Welcome back to The Growth Concept. In this episode, we’re diving into something that affects pretty much all of us at some point: relationships. But not just any kind of relationships —we’re talking about healthy connections and how to avoid getting caught up in the messy, confusing side of modern dating culture.
I’m joined by Kylie Feller, a clinical counselor and Level 3 Certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapist, who brings not only professional insight but also her own powerful healing journey into the conversation. Kylie’s passion is helping people move from patterns of pain to pathways of real connection — and that’s exactly what we get into.
Together, we explore:
- What makes a relationship truly healthy and sustainable
- How unresolved trauma can quietly shape who we’re attracted to and how we show up
- The myths we’re told about love, and why they keep us stuck
- How dating apps and fast-paced swipe culture are shifting how we relate — often in damaging ways
- Why self-awareness and healing are key if we want to attract the right kind of love
Kylie shares some real, relatable wisdom about the emotional chaos so many people face when dating in today’s world. She also talks about the signs that it might be time to pause dating altogether and focus on reconnecting with your authentic self first.
Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between — this episode will give you a fresh perspective on love, self-worth, and the kind of relationships you actually want to create.
🎧 Key Takeaways:
- Healthy relationships don’t start with finding “the” they start with you
- How to stop repeating old patterns and start dating with intention
- The emotional toll of swipe culture and what to do instead
- Why doing the inner work changes the love you attract
This episode isn’t about blaming dating culture — it’s about becoming more aware of how we’re navigating it and choosing something healthier.
If you’re ready to date differently, love more intentionally, and start showing up as your whole self in your relationships — hit play.
Kylies Resources
Insta: @KyliefellerIFS
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KylieFellerCounselor
IFS Daily Parts Journal Amazon https://www.amazon.com.au/Internal-Family-Systems-Daily-Journal/dp/B0CKFVP3G5
Insight Timer free resources : https://insighttimer.com/kyliefeller/
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