Healing Childhood Neglect: Transforming Relationships Through Presence and Attention, Day 12

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Giving ourselves the attention we deserve is not just self-care—it's transformative. On Day 12 of the Orgasmic Alchemy journey, I invite you to explore the profound impact that presence and attention can have on our lives and relationships. This episode draws from my personal experiences with childhood neglect, and how they have shaped my adult relationships. By nourishing these neglected parts of ourselves with love and presence, we can begin to heal and manifest healthier connections. For me, it was a journey of self-realization catalyzed by a partner who struggled to give me the attention I needed (because of his sex addiction). Let's uncover how healing from these patterns can lead to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.

This conversation serves as an invitation for you to reflect on your own journey and the recurring patterns in your relationships. Whether you're on a path to heal from childhood neglect or aiming to enhance your romantic partnership, I'm here to support you with personalized guidance. Together, we can transform core issues into opportunities for growth. If this resonates with you, let's connect on Instagram at The Good, The Bad, and The Sexy. And consider reaching out for one-on-one or couple sessions. Together, let's support each other in creating the love we deserve.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey babe, day 12 of the Orgasmic Alchemy journey, so
I'd love to know where you'reat.
Are you doing the practices?
Are you healing big stuff?
Have you manifested new things?
Are you feeling challenged?
Please share with me yourexperience in the comments below
or you can DM me on Instagram.
And today, continuing on, I wasfeeling into the energies in my

(00:28):
abdomen as they have beendistressed.
They've been calling out for myattention and, because that's
how that works and it turns out,the attention that this part of
me needed was attention.
It was starving for love anddying for attention, and sitting

(00:54):
in the sensation of thisWhereas I recently have been
like this feels awful.
I don't want to feel it and itis a starving sensation.
It's starving, so I've beenfeeding it and causing, causing

(01:17):
intestinal distress, becausethat's not actually what I need.
What I actually need is to sitwith the starving.
What I need, what I actuallyneed, is to sit with the
starving, sit with the neglectedpiece of me and let it be
nourished with love.
Maybe some energetic food, thatmight be a thing, but what it
really really needs is eyes onit.

(01:39):
It needs ears on it, it needspresence, and so I am giving it
my presence and recognizing.
You know where this came from.
As a child, I felt veryneglected, super crazy, lonely
and, interestingly, as I say,like we are always manifesting

(02:05):
that romantic partner to healour childhood stuff, I
manifested the husband who couldnot pay attention to me.
All of his attention could bepaid to porn and TV and his
phone, but not to me, becausethat was that was what we were

(02:27):
there to work out together.
So like I needed him to neglectme, I needed him to not pay
attention to me so I could healthis.
But I thought that we couldheal it together, like he would
get to heal his piece of it andmy piece of it.
But we were doing it together,um, and that didn't happen.
And here we are, and maybe youknow, for the best, that I can

(02:52):
give myself this attention sothat the next partner can pay
attention to me and can payattention to us and what we're
creating together.
Because if I can't payattention to myself, how on
earth could anyone else Likethat?

(03:12):
Just if I'm not in alignmentwith giving myself that
attention, I can't manifestsomeone who can.
And I mean, as I am here withall these pieces of myself, it's
time to do it so that I don'thave to manifest another partner
who can't pay attention, sothat the next person I can jump

(03:35):
into or ease into relationshipwith it can be without that
struggle, as you know we mighthave.
We might have a couple otherthings to work through.
Actually, I would love arelationship that's graceful and

(03:57):
easy um, healers don't usuallyintend that, but oh, that sounds
so nice.
Like I do intend to heal andevolve together, but like
joyfully, gracefully,pleasurably, um resonated with
any of that and you feel likeyou would like some support in

(04:33):
healing childhood neglect andhow it's manifested in your
relationship today, or you feellike you have some other issue
that is affecting yourrelationship?
I am here to support you withone on one sessions and one on
two.
So if you want to come in yourromantic partnership, I'll work

(04:53):
with both of you and we willdive in and uncover what are the
core things that are keepingyou from having the romantic
love you desire and deserve nowand we'll alchemize those in the
most graceful, beautiful wayspossible.
And there is a link below toconnect with me, and do look out

(05:17):
for the Erotic Evolutionpodcast coming soon.
There's probably a link tofollow me on Spotify and all the
other places by the time I getthis up.
All right, I will see youtomorrow.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Thanks for listening to this episode of the good, the
bad and the sexy.
I hope that it served you insome way and, if it did, please
reach out to me on Instagram atthe good, the bad and the sexy
and tell me about it.
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It's so much more fun to talkthrough these things together.

(05:57):
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I look forward to connectingwith you again next time.
Ciao, for now.