If you’ve ever been called “too much”, too driven, too structured, too clear about what you want, this episode is for you, Sister.
Today we’re talking about something that lives in the quiet corners of so many high-achieving women’s hearts: the tension between feminine surrender and the desire to shape your life with intention. If you’ve ever shamed yourself for being “controlling,” or felt like you had to soften your clarity or ambition to be accepted, I invite you into this tender and empowering conversation.
This episode isn’t just about control, it’s about the right to be the architect of your own life, about sovereignty and wanting what you want, no matter what others will think. It’s about rewriting the story that says you have to dim your decisiveness, apologize for your big dreams, or wait for permission to go after what you really want.
This is a tender exploration taking the lead in your life, not from a place of wounding, but choice. I hope you love it.
In This Episode:
- Where Wounded Control Begins
- The 10x Expansion Vision
- Calling Back Your Power
- Sacred vs. Wounded Control
- You’re Not Bossy, You’re Decisive
- Rewrite the Rules
Inspired Action Steps:
- Reflect on where you may be over-controlling from fear—and where sacred control wants to come through.
- Journal on this: What does sacred control look like for me in this season of life and business?
- Identify one area where you’re still waiting for permission—and give that authority back to yourself.
- Reframe ambition as devotion, and clarity as a sacred gift.
Would you like to work with me?
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- www.boldheart.com/the-film
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