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This episode is full of fun and bright inspiration please welcome our special Guest Nick Tyler. Nick is a Board Member for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Alabama Chapter and Co-Founder of Warrior River Coffee Company.
Since 1987, the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) has grown from a grassroots network of researchers and volunteers into a national movement with chapters in all 50 states,...
Human decency refers to the fundamental personal qualities of kindness, honesty, good manners, and respect for others, particularly in treating everyone with dignity and empathy regardless of their background. It encompasses actions like listening, offering help, respecting personal space and choices, and behaving with integrity to foster positive relationships and a humane society.
Key Aspects of Human Decency
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Going back to therapy is a courageous and normal part of the self-care journey, signaling strength and self-awareness rather than failure. You should return if you're experiencing old symptoms, a new significant life event, or just want to check in with yourself. To prepare, identify your goals, decide whether to see a previous therapist or find a new one, and prepare talking points to share your current feelings...
Elements of life as a game:
Rules: The laws of the universe and social norms serve as the game's rules.
Challenges/Levels: Obstacles and difficulties are seen as challenges or levels to overcome and "level up".
Goals: Personal goals and aspirations can be viewed as objectives to strive for.
Successes/Failures: Achievements are seen as rewards, while failures are considered lessons to ...
To cope with financial stress, create a realistic budget and financial plan to gain control over your finances, build an emergency fund for unexpected events, and prioritize paying off debt. Address the emotional impact of stress through self-care, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and stress management techniques like meditation. For more complex situations, seek support from a financial advisor or therapist...
As humans, we are wired to move toward pleasure and avoid pain. We do this in many ways, including through five main types of avoidance. Avoidance is a part of life. There are times when you avoid people, places, or things because you know already know how the situation will turn out (and it's not good)
We feel afraid of certain things (like inadequacy, looking bad, imperfection, disappointment, shame, embarrassme...
Grief within yourself, also known as self-grief, is the process of mourning changes or losses within yourself, particularly after a significant trauma or loss that alters your identity or sense of self. It's a natural and necessary part of healing, allowing you to acknowledge and integrate these changes rather than suppressing them.
Why is Self-Grief Important?
- Authenticity: Mourning for your past self allows ...
There’s a theory that says that because humans were once heavily dependent on one another for survival, our brains are wired to sense fear when we’re at risk of being “on the outs” with society. Centuries ago, it was a literal threat to be ostracized from the tribe. Being banished from the group meant we’d be on our own and vulnerable to attack by predators, and less successful at hunting the food we’d need to surviv...
Starting a new school in 6th grade, which is typically the first year of middle school, can be a big transition for a child. It's important to be prepared for the emotional and practical aspects of this change.
Address Emotional Concerns:
Acknowledge anxiety:
It's normal for children to feel anxious about starting a new school. Validate their feelings and offer support.
Open communication:
E...
Here's a breakdown of what a follow-through plan entails:
1. Goal Setting and Planning:
Define clear and achievable goals: Ensure goals are realistic and well-defined to avoid discouragement and facilitate progress tracking
Break down goals into smaller, manageable steps: This makes the overall objective less daunting and provides a sense of accomplishment with each completed step.
Create a detai...
Guessing in relationships, also known as mind-reading or expecting your partner to know your thoughts, can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. It's crucial to communicate directly and openly to build a healthy, fulfilling connection.
Why Guessing is Problematic:
Unrealistic Expectations:
Assuming your partner should automatically understand your needs and feelings without you expressing...
A role model is someone who is worthy of imitation — like your beloved teacher or a well-behaved celebrity. Just as a model is something that represents an inspirational ideal, a role model is someone who inspires others to imitate his or her good behavior.
Good role models typically exhibit the following personality traits or qualities: self-awareness, positivity, humility, empathy, professionalism, and integrity.
1. A...
The phrase "to love is to will the good of the other" is a quote attributed to St. Thomas Aquinas. It means that love, at its core, involves a desire and intention to act for the benefit of another person, rather than for one's own self-interest. This concept emphasizes a selfless and active form of love, where one actively seeks the well-being of the loved one.
Here's a more detailed explanat...
couragement are that it can instill confidence, improve attitudes, promote action, boost mood and esteem, and provide hope and healing. Encouragement strengthens individuals, allowing them to persevere, see their abilities differently, and ultimately, change their perceptions and actions.
Here's a more detailed look at the five powers of encouragement:
1. Instills Confidence:
Encouragement build...
Future tripping," also known as anticipatory anxiety, refers to the psychological phenomenon of excessive worrying and anxiety about potential future events. It involves overthinking and trying to control the future, often leading to heightened stress and distress. Instead of focusing on the present, individuals engaging in future tripping tend to project themselves into the future, imagining negative scenarios a...
Dating confidence involves believing in your value as a person and feeling comfortable in your own skin while dating. It's about approaching dating with a positive attitude and a willingness to take risks, rather than focusing on perceived flaws or the expectations of others. Ultimately, confidence is about recognizing your worth and being able to express yourself authentically.
Building Dating Confidence:
Fo...
Ikigai (生きがい) is a Japanese concept that translates to "a reason for being" or "a reason to live," referring to a sense of purpose or passion that makes life meaningful and enjoyable. It's a framework that helps individuals discover their unique purpose by aligning their passions, skills, and values with societal needs.
Here's a more detailed explanation:
Finding Your Ikigai:
You know that one saying from the movie Forrest Gump, "My momma always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get.". This quote is often attributed to his mother, but is spoken by Forrest himself in the movie.
This metaphor compares the unpredictability of life to a box of chocolates, where you don't know what flavors or types of chocolate you'll find unt...
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Bipolar Disorder (BD) share some similarities, particularly in mood instability, but are distinct conditions with different diagnostic criteria and treatment approaches. BPD is a personality disorder characterized by intense, unstable relationships, a distorted sense of self, and impulsivity, while BD is a mood disorder marked by periods of mania (or hypomania) and depression....
Impostor syndrome, also known as impostor phenomenon or fraud syndrome, is a psychological experience that causes people to doubt their skills and successes. It's characterized by a persistent feeling of inadequacy and the belief that success is undeserved, even when evidence suggests otherwise. People with impostor syndrome may attribute their accomplishments to luck or external factors, and fear being exposed a...
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