often something that you aredoing on purpose.
It it is something that you knowhas been wired in and that
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you're just going to rewire.
So like take your power backfrom it.
It's not to feel bad.
If you, if you're like, oh shit,I have 10, that's okay too.
Like it doesn't matter whereveryou are, you can heal this.
SPEAKER_02 (17:23):
At any age, you can reprogram your whole mind just
with thoughts, habits, andaction.
So yeah, if you feel like any ofthese are or multiples are are
heavy on you, you're in luckbecause you can change it.
SPEAKER_00 (17:35):
Totally.
And we're gonna talk next aboutthe top five hidden ways people
repel money.
SPEAKER_02 (17:40):
Oh, I love this one.
Let's let's do this.
SPEAKER_00 (17:42):
Okay, so number one would be like we've talked about
energetic misalignment.
So you could be saying all theaffirmations or mantra like
Mike, you know, shared, butwhile holding fear in your body,
because and here's the thing youcan't affirm abundance from a
frequency of lack.
SPEAKER_02 (17:58):
Yeah, it's two different channels.
Um uh number two isself-sabotage, uh, disguised as
perfectionism, likeprocrastination, is often rooted
in fear of being seen orfailing.
Right.
Right.
So when that happens, we startto repel up uh options that
bring in money.
SPEAKER_00 (18:16):
Right.
Number three is unconsciousloyalty to broke lineages.
So if you have guilt aboutsurpassing parents, friends, or
partners, or just who maybe yougrew up with, or you know, like
you know, like I was saying, ifyou grew up in like a small
town, or you know, there'sportions of your family that
didn't have money, you know,that unconscious loyalty can be
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what you are blocking yourwealth.
And oftentimes, you know, that'sthat's the block, is that you're
you're doing it subconsciouslywithout realizing that you're
trying to stay connected towhere you came from.
SPEAKER_02 (18:54):
Yeah, and this is a really, really powerful one for
a lot of our clients.
SPEAKER_00 (18:57):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (18:58):
Um, so number four is nervous system dysregulation.
Let it be known that fight orflight mode sabotages consistent
effort, presence, or boldaction, right?
So it's gonna keep you operatingsmall.
Uh, there's a Stanford studythat states that regulated
nervous systems perform 30%better on cognitive and
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strategic tasks.
SPEAKER_00 (19:21):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (19:21):
So get yourself grounded regularly.
SPEAKER_00 (19:23):
Yeah, and and regulated.
So number five is lack ofreceptivity.
And this is what, you know, isconstantly um called the yin
wound.
So if you're always in doingmode, then you can't be in
receiving mode.
So it's especially common inhigh achieving women, and it is
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very common in providers.
So providers often have like aburnout cycle.
Yeah.
Um, but women especially aremeant to be in receptivity, are
meant to be in more flow.
But if you're always in doingmode and never getting quiet and
being open to receptivity, thenyou're going to tend to lean
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more masculine and you willreceive less.
You'll receive less love,attention.
It comes in so many differentforms.
And if this is hitting you overthe head, like, oh shit, like
that I'm being called out, likeum, I feel so attacked.
Uh if you're feeling that way,just know that there is a quick
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switch for this, and we're gonnatalk next about like what to do
instead.
So insummation, you're notafraid of money, you're afraid
of who you'll have to become tohold it.
SPEAKER_02 (20:44):
Oh, that is so true.
That is mostly true.
SPEAKER_00 (20:48):
This is where people have like a very strong wound
around um fear of success.
Yeah, you know.
SPEAKER_02 (20:57):
Well, let's talk about what to do instead, right?
Let's talk about the wealthrewiring blueprint, right?
So there's actionable fixes thatyou can take in order to make
this happen.
Uh there's somatic rewiring, uh,which is uh the practice of
receiving through breath work,stillness, and pleasure.
SPEAKER_00 (21:16):
Yes.
There's nervous system training.
So, you know, some people reallyget a lot of benefits from cold
exposure, um, breath holds, sowhere you're, you know, holding
your breath and doing deepbreathing exercises, um, vagus
nerve resets.
