Is there a “right” number of times couples should be having sex—and what if your sex life looks different than you expected?
In this honest and thoughtful conversation, Brad and Marilyn sit down with renowned author and speaker Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy) to tackle some of the most asked (and misunderstood) questions around sex and marriage. From frequency to frustration, porn to pressure, and “needs” to discipleship, this episode reframes sex as something far deeper than a duty.
Dr. Slattery brings wisdom, clarity, and grace to topics most couples struggle to talk about, and offers practical next steps and powerful spiritual insight that will leave you encouraged.
You’ll learn:
• What “normal” sexual frequency actually means
• Why intimacy matters more than quantity
• How to talk about sex in a way that builds connection
• How porn distorts desire—and how to heal from it
• Why sexual discipleship is the missing piece for most couples
This is a must-listen episode for anyone who wants a stronger, more grace-filled marriage...especially in the bedroom.
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🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• How often should married couples have sex?
• What to do when spouses have mismatched sex drives
• Why sexual “needs” are often misunderstood in marriage
• The role of emotional connection in physical intimacy
• How porn affects marital sex—and how to heal from it
• What sexual discipleship is and why Christian couples need it
KEY VERSES:
📖 1 Corinthians 7
📖 1 Thessalonians 4:3–5
• Authentic Intimacy (Dr. Julie Slattery’s Ministry) – https://www.authenticintimacy.com
• God, Sex, and Your Marriage (Book) – https://www.authenticintimacy.com/resources/god-sex-and-your-marriage
• Java with Julie Podcast – https://www.authenticintimacy.com/podcast
• Surrendered Sexuality (New Book - July Release) – https://www.authenticintimacy.com/surrendered-sexuality
• Be Broken Ministries – https://www.bebroken.com
• Pure Desire Ministries – https://www.puredesire.org
• Celebrate Sex Book Series (Doug Rosenau)
• Enjoy (Cliff & Joyce Penner)
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