The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast

Welcome to "Fupas & Flapjacks" with Jay Derosier (@TheJayDerosier) and Tre Hale (@tresummusic)! We're dishing out unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and life in bodies that don't fit the mold. From personal stories to Reddit gems, we cover it all with honesty and humor. Join The Fups Community (Flaunting Uniqueness, Promoting Self-love) and embrace body positivity. Every body is a good body – whether you're rocking a fupa or flaunting flapjacks. New episodes drop regularly. Subscribe now and let's get fluffy!

Episodes

June 23, 2025 46 mins

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🔥 COMEDY GOLD EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

Jay and Tre dive headfirst into the world of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with their signature blend of curiosity, confusion, and COUNTLESS jokes! From imagining themselves in poly relationships to creating the most ridiculous scenarios possible, this episode will have you laughing until your sides hurt.

The...

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We Are Back. From Vacation.. Happy Belated Birthday to Tre and Jay

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🔥 IMPORTANT CONVERSATION ON FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

In this thought-provoking episode, Jay and Tre tackle one of the most complex topics in modern Black identity: navigating the differences and similarities within the Black diaspora. From American descendants of slavery to Caribbean immigrants to Afric...

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🔥 IMPORTANT EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

In this vulnerable and educational episode, Jay and Tre get brutally honest about sexual health, sharing their own past scares and the hard lessons they've learned about being careless with their sexual wellness. This isn't just entertainment—it's a life-saving conversation every sexually active person needs ...

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Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥We've ALL been tempted to text that ex at 2AM, but why is "spinning the block" so irresistible even when we KNOW it's a bad idea? In this deeply honest episode, Jay and Tre break down the psychology behind returning to past relationships and share their own hard-learned lessons about recycling exes.The guys get REAL abou...

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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

Dating apps promised to make finding love easier, but have they actually made it MORE exhausting? In this hilarious and all-too-relatable episode, Jay and Tre share their wildest dating app experiences, including the AWKWARD time they discovered they had matched with THE SAME WOMAN!

The guys hold nothing back as they brea...

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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

Starting with a heartfelt birthday shoutout to Jay's son Nazareth turning 6 (#BlackDads), we dive deep into one of today's most CONTROVERSIAL topics: Why are successful men so afraid to settle down?

Using Shannon Sharpe's current headline-making situation as a prime example, we break down the psychological, financial, and...

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Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥We start breaking down the ESSENTIAL skills of being a top-tier wingman/wingwoman, but things quickly go OFF THE RAILS when Tre exposes Jay's continued LIES about not being a ladies man! And just when you think it couldn't get juicier—Jay's celebrity crush gets REVEALED to the world!In this wildly entertainin...

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BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

It's time to get REAL about those subtle "icks" that evolve into relationship-destroying red flags! In this no-filter episode, we break down the dating, friendship, AND business icks that we've all experienced but rarely talk about.

But that's not all—Jay finally makes a MAJOR statement about the persistent ex who keeps trying to...

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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥


Things get WILD as Jay and Tre take the infamous Purity Test, answering 100 revealing questions about their past that they've NEVER shared before! From shocking sexual confessions to that time one of u...

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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥

In this powerful conversation, we're joined by the incredible Oliver Twixt (@heisolivertwixt) for a no-holds-barred discussion about identity, community, and finding your authentic voice!

Oliver opens up about:

  • His journey growing up in the church and reconciling faith with identity
  • Raw struggles and triumphs as a Black gay man in today's society
  • Behind-the-scenes realities of building...
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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥For the FIRST TIME EVER, our mysterious "voice in the sky" Podcast Doctor Phil steps in front of the camera! In this special episode, we're getting REAL about those "friends" who might actually be holding you back!In this must-watch episode, we break down:The 5 shocking signs your friend is actually toxic (number 4 will surprise you)Podcast Doctor Phil's expert take on setting boundari...

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🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥


Today we're joined by the incredible @StephSquaredTV as they pull back the curtain on balancing marriage while building their viral social media empire!


Steph and Stephanie break down:

  • ​ The exact strategy they used to develop their unique personal brand
  • ​ How they navigate content creation as a couple ...
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The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast gets candid as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale face off in an entertaining game of "This or That" focused on dating and character preferences. In this lively episode, the guys make tough choices that reveal surprising insights about what they truly value in relationships.In this episode, we explore:Deal-breakers vs. negotiables in potential partnersPhysical attraction versus personality compatibilityTh...

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The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast dives deep as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale welcome therapist, public speaker, actor, and published model Deja (@deja_amoral) for an eye-opening exploration of attachment styles. In this revealing episode, the guys take a live attachment style quiz and get professional insights on how these patterns shape our relationships.

In this episode, we explore:

The four main attachment styles and how they devel...

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The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast gets real as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale team up with special guest Miriam J (@Epitomeofclassy) to tackle the dangerous dating phenomenon of love bombing. In this eye-opening episode, we break down how to differentiate between genuine romantic interest and calculated emotional manipulation in today's dating landscape.In this episode, we explore:What love bombing actually is and why it's more common...

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The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast gets real as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale team up with special guest Nat (@nat_torious) to dismantle the toxic concept of dating "leagues." In this eye-opening episode, we're challenging traditional attraction hierarchies and exploring why emotional intelligence is the new currency in modern relationships.

In this episode, we explore:

Why the concept of dating "leagues" is holding us back from real connecti...

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The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast gets deep as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale break down the walls of masculine emotional expression. In this powerful episode, we're challenging the "man up" mentality and exploring why real strength lies in being vulnerable.

In this episode, we explore:

  • Breaking generational patterns of emotional suppression
  • How hiding emotions affects our mental health and relationships
  • Building dee...
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The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast welcomes relationship expert Pavie Vega (@itsvegalove) for a masterclass in turning arguments into opportunities for growth. Get ready for real talk about how to fight fair and communicate better in your relationships.

In this episode, Pavie shares:

  • Her personal journey from conflict avoidance to communication mastery
  • Game-changing techniques for handling heated moments
  • How cultural backgrounds inf...
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Join Jay Derosier & Tre Hale with special guest Jani-ah Mccray (@Janiahsms) for a powerful conversation about authentic attraction. Jani-ah shares her journey of finding love while rejecting society's beauty standards, proving that real connections transcend conventional norms.

In this episode, we explore:

  • How Jani-ah found love by ignoring society's beauty expectations
  • Dismantling traditional beauty standards an...
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A special solo episode from Jay Derosier while Tre is away. Diving deep into navigating breakups and divorce, this episode breaks down why the end of a relationship isn't a failure, but a powerful opportunity for personal transformation.

Tre will be back next week - but in the meantime, get ready for a raw, honest exploration of healing and growth.

In this episode, we explore:

  • Understanding the emotional rollercoaster of ...
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