SPEAKER_02 (21:33):
Oh, yeah, the vagus nerve is is most certainly
something you want to focus onon the yeah, and we talk about
it in this season.
Uh, then there's the shadowwork.
A lot of people don't want to dothe shadow work, but there is so
much wealth uh in the shadows.
So you got to address the guilt,uh, the lineage ties, and any
type of uh worthiness storiesthat you're holding on to.
SPEAKER_00 (21:54):
Yeah, which is what you're doing with like rewiring
the mantra.
Correct.
You know, that worthiness umwound is crazy.
Um, the other thing is likeenergetic hygiene.
So we have like cord cutting,you know, um, guided
meditations.
We work with cord cutting a lotin our coaching practice, um,
boundary setting, which we'vedone two podcasts about because
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it's just so massive.
Um, and then frequency tuning.
So, for example, you know,listening to binary beats that
have 528 hertz, or music that iscoded with frequency tuning, or
using, you know, we talk aboutlike the Healy device.
Um, there's all kinds ofdifferent frequency medicine you
can get out there from as simpleas putting on some noise
(22:41):
canceling headphones and somemusic, or you know, using
something that's more dialedinto scanning your bioenergetic
field.
SPEAKER_02 (22:50):
Uh also sound bowls, uh tuning forks.
SPEAKER_00 (22:53):
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (22:54):
Um, all that stuff starts to come into play.
Uh, and I would highly recommendum uh investing in some of those
things because it's stuff, it'sstuff that you can enjoy at home
and and you know consistency iswhere this stuff comes through.
SPEAKER_00 (23:08):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (23:08):
Uh then there's the uh practical strategy, right?
You have to raise your prices,you gotta charge your worth, you
gotta track your money daily,right?
Your money is your best friend.
SPEAKER_00 (23:19):
Yes, and I always talk about like doing a money
minute, and all of us have aminute a day that we could spend
on looking at our money.
Um, and you know, if you look atyour money and it takes you less
than a minute, then you can usethe other 30 seconds to um
manifest, you know, to reallylike, you know, get into the
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embodiment.
And we talk a lot about um uhreality selection, you know,
select the reality you want tosee in your bank account.
Like if you look at it andyou're like, oh, I've only got
you know$50, you know, you know,close your eyes and see the
zeros and feel what it wouldfeel like, you know.
Three extra zeros there, youknow, five extra zeros, maybe
(24:02):
seven.
Um that's cool.
Like, right?
And so, like, get yourself intoum a practice.
Mike and I also do money Mondayswhere we talk together about
money um because it just createsa habit of setting up our week
to both call in the money butalso to be in gratitude for the
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money that we have.
And yeah, so the other thing Iwould suggest is supportive
suggestion.
So you want to align yourselfwith people who have healthy
money scripts because proximityis power.
And we always talk about like,you know, working with different
people who have figured it out,you know, work with somebody
who's like a master at thething.
(24:47):
So I highly recommend you getin, you know, proximity with a
coach or a group or affiliationthat have figured out the money
game.
SPEAKER_01 (24:56):
Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (24:57):
And, you know, that know how to rewire and they're
using tools like we discussed,or they also are using um, you
know, some type of of NLP orlike, you know, there's a stuff,
a lot of stuff that we use toget people to rewire.
Um because energeticmisalignment is the number one
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reason your strategies aren'tsticking.
SPEAKER_02 (25:22):
Correct.
SPEAKER_00 (25:23):
So well, yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (25:25):
I mean, you don't need another marketing course,
right?
You need to stop hiding yourlight because of your money
wound.
Yes, right?
So you remove the wound and thatmoney will flow.
It will it'll it will moneyloves to be found.
SPEAKER_00 (25:40):
Money loves to be found and um is will be a magnet
to you if you uh you know alignyourself with it.
Correct.
Yeah, the moment I learnedproximity is power, like things
really change because Idistanced myself from those that
were constantly in a state oflack and limitation, and I
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purposely chose to be aroundpeople who they, you know, I was
like the dumbest one at thetable.
