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March 8, 2024 21 mins

In this week’s podcast, we dive deep into the ins and outs of building a sturdy foundation in marriage. I take you through a group coaching exercise, encouraging you to rate your marriages and personal mental health. We discuss the critical role appreciation, taking responsibility, open communication, and self-care play in fostering a healthy, vibrant marriage. 

 

We delve into the 'Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse' concept coined by the Gottman Institute, pinpointing the dangerous behaviors that could mark a marriage heading towards divorce. I also present how to recognize and replace these negative behaviors with healthier alternatives.

 

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Welcome

00:04 Building a Solid Foundation in Marriage

00:41 The Importance of Self-Assessment in Marriage

00:56 Understanding the Marriage Rating Scale

02:50 The Importance of Self-Care in Marriage

03:57 Marriage Coaching and Self-Study Options

05:53 Envisioning a Level 10 Marriage

06:54 Four Tactical Steps to Improve Your Marriage

08:41 Understanding the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Marriage

09:34 Practical Steps to Avoid the Four Horsemen

13:01 The Importance of Timeouts in Conflict Resolution

16:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

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