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June 11, 2024 27 mins

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Episode #38 of The Happiest Sad Person Podcast.

Join me, Alessandra, as I open up about my desire not to film today and my futile addiction to perfectionism (always to my own detriment). I also give my own spin on the notion that the grass is not greener on the other side and how social media makes me feel behind and depressed.

It's really an ode to the idea that there's nothing more hollow than fulfilling someone else's dreams.

So, listen to this pod -- and then go get those dreams, girl! [or guy, ambition don't discriminate here] !!

As always, email suggestions to 11jacobsa@gmail.com.

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Things mentioned in the video:

Why We Procrastinate About The Things We Care About

The Addiction of Seeking Perfection

Using Anger as Motivation

Humans Need to Belong (Sometimes to Our Detriment)

Kinship Altruism

Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst by Robert Sapolsky

Introduction to Genetics and Evolution Coursera Class

Rich Roll Podcast Clip about Showing Up on the Hard Days

The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy

Joey Diaz On Rogan

Richard lewis & Larry David -- A Match Made in Purgatory (in the best possible way)

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