You know, it's like let me learneverything and sponge this, and
then like, you know, your tableschange as you evolve, your
tables change, and like keeplooking for the tables that you
can sit at where you can learnthe most from, because you'll
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constantly be in a state ofimprovement.
SPEAKER_02 (26:27):
Yeah, the the company you keep really acts as
a barometer of the the thewealth trajectory that you're
going through, right?
So if you are hanging out withpeople who are consistently
managing their money, makingmoney, excited about receiving
money, going on these big dealsand and um great vacations
(26:48):
because they have mastered theart of of receiving money, those
are the people you want to hangout with.
Yeah.
If you're hanging out withpeople who are coupon cutting
and you know, um, you know,doomsday planning, that's the
wrong frequency for abundance.
SPEAKER_00 (27:05):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (27:05):
That's scarcity.
SPEAKER_00 (27:06):
Right.
So if you felt seen in thisepisode and you're ready to stop
repelling the very wealth youdesire, book a session with
either Mike and I um or togetherif you are a couple.
I really recommend that you workwith, if you're married, is to
work on this together.
And Mike and I do sessions withcouples where we help you
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harmonize.
And if wealth is your goal,that's easy.
If wealth is the only thing youhaven't figured out in your
relationship, like that's kindof the easiest, you know.
Um, it's usually like the harderthings are like communication
breakdowns and you know, lack oftrust or sometimes infidelity,
whatever the thing is, thosethings are are harder, you know,
(27:52):
to heal quickly.
But um, you want to saysomething?
SPEAKER_02 (27:55):
Yeah, I I think that um the power behind the group
settings when it's you know,when we work with both the
husband and wife, is thatoftentimes it only takes one of
the couples, one of the partnerswho have any type of money wound
to sully both of the partners'ability to make money.
SPEAKER_00 (28:16):
Yeah, because of the proximity.
SPEAKER_02 (28:18):
Exactly.
SPEAKER_00 (28:18):
And because you end up sharing each other's energy,
and if you aren't aware ofenergy, energetic misalignment,
you might be dipping yourvibration constantly to try to
just find sinking harmony.
SPEAKER_02 (28:33):
That exactly.
And then also um, you know, oneone member of the couple can be
exhibiting um uh actions orwords or using things that are
going to um uh I don't know, umcreate wounds in the other
person.
So you have the opportunity tocreate wealth or repel wealth
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based on just your relationshipsalone.
So if you're in that that cuspof like, okay, we want to
actually start calling in moremoney, I would highly recommend
getting that that group coachingbecause, you know, the couple
coaching, because then you canhave the opportunity to look at
all the wounds together.
SPEAKER_00 (29:12):
Yep.
And for our single friends, wedo have group coaching offers.
Just use the links in our shownotes to join us.
Um, most things requireapplication, but um, some of our
group sessions you can anyone iswelcome.
And what we'll do is we'll helpyou identify and neutralize the
exact subconscious blocks thatare holding your abundance
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hostage.
Yeah.
So you'll stop repelling wealth.
You're you'll start beingaligned with it, you'll start
feeling the frequency shift.
And it's really, you know, Ioften say magic, and then like
people are like, it's not magic,it's science.
Okay, but I feel like it's alittle bit of both.
There are some things that areare indescribable that happen
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once you start changing yourvery Vibration, when you start
operating from joy and operatingfrom gratitude, and um it feels
magical because it happens soquickly.
Things just change correctquickly.
And so, you know, years oftherapy, for example, which you
know can be supportive forpeople to um process, it's very
(30:22):
different being in groupcoaching sessions or private
sessions where you're not justmenting, you're looking for the
source, and we are helping youidentify the source and helping
you squash the source.
SPEAKER_02 (30:36):
Yeah, it's it's crazy.
Every time I've done groupcoaching, uh, either
participated or uh or you know,was a practitioner of it.
Um, one thing that I alwaysrealized is that it is so easy
to see patterns in someone elsethan it is to see patterns in
yourself.
So when you when you in thosegroup coachings, you see all
(30:57):
these patterns, right?
