The Family Business with The Alessis

Tired of trying to get your kids off their phones and back into reality? 

Maybe the answer isn't just taking away our children's devices. 

Are our children's obsessions with their devices actually a sign of dysfunction or lackluster engagement at home? 

In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share some interesting perspectives on how to re-shape your approach toward technology and your kids' social environ...

Struggling with miscommunication in your marriage? Wishing that you could work more closely with your spouse and create harmony in your home? 

In this honest and insightful episode, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive into building a stronger, more aligned relationship by focusing on teamwork and communication. By embracing the concept of being a team, they discuss the power of meeting on the "same page" rather than forcing the...

Is the first year of marriage really the hardest? 

And if so, what can a couple do to avoid letting a beautiful newlywed season turn into a rollercoaster of disappointments and unmet expectations? 

Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they dive into the realities newlyweds face when managing expectations post-wedding. Through personal and relatable examples the Alessis share throughout this episode, you'll discover how navigating these...

Do you always find yourself in the middle of family conflicts, trying to keep the peace? 

If so, you might be filling a role that no one asked you to fill - and it might be causing more harm than good. 

In this super transparent episode, Steve and Mary Alessi get real about the role of the peacemaker in the family, and discuss whether its a role that comes with it's own set of problems. You'll discover healthy ways to appro...

Is it possible to be TOO focused on your kids? 

Navigating the journey of parenthood can be challenging, especially when your instinct is to make your children the center of your universe. In this episode, Christopher and Stephanie Muiña dive into this thought-provoking topic, so you can find balance by placing faith and values at the center of your family life.

You'll hear the Muiñas share their personal stories and lessons lea...

There's one thing we all know about family and marriage - it can get complicated. 

The response to our Season 3 "Leave and Cleave" episode (S3 E19) has been incredible. We noticed that many of our listeners left comments and shared their real-life issues and concerns about their marriages, dealing with parents and in-laws, and navigating the struggles that come with leaving and cleaving. 

In this episode, Steve and Mar...

Are you and your spouse struggling to break unhealthy attachments to your parents? Is your marriage feeling the strain because someone is not respecting boundaries? 

If so, you're not alone. Our episode from Season 3 on leaving and cleaving as married couples has been one of our most popular ever - it's gotten nearly 10,000 views on YouTube alone! That's why we wanted to bring it back so we can help more couples and p...

What would you do if you had to fight for your life and your country, while you were starting your life with your spouse? 

This isn't a movie plot. It's the real story of a marriage forged in the middle of a war. 

Hilla and Arik Nehamkin are a Miami couple who started their relationship just before the attack on Israel on October 7th, 2023. Both of them have spent years living in Israel.  Arik has served in the Israeli Defe...

Are you struggling to keep your marriage relationship fresh and healthy despite life's constant challenges?

In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share a conversation with long-time friends David and Mory Martinez. Drawing on over 70 years of combined experience as married couples, they tackle subjects like embracing change, aligning personal goals, and the delicate balance between career ambition and family unity.

You...

Are you concerned about immigration challenges facing your loved ones?

In this powerful and timely episode, we welcome Abe Cardenas, from the Cardenas Law Firm, as we dig into the realities and misconceptions about the raging debate over immigration laws and undocumented immigrants. 

By shedding light on the rules and procedures often clouded by misinformation and fear-mongering, Abe demystifies the immigration process with insider i...

Are there certain topics in your marriage that you're scared to discuss? Does it feel like you're risking a potential blow-up if you even bring it up?

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share insights into these "No-Go Zones," offering strategies to approach sensitive issues confidently. They discuss the importance of honest communication and personal responsibility in strengthening relationships.

 By focusing...

Note to parents: this podcast contains frank and candid discussions about marriage and intimacy. Please listen and consider whether this material is age appropriate for your young children before sharing. 

Are you currently doing things that could cause your marriage to be DOA? 

Unfortunately, marriages end every day because of habits and behaviors that led to an untimely death of the relationship. 

But ...

Being a grandparent can be joyous and fulfilling - but it's not always simple.

Especially when grandkids are being, well, kids. 

How do well-meaning grandparents maintain the right posture when it comes to setting standards, without overstepping parental boundaries? 

Dive into a candid conversation with Mary and Steve Alessi as they explore the delicate balance of being supportive grandparents without stepping...

Does speaking the truth in your home feel like lighting a fuse? 

When your family has to face the inevitable disagreements that happen in every home, you have two choices - you can embrace uncomfortable but healthy conversations, or you can allow unhealthy responses that lead to more pain later on. 

In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi discuss the nuances of effective family communication, emphasizing the need fo...

2024 was a GREAT year for TFB...

..but did you REALLY catch all the best highlights and insights from last year's episodes? 

If not, this is your chance to catch up on some powerful and funny moments from 2024. This special flashback episodes brings together some of our favorite moments, offering a deeper glimpse into our family dynamics, personal experiences, and the wisdom we share every week! 

The...

To kick off 2025, here's a "Best Of"  episode of the Family Business from Season 3!

Do you want to enjoy a better, healthier, and more fulfilling new year?

These areas - your faith, your family and your fitness - form the foundation of a healthy lifestyle that will help you enjoy a better life, no matter what your current situation is. But it takes practical steps, a solid plan, and commitment to a ...

When it comes to Christmas, are you Buddy the Elf in your family - or the Grinch? 

Every family has a variety of personalities, and it's no different when it comes to celebrating the holidays. Some people love to spend and dive into the gift giving, while others are more reserved and concerned about the budget.

In this fun and enlightening episode, you'll discover how to blend the two sides of your famil...

Afraid that your  family gatherings will turn into political battles instead of a joyful reunions? 

In our latest episode, we dive into preserving family unity while political tensions are still running high following the 2024 election.

You'll discover why it's crucial to prioritize faith over politics, and how a simple act of grace can mend even the most fractured relationships. 

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Being a twenty-something isn't easy - and during the Christmas season life can get really interesting. How can you make sure your holidays are joyful when you're in a season of constant transition? 

In this episode sisters Gaby, Lauren and Stephanie examine the joys and challenges of celebrating the holidays, especially in your twenties. 

From balancing family time with personal relaxation to dealing wit...