Why Your Blended Family Feels So Tough 😮‍💨

Blended families often step into marriage thinking the hardest part is behind them...then reality hits. In this powerful conversation, Brad sits down with Ron Deal, one of the leading voices in stepfamily ministry, to unpack why blended family life feels so complex and why those challenges are actually normal.

Ron explains why a blended marriage begins in the middle of a story, not the beginning, and how layers of loss, shifting traditions, co-parenting dynamics, and differing expectations create a level of complexity most couples never see coming. He also shares practical steps couples can take to reduce discouragement, build unity, and approach their home with grace instead of guilt.

Whether you’re part of a blended family, know someone who is, or serve in a church trying to support stepfamilies well, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and actionable hope.

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• Blended & Blessed – https://blendedandblessed.com
• Ron Deal’s Resources – https://rondeal.org
• Grace Marriage – https://gracemarriage.com


🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• Why blended families experience unique stress that feels “unexpected”
• The difference between coupleness and familyness — and why both matter
• How past loss, co-parenting, and household transitions impact stepfamily dynamics
• Why mixed traditions (holidays, rules, routines) cause conflict no one anticipates
• Why flexibility, patience, and learning are essential in stepfamily life
• How churches can better support blended families and why most don’t
• The importance of intentionality and ongoing marriage ministry in every church


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