And then all of a sudden youstart thinking like, wait, I do
that and I do that and I dothat, and you realize like, wait
a minute, I am not broken.
I just need to get reprogrammed,right?
Right.
I'm not behind, you're notbroken.
You just you're just out ofresonance with your next
financial timeline.
And that's something that we canfix together, most certainly.
SPEAKER_00 (31:19):
Yes.
And I would just say in thesegroup sessions, what's great is
that if you have a coach that isholding the vibration of
whatever the intention is, ifit's like, you know, a wealth
reset or something, the um andeveryone joins with that
intention that it, you know,like the tide raises all boats,
(31:44):
right?
It's like like it, you basicallyall rise together and your the
proximity, especially in likethe groups that I I host, it's
like the proximity becomes likea sisterhood of like no one gets
left behind.
We all rise together withoutjudgment, without you know,
bias, like everyone risestogether because that's the
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mission.
And brotherhood in you know,terms of what you're doing, or
like with a couple, it's like,no, we're going to unify, we're
gonna harmonize, we're going todo it together.
And it's not an option to be ondifferent teams, like different
frequencies.
We are like copiloting here.
So um, yeah, coaches needcoaches too.
The Mike and I need coaches,like we we constantly are
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getting coached because somebodyelse, you know, can see your
blind spots.
And so it's amazing to getsomeone to help you rewire
something that you might notsee.
Yeah.
You know, a behavior, a languagepattern.
Like it's easy to see itexternally.
SPEAKER_02 (32:48):
Yes, that is correct.
Yeah, the only way you can seeyourself is when you actually
look in a mirror, and that'swhat a coach does.
A coach holds up that mirror andand allows you to have uh
different perspectives that youcan use to see where you are
actually at and how you can moveforward.
SPEAKER_01 (33:02):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (33:03):
Um in your own body, right?
You don't have to get a brandnew body, you don't think you do
anything, you just have to havedifferent actions and different
thoughts.
SPEAKER_00 (33:11):
Right, right.
SPEAKER_02 (33:11):
I was thinking about that game that we had just
played and the the very lastone, right?
I have a clear vision for what Iwould do with more money.
And uh when you said that, anduh I instantly realized, oh my
god, that is a huge patternbecause what I'm envisioning is
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giving it away.
unknown (33:33):
Right?
SPEAKER_02 (33:34):
I was envisioning all the time.
SPEAKER_00 (33:35):
Because your nervous system doesn't feel like it's
safe.
SPEAKER_02 (33:37):
Yeah, I was like, oh, I can help this person, I
can help this person, I can helpthis person.
And at no point did I say, waita minute, I'm gonna help myself.
So um I feel like I feel likeI'm enough to help myself.
SPEAKER_00 (33:50):
Yeah, it goes back to that that um exact thing that
you were talking about that youwere feeling is like it goes
back to that worthiness, like,oh, I'm not worthy of this.
Here, let me, it's like hotpotato.
Like, you know, you ever playthat game when you're little?
You're like, oh, this is mine,like get it out of here.
SPEAKER_02 (34:07):
Exactly.
It's like, you know, burn yourseal.
Someone gives me, you know, youknow, if I win, say, you know, a
couple million dollars, I can Ican literally see all of my
family live members living inbeautiful houses.
And for some reason I picturemyself living in a van down by
the river.
Right?
It's like, wait a minute.
I gotta, I gotta, I gotta lookat that self-worth wound and and
(34:29):
handle it, you know, becauseliving in the van by the river
sucks.
SPEAKER_00 (34:32):
Well, you need to up that to like a couple hundred
million if you're gonna buy yourfamily's houses.
SPEAKER_02 (34:38):
Well, maybe I'll buy them all.
Maybe I'll buy them all vans bythe river.
SPEAKER_00 (34:43):
You guys can have a caravan.
Count me out.
No.
Bye.
SPEAKER_02 (34:49):
Actually, you know what?
A travel van by the river wouldbe kind of fun.
Not not for permanent living,but you know, for a little
vacation.
