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July 18, 2022 48 mins

If you’re someone who is constantly thinking about all of the things you “should” be doing in your life, this one's for you! I’m excited to bring you a special episode today from my Perfectly Imperfect Membership, and it’s all about the “shoulds” we carry around. I want you to become more aware of what is going on in your life, from the outside influences, as well as the inner fears and beliefs you have. 

 

In today’s episode, I’m talking about:

-Why you need to stop “shoulding” all over the place

-How to notice when you’re placing “shoulds” and expectations on yourself, and on others

-How to notice when others are putting their “shoulds” and expectations on you

 

I’m now in a place where I’m completely at peace with how I’m living my life, and I no longer carry around others’ burdens and expectations on my shoulders. Once you can get crystal clear and be really honest about what you want your life to look like, you have to take action to get there; it’s ok to ask for help when doing so! Ultimately, I want to help you gain confidence, and get back to a place where you’re making decisions and taking action that will lead to a more meaningful life-I know it’s possible for you!

 

If you’re ready for a life coach, connect with me here: https://theheartofconfidence.com/

I would love to continue this conversation-connect with me over on Instagram!

This episode is sponsored by Audible-get a free 30 day trial when you go to https://www.audibletrial.com/functioninghotmess

FULL SHOW NOTES: https://theheartofconfidence.com/episode121

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