SPEAKER_00 (34:56):
That's not what you said.
So it's yours, you're changingthe hypotheticals.
So this is your favorite thingyou should do.
SPEAKER_02 (35:00):
I'm working through the hypotheticals, right?
If I'm if I'm trying to picturemyself in a van by the river,
it's not gonna be, you know, uha shady van that's all
dilapidated like Uncle Rico's,right?
SPEAKER_00 (35:12):
I'm talking about Uncle Rico.
SPEAKER_02 (35:15):
I'm talking about, you know, a two-story travel van
with, you know, all kinds ofamidities and and then I can
pick what river I want to be at.
SPEAKER_00 (35:24):
You know what I'm saying?
Still no.
SPEAKER_02 (35:25):
Hey, I'm working on it.
I love you.
SPEAKER_00 (35:26):
I love you, but still no.
SPEAKER_02 (35:28):
Working up, not down.
SPEAKER_00 (35:29):
Listen, you can you can come back and visit me in
wherever I live, which will bebeautiful.
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (35:37):
Yeah, but so you love me so much that you will
join me at a van down by theriver.
SPEAKER_00 (35:42):
For a night or two.
Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.
Nope.
I'm just telling you right now.
No, maybe a previous version ofme, yes, but no, not right now.
That's that is not in alignmentwith this version of me.
SPEAKER_02 (35:55):
What was your what was your second on the game?
SPEAKER_00 (35:57):
Okay.
Um, you know, really call myselfout here.
Um, you procrastinate launchingyour offer.
SPEAKER_02 (36:04):
I knew you were gonna say that.
I looked at it, I was like,she's gonna say this offer
because you're sitting on like,you know, 10, 15 offers right
now.
SPEAKER_00 (36:14):
Boy.
Called out, called out.
Um, yeah, just like I create alot of content and a lot of
offers.
And there are times where Ihesitate.
You can call it procrastinationtoo.
Um, and there are certain offersthat I created like 10 years ago
and didn't launch for variousreasons, but most of them I
(36:37):
think tied to um a wealth wound.
So working through that is uhparamount.
SPEAKER_02 (36:45):
It is paramount.
And you know, sometimes itstings when we realize where
some of these wounds are.
Um, but it's not a sting thatyou want to avoid, right?
It's a sting that you want toactually experience.
Because the minute that youactually look at your wounds and
be like, oh.
Like, how easy would it be nowthat you know the whole
procrastination wound, right?
(37:07):
Know your wound, come up with aplan, kill your wound, let that
money come in.
SPEAKER_00 (37:12):
Or you could just keep procrastinating and then
you'll never know how much moneyyou could make from that offer
because it never goes out intothe world.
And that's where you end upbeing, you know, in regret land
later in life.
And nobody wants to be inregretland, right?
SPEAKER_02 (37:30):
Yeah, I I wonder, I might actually have a
procrastination course that I'vebeen procrastinating.
SPEAKER_00 (37:39):
Your offer is how not to procrastinate.
Put that one out first.
Yes.
SPEAKER_02 (37:46):
Can I?
Well, maybe tomorrow.
SPEAKER_00 (37:49):
Well, maybe tomorrow.
That's like a disease.
Like, I'll start on Monday,right?
Yeah, I think that's Tuesday.
SPEAKER_02 (37:56):
You're like, oh, I got plenty of time.
SPEAKER_00 (38:00):
Oh, some more cake.
SPEAKER_02 (38:03):
I need this cake.
SPEAKER_00 (38:05):
Sending you the highest vibrations.
SPEAKER_02 (38:07):
You are health.
SPEAKER_00 (38:08):
You are love.
And then they're reallyrepelling the opportunity that
you have to make any money.
SPEAKER_02 (38:22):
Yeah.
And then, and then you scrollonline and you see someone else
someone else's procrastinationcourse, you're like, ah, yes.
This one sucks.
I should have done my own.
SPEAKER_00 (38:31):
Well, the thing is, is that like I do find that
people, especially some of thepeople that I coach that are
course creators or contentcreators, and they'll be like,
oh, well, that's already beendone.
And it was like, everything'salready been done.
Everything's already done.
You know, it's like wait, ifwe're gonna only do what's not
been done, like that, that'sgonna be, you know, a small
(38:53):
fraction of things.
Nobody can do it like you, isthe point.
That's gonna be, you know, sowhat you're just gonna be an
inventor?
Like, you know, there's not alot of inventors.
There isn't.
But there's plenty of people whoare maybe saying the same thing,
but saying it in a unique way.
And there's people out therethat need that message from that
(39:13):
person delivering that message.
SPEAKER_02 (39:15):
Correct, correct.
Every ear is tuned for a aparticular voice or frequency.
SPEAKER_00 (39:20):
Yep.
SPEAKER_02 (39:20):
You might be that frequency, that voice that will
that will unlock someone else'smagic.
SPEAKER_00 (39:25):
Yeah.
And the beautiful thing aboutshowing up and actually giving
your offer is that you don'treally know what's gonna happen.
But I can guarantee that if youdon't put it out there,
nothing's gonna happen.
SPEAKER_01 (39:42):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (39:43):
Other than you're going to feel betrayed by
yourself because you will havebroken promises and you will
have let yourself down and youwill have kept yourself stuck.
So um by your choices, by yourinaction.
SPEAKER_02 (39:57):
I'd go so far as to say that you have a certain
bandwidth, right?
That you can receiveinformation, also known as
inspiration, right?
So all these great ideas.
And every time you execute onone of those, your bandwidth
expands.
Yes.
But the universe is like, oh,this guy is producing.
Let's get all these ideas outinto the world through him.
And every time that youprocrastinate or you're like,
(40:20):
no, I'm not gonna put this outthere, that bandwidth shrinks
because the universe is like,well, I'm not gonna give this
guy any insight or or uh, youknow, inspiration because he's
just gonna sit on it.
SPEAKER_00 (40:30):
He's yeah, he's gonna be inactive and he's gonna
be thinking like, oh, I'm stuck,I'm stuck, I'm stuck.
SPEAKER_02 (40:36):
He's actually doing his personality.
SPEAKER_00 (40:37):
With all these great ideas and thinking like, well, I
just need somebody else toexecute the ideas.
And it's like the person who hasthe idea also needs to be part
of the person who puts it intoaction.
Even hiring someone else is anaction.
Even, you know, like just havingthe idea.
Ideas, what I've learned in asbeing an entrepreneur, ideas are
(40:59):
actually easy.
It's the execution of ideas thatis more challenging because it
requires action.
Because ideas drop in all thetime.
You know, I mean, we'reconstantly being inspired by
whatever we're watching,wherever we go.
You know, sometimes we getquiet, and like you said, you
know, inspiration comes throughus from, you know, from the
(41:19):
universe, um, or whatever youbelieve in.
And like, yeah, that's crazy tothink that it could um, you
know, your inspiration can getsmaller and smaller by
inactivity.
SPEAKER_02 (41:33):
What was that quote that we got from uh uh Michael
Jackson that uh when he wouldget songs, you know, he would go
to sleep and he would wake upwith songs in his mind, and
right then and there he would goto the studio and record it
because he's like I have to getit on, I have to get it on wax
before Prince gets it.
Yeah, right?
Because Prince was also apowerhouse, right?
His bandwidth was massive.
SPEAKER_01 (41:53):
Yeah, right.
SPEAKER_02 (41:54):
So the the I the the the song idea is like, oh, do I
go through Michael Jackson?
Do I go through Prince?
Do I go through Freddie Mercury?
Like, there's all these bigplayers out there, and they're
players because they take thatinspiration and they make it.
SPEAKER_00 (42:08):
Yeah, they do something with it, right?
Exactly.
They make it manifest, theyembody it.
SPEAKER_02 (42:12):
Yeah, yep.
So, you know, I know that youyou have a garage full of dope
ass offers.
So I'm looking forward to seeingthose offers based off of this
conversation, right?
SPEAKER_00 (42:24):
Okay, DBT.
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